Don’t you hate it when you see a beautiful woman walking by and you just freeze up, you just hang there like you’re frozen and you hesitate. And you know in your hearts of hearts that you should go up and introduce yourself or say hello, and yet your feet are just like blocks of concrete and you can’t move. And then the girl walks on by and you lose that opportunity forever.
Everything that happens in pickup with girls is on your shoulders. Generally, girls will not help you at all.
“Energy and persistence can conquer all things.” That’s a quote from Benjamin Franklin.
One of the biggest problems I see with guys first getting into pickup is that they lack grit. They lack determination. They lack persistence.
In today’s tip, I want to share you a socially awkward story. It’s happened to me numerous times where I’m with a pretty girl at a social function, and another guy will come up to us and introduce himself, but the way he does it is simply socially inept.
Some guys delude themselves with the idea that a slow seduction dragged out over several dates is the “proper” society approved method of courtship and is the most appropriate way to enjoy physical intimacy with the woman of his interest.
I want to touch on the subject of whether you should pay on dates.
Now the normal society cultural conditioning answer is that you must be the gentleman. You must always pay for the girl on the first date.
Imagine an America where all the women are physically fit with hot bodies… instead of flabby and overweight.
Imagine an America where even the older women in their 40s and 50s are rocking hot bodies and keeping up appearances… instead of hitting the wall at age 25.