Women get most from tantra and polyamory

Oh, Boy!..TM has another article about Tantric Sex and this time, he includes polyamory.
I have not seen any research about children being better-off in a poly family. But, there could be some truth where there are several adults attending to the childs' needs.

WOMEN GET MOST FROM TANTRA AND POLYAMORY by Janet Kira Lessin,
http://www.schooloftantra.com

I live a tantric life. My man's my tantric devotee; he worships and adores me.
We make love at least twice each day. Our deep connection, nurtured by tantra and the yoga of service (bhakti) Sasha practices, nourish my heart and expand my soul. So when I advertise tantra and sixty men but only two women inquire, I feel frustrated, frustrated because I know what most women miss when they avoid
tantra.

Women get more from tantra than men. Tantra got popular on Earth when the tantric practices of the gods were promoted here for us humans by the goddess Inanna--not some man or even by a male god. Tantra --and polyamory as well--are extremely supportive of women. Yet how can I explain that to you women when you're so conditioned to fear sex? Tantra--making love, experiencing your lover surrender to his own sexual goddess--is precisely what you need. Tantra can create most what you want most--love, security and intimacy.

Unfortunately the public mind associates tantra with prostitution. Women don't respond to my tantra ads as enthusiastically as men because the word "tantra" brings to mind sex workers' pitch that tantra's a method of ejaculatory control.
A sex worker may even rap about energy and chakras to promote sessions. She advertises in newspaper adult sections. She says she'll train a man to control ejaculation but in the session gives him a hand job till he fails at control. I urge sex workers who use tantra in their sessions to stop using tantra as a prostitution buzzword. Instead, support couples and primary relationships more,
rather than take money so men can lie, cheat and sneak behind their partners.
Perhaps you could help them communicate and make love better. Truth frees us all.

Since I live a tantric life with a tantric partner, I know that tantra, done right, fulfills women. Women need lots more love, attention and affection than they've been getting. A woman's life is tough, full of hard work; she gets little appreciation.

When a man becomes her devotee, his life runs smoother. He creates a circle, a bond of sacred love. He appreciates his woman and women in general. He learns how to access, in himself, her genius, innate wisdom, oneness with nature, people and the universe.

Men and women think differently. Our brains operate differently. Women's brains naturally allow data flow over the corpus callosum between the right and left cerebral hemispheres. Boy's brains are more segmented and slowly develop lateral, feminine thinking over time, unless the they learn feminine thinking in relationship with a woman or the feminine side of another man. Women also
naturally connect more to the sensitive, emotional side of life than do men.

When a man connects in tantra with a woman, he weaves his own inner feminine into his life. He uses her multilinear emotional, intuitive model help him feel more, think more creatively. When a man taps into the feminine through his goddess, he integrates his inner feminine thinking and sensitivity to feelings
into his conscious choices (while she absorbs the lessons of his segmented, linear, focused thinking). Tantra involves consciously weaving their separate consciousnesses into a paired consciousness broader than reaches alone. They live in partnership, balanced within and equals on their team.

If a man is tantric devotee to his goddess, she gets more orgasmic and eager to make love. When she directs the action, she naturally wants to be closer. If he enters his woman's world and is sweet, loving, and sexually tantric, he gets the sex, love and intimacy he, too, craves. Their dance flows naturally; they find giving and receiving are the same, two sides of the same coin. They both
give and receive more. And since they make love more, the day's stress chemicals dissipate. She relaxes about work, kids. So women do get more from tantra. They get more from polyamory too.

Polyamory is mostly for women. We need more help raising kids. Before the 1950s homes often included aunts and grandparents–several generations of family to help with children. The nuclear family, and now the single parent family are recent, more stressful norms. A single parent or even two people are not enough to meet all kids' needs.

Besides the monetary support children require, they need lots of stimulation.
Stimulation really shouldn't be TV and video games–they cause Altzheimers. Kids need many role models and teachers to stimulate them, help their minds become more expansive and grow. When children have many teachers who know them, love them and really care for them, they learn more. A variety of teachers help children's brains develop. When children feel comfortable and safe, they open
more. They learn vital skills such as the ability to reason and problem solve.
This more expansive world allows children's brains to expand, enhances memory and fosters greater intelligence. Children in tribes learn survival, fun, love, creativity and successful relationships from multiple teachers. They imprint many role models, not just one or two. With more role models they can better
determine who they are and not just duplicate or reject their immediate parents, which is what happens so often in nuclear families.

Poly parents who share child-rearing aren't saddled with the total responsibility for nurturing kids. Parents have more time for themselves to pursue their own interests; they're happier parents, which results in happier kids. Poly can provide the village it takes to raise a child. When the village helps, everyone benefits. The children are the future of our community and world. They're yours whether you birthed them or not. They will take over this
planet and they're all we've got. We must all care for them to create better adults and a more loving world.

When I was young I lived in a neighborhood where everyone knew each other. We may not have been a tribe, but we were the next best thing as parents were able to help one another and relieve each other of duties and stress. The mothers could relax a bit not always having to focus on their children. This relief helped the moms keep a little more sanity than if they had been saddled with
watching their children 24/7 with no relief.

Polyamory gives women more sexually, as well as giving them more in child-rearing. Women's bodies are perfectly suited for multiple lovers. When she cuts lose and is totally sexual, she can wear out many men and still be ready to go for hours. Poly women also have more support with multiple
partners. Most men can't stay focused on a woman as long as she needs to get all her needs met. If you're heterosexual and polyamorous, you have more men to share with, not only sexually, but emotionally. If you're bisexual and polyamorous, you have both male and female partners to enjoy. Gay polyamorous women also benefit from more lovers.

Tantra and polyamory can benefit individuals and humanity. Though polyamory may not be for everyone, tantra certainly is. More and more people are also finding fulfillment in polyamory. More than one love, polyamory, is a valuable option for you. The United States was founded on the principal that everyone
has the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Since polyamory makes many people very happy, it's certainly an inalienable right and very much Constitutional.
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