A Bizarre, Yet Wildly Effective Way To Meet Girls – Blossoming, Lovespace, and Blissplosion Explained

Here I am going to get into the very heart of Blissnosis Love, the formula of Blissnosis Love.  This is important material that turns everything you know about pickup upside down on its head, so you have to listen up very closely.

Look, what’s the top fears of any guy?  First, the fear of being alone.  We don’t want our youth to slip by or to die without having the experience of a beautiful woman in our arms.  Beautiful on the outside, but also beautiful on the inside.  That’s understandable.

And a second top fear is the fear of looking like a failure or experiencing humiliation in front your friends or other people and looking bad.  That’s why we’re after a woman to love but that’s also why cold approaching women can seem like such a nerve wracking chore sometimes.  Not to mention the amount of time that goes into it.  Not so glorious.

That’s where Blissnosis Love comes in.  Meeting more women, meeting, higher quality women, and taking most of the cold approaching out of the equation.

Blissnosis Love stands on three concepts, on three pillars and I’m going to explain each of the three pillars individually, and then at the end I’ll connect the dots and explain how they all come together so you’ll want to stick through to the end.

The three pillars are, number one, “Blossoming”.  Number two “Lovespace”.  And pillar number three is what’s called “Blissplosion”.

The first pillar is “Blossoming”.

Here’s the problem with traditional pickup, seduction, cold approaching… whatever you want to call it!  You are the one chasing after the women.  You are the one chasing after value.

You see a woman, she’s hot, she has the value, and you go chasing after her.  Walking up, say hello, try to attract her, try to win her.  Just by the act of cold approaching women, you are automatically set in the frame of the chaser.  This puts the power into the woman’s hands and it can be stressful.

Really however, ideally, YOU want to be the one producing and giving value, not to be chasing after it.  YOU want to be the epicenter of the value that the WOMEN chase after.

When the women are coming up to you, that takes all the stress out of the equation and makes it fun.

Here’s the secret: instead of chasing beautiful women, chasing after the external value, YOU can become the PRODUCER of value.

Instead of looking for the hand-outs and the dog scraps from the boss, you can take over the factory and become the boss yourself, the guy producing the value.

Take your typical hot girl at a club or bar.  In reality, she’s hot because she spent hours on her makeup, hours on getting her hair straight, she spent hours in the salon doing her nails and getting her highlights, she invested money into her spray-on tan and her brilliant green eye colored contacts.  She’s probably enduring hours of pain in her 3 inch heels and push up bra that makes her breasts look three times bigger.

In the morning, when the makeup and clothes come off and her hair is a messy nest, she looks pretty much like any other plain Jane.

In other words, your average hot girl you see on the street didn’t start that way in the morning.

In addition, attractive women on the surface have all sorts of emotional problems underneath.

They’re typically insecure, often spoiled, often bitchy, often they’re drama queens.  Many of them are socially inept, are uninteresting people.  Many go through wild mood swings and have depressive episodes.  Many are addicted to drugs or are alcoholics.  Even though you might be wishing for a real hottie in your fantasies, in reality they can often drive you completely crazy as girlfriends.

Even the hot ones with a head on their shoulders, many times they’re completely timid in bed, they’re sexual inexperienced and naive.  They don’t know how to rock your world how you might fantasize in your head.

So that perfect dream girl… really you often have to do thousands of walk-ups, thousands of cold approaches to find her, and it can take FOREVER, even if you’re getting makeouts and new dates every week.  Just look at all the pickup gurus out there, most of them haven’t even found and stuck with a quality girlfriend.  And if you still have approach anxiety meaning you’re not meeting lots of new women each week, wow, you have a looong road ahead of you.

But what if you could BUILD dream girls, what if you could BUILD those Perfect 10s, pump them out like a factory, be the manufacturing plant of female hotness, right in your own home or apartment.  So instead of chasing after external value, you are the source of its production and you can harness all that value to work FOR you.

Blossoming

In other words, you take the common Plane Jane’s, and you guide them so that their light, their expression, their Tensation, their smile, their radiance and glow, Blossoms open like a glorious butterfly from its cocoon.  So that they’re laughing and singing and dancing and have a beautiful, open, healing energy that they just want to reach out and touch others with.

