What my baby cousin (re)taught me about game

That's a good question, Nigel:
"TM, how do you go about deeper longer time period for hugs that way they can be more fully received? Typical hugs last only a few seconds. 7 is a stretch. A desired one though. Longer would be better. Do you ask specifally for a longer one. That way you can relax even more in the hug than usual".

Can the HUGS last longer than a few seconds and is it OK to ask for a longer HUG?
There are some SPECIAL women that I will HUG for more than 1 minute..even, the first time I HUG them.
These women are, especially, responsive to my TOUCH. I can tell by the way they seem to NOT want me to STOP. They are having, orgasms...so am I! :lol:

But, with MOST women, the HUG will last a few seconds.
With greater confidence and experience the HUG can last longer.
YES!..it's OK to ask to HUG her longer..."Would you like for me to HUG you longer"?..get her approval!

TM

Note:
1. GREAT questions, Nigel and Earl. They help me more finely define what I am talking about.
Good insight about hugging and sexuality, Nigel.
2. I'm glad you have read this thread, Player.

Wow it's amazing seeing how far I've come.

TM, do you have tips on building emotional closeness?

PS. I really do want to get to that butt touch part. And you do this with multiple women? Do you grab the butt of women in front of other women you also grab butt of? I'm curious but Right now I'll focus on hugging and kissing.

Nigel said: "TM, do you have tips on building emotional closeness"?

You can whisper in her ear, while hugging her, of how much you enjoy hugging her and she feels soo good and soft.
The whole intent is for you to feel more comfortable doing this with many women.
Remember, you are NOT coming from a wimpy or NEEDY place, but, from a place of abundance and confidence.

Doing the "butt squeeze" can get you slapped or rejected.
It is OK during times when you become more friendly with her and NOT in public where there are many people.

TM

Awesome.

TM, I suggest you start that thread about Hugging and Comfort you mentioned earlier.

I have made hugging my focal point for this week, and I am going the route of getting comfortable with a solid goodbye hug.

"Here, let me give you a hug goodbye!"

And if it is weird/and/or not "intimate" enough...
"Wow, that was horrible get back here, we can do better!"

I have played "grab ass" a few times, with girls I had already K-closed, but I have also done it to every hot girl in my immediate vicinity once at a club/bar. I just started slapping and grabbing girl's asses. First time too LOL. One girl said "did you just grab my ass?!" I just turned to her, laughed and said, "Hell yeah, don't act like you didn't love it."

To contradict what TM said about getting slapped.....Soooo.... yes, you can get away with hugging/ass grabbing a bunch of girls infront of eachother, even ones you have not approached yet.:thumbup: You just need to own up to everything you say and do. It is risky, but I have done it at a 100% success rate.

Earl;

I can see that you are showing charisma and charm. You are outgoing and joke a lot...this is GREAT!
This means, you can get-away with, in a good way, with things that most men aren't able to get-away with.

I am NOT as outgoing as you are...I take a more reserved, but, confident stance with women.
(I met a man who is 70 years old, the other day. He was doing some of the things that you do!...HUGGING young women he just met, acting like he has known them for years, joking with them...I said to him, "That is what I am TRYING to tell men to do"!..he was, even, HUGGING, men!) :lol:


Earl said: " One girl said "did you just grab my ass?!" I just turned to her, laughed and said, "Hell yeah, don't act like you didn't love it."

Now, Earl..you MAY be violating a womans' boundaries..well, you are!
Depending on the circumstances, most women DON'T like some stranger grabbing their ass.
(I think, you may need to pull the pendulum back to a more NORMAL place...you'll learn by mistakes or by some women telling you to NOT do that.)

I DON'T always ask permission to HUG/kiss a woman when I say hello or goodbye. I am saying it more to see how well it works...I think I will get better results, overall.

TM