How To Approach A Girl You Don’t Know And Get Her Digits

To cold approach a woman, if you say something INTERESTING, if you are WITTY and CHARMING and FUNNY, then you are almost GUARANTEED to get her info.

But on the first cold approach, that isn’t even necessary. Just avoid saying something like how you want to suck all the milk out of her, and you’ll do fine.

I know a guy who goes up to women all the time and delivers some variant of “Hi, I’m practicing talking to attractive women without being nervous, so thank you for letting me say hi.” Usually that piques their interest. He gets the numbers of about half of them.

Sounds unbelievable, doesn’t it? All this time you thought there was a magic key, but the truth is you can say almost anything to start a conversation! More important is HOW you say it, WITHOUT NERVES.

So now we come to homework time. Think about situations where you tend to see attractive women. Now think of various things you can say to start a conversation. Funny is best, and if you can mix some cocky in there, you should be golden.

For instance, back in the grocery store, on a cold approach you can make some comment about the products on the shelves. If you can get a laugh or a smile out of her, introduce yourself immediately after, ask her for number after about two or three minutes of conversation, and walk away.

Cold approaching is that easy.

If you can’t think of anything funny, you can always ask for advice. Especially if you need a WOMAN’S advice.

For example, say you’re in a clothing store and a lovely lady walks by. You can say something like ‘Excuse me, but I’m thinking of buying a shirt to go out in this weekend, and I want to look GOOD. Which do you like?” A couple minutes of conversation, get her info, and you’re set.

It’s that easy.

In fact, cold approaching much easier than you’d believe. Women will give out their info A LOT more easily than you’d imagine. This is true in basically any situation, save funerals, unless you religiously believe in The Wedding Crashers.

Really, the only thing you need to cold approach is get your confidence up and just TALK TO HER. So this week, go out and talk to 10 girls. Once you’ve started you’ll see how easy it can be and want to talk to more, but consider your first 10 practice, just to get yourself conversing with them in a normal way.

The more relaxed you are the better, so the more women you approach the better you’ll become (surprising, isn’t it). Have a list of funny openers for different situations to get yourself started, but chances are you’ll grow out of that in not too much time.

Even if you don’t, you should still be fine.

Of course, getting email and numbers on a cold approach is only the FIRST STEP, and doesn’t guarantee you’ll get where you want to go. One thing that really isn’t that important, though, is the lines you use.

8 thoughts on “How To Approach A Girl You Don’t Know And Get Her Digits”

  1. A while back I went out to a club with a litst of openers in my phone… i wanted to test which ones would work best…

    I don’t remember the list but one of them was “Hey, I’m looking for a good opening line… do you know one?”… I don’t know the exact wording but it was something like that…

    And all women said “good opening lines don’t exist” or “the one you’re using now is good”…

    I stopped caring about “what do I say” for a while now… and I like David Wygant’s “observational openers”… just starting a conversation based on a simple observation…

  2. So it’s not what you say…
    i’v gone upto girls and cold approached them by saying “your sexy” and they might just say thankyou or carry on walking.
    They didn’t show an interest in me from saying that.
    What could i do better?

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