So while other women have that standoffish, negative energy, she is the one bringing the beauty to the room, the splendor, the blinding light, a state so powerful it overwhelms others, she is the chocolate, the ice-cream, the wine, the flowers in both her outer appearance and inner splendor.

And from that other women will want more than a taste, they will be hooked, they will be attracted and coming up to you and the women you’re with for a piece of that glorious state.

That’s Blossoming… what I call Starlight girls…. a woman letting go of the social conditioning that causes her to be a bitch or be plain and instead radiate raw attraction and sexy star power, and share her glow and rays through expression and Tensation.  Blossoming, it’s what causes women to perk up around you and be immensely open to talking with you.

In essence, you bring value by teaching women to bring value and in doing so making them your biggest fans and advocates and having them be the attractors for you.

So no longer are you search for those elusive Perfect 9s and 10s, but YOU are the factory of what everyone is chasing after, that outer beauty and the inner beauty, which the women themselves are chasing after.  And this is the secret to turning pickup upside down on its head.

The key is mastering the Hand of Starlight, to become a Starlight guide, and it’s really not difficult at all to do.

Take a look at this photo, and I’ve included it right below the video so that you can click on it for a zoomed-in view.  This photo was taken at a competition in June 2006.  The competition was between nine women for the best makeover.

These nine women had every possible beauty treatment available to them over a period of twelve hours before the contest.  Meaning they had only TWELVE hours to get ready, so no plastic surgery.  Only makeup, hair, skin conditioning, and clothing.

Take a look at the photo close up.  In the top row you’ll see the nine women—none of them are exactly your perfect 10s that would make you trip over yourself to meet.  And look at the bottom row.  Blossoming of the outer appearance to look radiantly feminine with hair, makeup, and the right clothing.

That’s Blossoming outer appearance, and combined with Blossoming the inner woman, you become the factory and master of goddesses, of inner and outer transformation of women from their walled cocoons of social conditioning and limiting beliefs into beautiful butterflies in every sense from her inner majestic beauty, to her sexuality, to her outer splendor, that overwhelms other women with their light and can do all the attraction for you, meaning now more pain, loneliness, or dealing with brutal cold approaching again.

Lovespace

Blossoming, okay that’s the first leg.  But there is more.  This is not so easy, I said before you have to put some time and study into this.  The second leg of the formula is Lovespace.

Lovespace is the master tool for bringing love and light and joy and tranquility to a woman’s inner self.

Lovespace is the master tool for forging a beautiful woman out of a simple seed into a glorious force of unstoppable beauty so that a total transformation takes place from the gleam in her eyes, to the beam in her smile, to the softening warmth of her heart.

Lovespace is the secret to bringing out a woman’s full sexuality so that she’s completely free from social conditioning and free and eager to please you and do the meeting and greeting and shining value for you so that when you go out you are a like a lightning hammer of attraction that just draws women in.

Lovespace consists of two parts, ‘Love’ and secondly, ‘Space’.  Love is teaching women new things like Tensation, expression, Blossoming her sexuality, Blossoming her in every way.

But women, molded by social conditioning, have many bad habits, insecurities, unnecessary drama in their lives.  Their will be roadblocks and speed bumps along the way in their evolution, so with the Love you’ll also be conversely creating Space.  Space is the ‘Push’ to really help the woman step out of her bad habits and the drama and blossom into Starlight.

I’d like to go into Lovespace more, but let’s leave it at that because there’s just a lot to cover here.

Blissplosion

The third leg that you need with Blossoming and Lovespace is Blissplosion.

You’re the producer of value, you’re the factory where the hottest, most desirable women on the planet can Blossom into being.

When you bring that shining Starlight woman to a nightclub or a bar or a social party, or even to a daytime venue like a bookstore, this is when Blissplosion rocks the venue like a small earthquake.

Just lean back and let the Bliss explosion hit the fan, letting your Starlight girls do the attraction and meeting and greeting work for you.

It’s in this way that you’re not starting from scratch every time you meet a new girl, you don’t have to chase after her value every time you meet someone new.  Instead, YOU have produced value from the women you’ve already met from before and you can just build your circle of value and beautiful women bigger and bigger with time.

