That's a good question, Nigel: "TM, how do you go about deeper longer time period for hugs that way they can be more fully received? Typical hugs last only a few seconds. 7 is a stretch. A desired one though. Longer would be better. Do you ask specifally for a longer one. That way you can relax even more in the hug than usual". Can the HUGS last longer than a few seconds and is it OK to ask for a longer HUG? There are some SPECIAL women that I will HUG for more than 1 minute..even, the first time I HUG them. These women are, especially, responsive to my TOUCH. I can tell by the way they seem to NOT want me to STOP. They are having, orgasms...so am I! :lol: But, with MOST women, the HUG will last a few seconds. With greater confidence and experience the HUG can last longer. YES!..it's OK to ask to HUG her longer..."Would you like for me to HUG you longer"?..get her approval! TM Note: 1. GREAT questions, Nigel and Earl. They help me more finely define what I am talking about. Good insight about hugging and sexuality, Nigel. 2. I'm glad you have read this thread, Player.