Love Circles

And from there you can begin building your Love Circle.  Instead of juggling lots of women and hiding them from each other, or using women coldly, Starlight girls are totally cool with the other women in your life, so that you can gradually build a Love Circle of women that you see on a regular basis, a Circle of 3 or 5 or even 10 or more women.

The girls in your Love Circle don’t live with you, it’s not a harem situation, they keep their own lives, but as Starlight girls it’s like a loving community of sexually free women who are also the hottest, most advanced both internally and externally and they are there for you, as lovers, as friends, as companions.

And again it’s this Love Circle dynamic which is key because it’s relationships that are what’s fun.  Not string of one night stands, that is not what I’m teaching.  It’s keeping ongoing relationships with cool and sexually sophisticated women that is what will ultimately bring you long term joy and happiness in your life.

And best of all, all the women in your Circle will really love your for it, for showing them and teaching them new aspects of her sexuality, for opening her up to the magical gifts of Tensation, Expression, female polarity, and other life-changing frames.

So you can begin to see here how all of the cold approaching is taken out of the equation, and with each girl you bring into your life you can build a stable of sexual social value that is a gift, a joy to everyone that comes in touch with it.  Each girl you meet builds for the future women to be touched.

And your looks, age, height don’t matter because you’re building value and building attraction in a revolutionary way that has nothing to do with looks or age and yet far surpasses it.

And in the process you build better girlfriends, women that don’t cause you drama but instead look up to you, admire you, worship you for all the gifts you give them, and you truly transform them from the inside to the outside into mesmerizing dream girls.

You have variety and flexibility, if you want to meet new women each week you can, if you want to build a steady circle or two or three girls you can go that route, it’s a very flexible system for designing a relationship structure that fits your needs.  But no matter what it is you choose, this is about building solid relationships of mutual joy, trust, sharing, and community.  This isn’t about juggling a bunch of girlfriends, here all the girls are one big friendship family, and it’s not about getting a fast lay and dumping the girl right after or using the girls just for sex or being a jerk.

After all you are giving value, so much more than value than you would otherwise, you’re making the women you meet far better people and showing them the way to true inner happiness.  This is about making the girls you’re with your biggest fans, your biggest raving supporters, making them enthusiastic advocates and activists for you.

Compare that to regular pickup formulas, to cold approaching, where you have to do a million nerve-wracking approaches to practice, starting from scratch with no social value each and every time you approach, and it’s often based on trickery and where the girls are used for sex and thereafter dumped and left no better off for having met you.  Just not cool.

Ecosystem and more

Now I just outlined the broad principles here, the devil is in the details and I’d have to expand on each section.  For example I still need to go into what’s the difference between Seed Girls, Firecrackers, and Starlight girls and where they all fit into the scheme of things.  I need to go over Masculine Polarity, like a woman, in order to transform her, needs to know that she is around a force that is stronger than she is, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that she can relax into her femininity and follow your lead.

I need to talk about Ecosystem.  You want to get to the point where the positive energy of the girls bounce and feed each other, in a synergistic feedback, so that 1 + 1 = 3, mutually reinforcing each other in a virtuous circle.  So creating a nourishing environment for Blissnosis from the bedroom, to your house, to the very fabric of our societal customs is absolutely key too.

But just with what you’ve got so far, this should give you the basic idea of how it all works.

And as you can see this is NOT some kind of get-laid-quick scheme.  It can happen quickly, very quickly, but you will still need to put some work and dedication into it, it’s not an escape, it’s not a quick fix, it’s just a different path, a healthier path to reach your goals.

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Larry Sawell
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Larry Sawell
What if you’ve already blown it with a girl? she is a co-worker. I was a complete gentleman, gave her gifts on her birthday and Christmas. I tried to console her and cheer her up when she complained about her former boyfriend. All of a sudden she goes cold doesn’t talk to me, avoids me. she accused me of honing in I guess too soon after she broke up with another guy. I had no intention of doing that (yet) but she got pissed off and exiled me. I wrote her an email with some material on flowers and she… Read more »
Mr. Pabitra
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Mr. Pabitra
Hi Jesse, Going through you writings/your experiences, I am getting a feeling that we have been on the same wave lenght on this Important Subject . You really are doing a Great Service to both the species – The Male n The Female . I m sure you must be having Female subscriber and they enjoy as much as we enjoy reading You . Keep up the Service , let me have something New which I may not be aware of. Hurry up. Wish You Many Happy n Exciting Writing Days. Param.
Roberto
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Roberto

Hi, Jesse;
You can count me aboard your journey. Your concepts are in-line with my beliefs and expected lifestyle.
Roberto

Joe
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Joe

Jesse,

I have to say how intiruging this all seems to me. I’ve recently embarked on a new path in life, and your discussion appears to flow perpendicular to this particular direction. I’d love to hear more of your ideas

Take care,
Joe

Douglas
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Douglas

Hi Jesse,
I am in Cape Town South Africa is there any other ay for me to get hold of your program so tha I ca set up this amazing circle of ladies, if you can help me it would be so great.
Thanks and kind regards
Doug

Raymond
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Raymond

Would like to learn more.

jerry P
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jerry P

OK….I’m ready for some real information.

Ron Madison
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Ron Madison

This is awesome. Lay it out for us, this is something needed in the relationship space. Something new that brings men and women together in an exciting way that benefits both. I’d love to hear more about all of these concepts.

Jaaayy
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Jaaayy

Hi Jesse,

I really enjoyed this video and I am really glad there is someone like you out there teaching us men the real path to reaching true happiness with women and with ourselves.

JadeDragon
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JadeDragon

i’m not usually slow on things like this, but i am on this one. What of if you r in some place alone like…… at the gym and you see a girl you admire.You’re not going to approach her, instead you suppose to….use the happy energy you have from all the girl’s you’ve met? what of if you’ve never had something with a girl? this might sound stupid but i comfused men!!

Tom
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Tom
Thanks for the information wow! some how your e-mail found its way to my in box, thank god for that. I’m more advanced in the pick up field but this is great information. I’m now finding way more women then men who are single. I have been trying to help them change to some degree. the changes that I helped them make have made me more popular than ever. Just riding the wave it’s getting bigger every day. You are so right with the path you have chosen. The biggest problem I have found is that they give up easy,… Read more »
Hilton
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Hilton

Hi,

I am interested in helping. I have helped a few women in this way and I can assure you that it does work. And we are fab friends for the last 8 years. I have found that love is the key.

Hilton

olowofela femi
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olowofela femi

hi i am intrested in gettingone

John Doe
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John Doe

Not too sure if this is useful. Why spend time and energy making ugly women less ugly?

Dolce Vita
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Dolce Vita

I’m a divorced,fit man in his 40’s with a young heart and mature perspective.I’m having the time of my life ‘ re-discovering ‘ women’ and what your talking about is exactly the kind of lifestyle I’m working on creating.Keep it up ; )
Franco
BTW Jesse – As Derick Vitalo I imagined you as some slick tan euro 007 looking guy living in Monte Carlo,now that I see your a ‘ real guy ‘ it makes your ideas and what you say even more credable 🙂

alex
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alex

Sounds very complex and heavy,best for you to get into motorbikes more fun and less hard work.

one guy
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one guy
Hi there Jesse, I’m a LONG time subscriber here, not always reading your stuff, but every now and again I come back to it, for as long as 5-6 years now. Actually your stuff (newsletter) was my first contact with the PUA world, and I can remember even to this day, the one newsletter that changed my ideas about what’s possible with girls. The main part was about kissing: while out on a date, ask the girl: ‘Can I kiss you?’ and if she says ANYTHING ELSE BUT ‘NO’ – then go for it. I tried it one time with… Read more »
metalraygear
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metalraygear

I would love to know more, but are you going to get into specifics? Like how to find a starlight girl? I am so nervous around beautiful girls that I can bearly talk to them.

Marcy Ganz
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Love your material. I think it is great to empower men and give them the tools they need to find the right woman.

Bazza
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Bazza

Dude

A totally cool idea.. I have stopped gettin into this stuff a long time ago, but for years I’ve thought most cold approaches to be forced but couldn’t see a way around it.. I’m in!

Bazza

aaditya sharma
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aaditya sharma

,, i want to make freindship with a lady of atleast 35/37 ,, for fun n discreet relationship

vitthal
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Dan
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Dan
quick question Derek(hope you read this…) last year I began changing my vision about meeting, approaching and getting women in my life, as a result of what I read from you and other beautiful minds…Shortly i was having a lot of fun and plenty of girls around me. After a while dough, I began a relationship with one of them witch i like a lot, and she became practically the one girl for me. So my question would be. Do you think you program could be applied to my situation? because though I like the girl, I feel the need… Read more »
Prabhat
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हस्सी ने लबों पे तिरकना छोड़ दिया है
ख्वाबों ने पलकों पे आना छोड़ दिया है
नही आती अब तो हिचकियाँ भी,
शायद आप ने भी याद करना छोड़ दिया

Prabhat
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hiiiiiiiiiii every one how r u????????/

Vega
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Vega

I dont understand, are we supposed to pick up one ugly girl and make her attractive, then have her pick up other girls for us? and if so where are we supposed to pick them up, they probably wont be at clubs or bars. For me, i enjoy going to clubs and bars and approaching women, so could this method of attraction be used at the club or is it not for me?

Kano
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Kano

Powerful stuff bro…now you’re beginning to become enlighten….the journey now..becomes different…..stay on your path…..

Sam
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Sam

I am very excited about this new ground breaking proposal you’ve laid out, and can’t wait to better understand its full complexity. I’ve been waiting for this like a kid at Christmas!! I love women, and can’t stand it when guys treat them like dirt, and leave them unhappy. Your program will teach men to be better people, and get them beautiful starlight girls in the process. I’m a true believer Jesse, and can’t wait to see what else you have in store for us! -Sam

Archie
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Archie

Brilliant! Can’t wait to see more!

Ahmed Tijani
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Ahmed Tijani

Hi all member view,
wow it is right time to show apperciation of what this wonderful guy is doing to the world guy, so I dedicated this day to you as a matter of fact. But today your vedio is very slow why no time again I’ll view it tomorrow ok.
TJ

luis
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luis

I´d like to see about this program, but I can tell you that in my country I douby it would work. Any way do it, sounds interesting.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Magically, I am already at this concept just a about a week before I read this post.

I just want to tell everyone that everything you read is not as it seem. You are the centre of your live, just do your path. We’re all have a beautiful life.

Alfre
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Alfre

Hey Jesse,

This is really exciting! I’m so glad someone has made an effort to find a method of seduction that doesn’t involve treachery. I’m looking forward to seeing your future videos.

Chelton Knight
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Chelton Knight

Hey Jesse, I think this is the best program ever Im really excited about the upcoming inner details. Im also curious to see your case studies and would like for you to tell us more about your lifestyle and whats it like to be the great Jesse Charger in everyday situations with your girlfriend/girlfriends. How has all this improved your life Jesse?

Thanks for helping out average guys like us looking forward to your next video.

Chelton

Jeremiah
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Jeremiah

Jesse i really want to here more about this concept. To me this is the most revulationary thing ive heard yet, Because ive been in the pickup community for awhile now and im still not getting what i deserve with girls. If this can make my life better and the women im with lives better id love to hear more of what you have to say because im ready for change

Pirate D
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Pirate D

Very interesting. As much as I like it, it does raise a question in my mind in that sexual tension is such a big part of keeping things interesting for women and how that would play into the environment being created. Really like the concepts and would love to learn more.

Bryan
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Bryan

yeeeeaaaa booyyyyyyyyyyy!

joe
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joe

this looks awesome, would love to see a product like this get made

Navin
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Navin

Derek/Jesse you are the man! I’ve been following your principles since many years ago in the early days of Seduction Science. I’ve always thought you were far and away more advanced than Matador or Tyler D. or Cockknocker. Your concepts are next generation.

Blissnosis Love looks to be your best product yet!!!

Can’t wait for more.

kevin
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kevin

Thanx for the video’s.. I totally agree with the system, and would like to know more about it..
I used to go out with a group of attractive females, and It definitely worked.. girls came to me in the clubs approaching.. I want to understand more of it, and how to use the blissnosis properly to meet the best girls for me..

james
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james

This sounds like some great stuff Jesse! I’ve been trying to do some stuff like this on a smaller scale with my own girlfriend. However, i’m perplexed on what to do when you’re trying to build each of these girls up internally and externally so that they feel no jealousy about the other women. How do you do that?

Leon Foxx
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Leon Foxx

Great stuff man! I like all the terminology you created. It all sounds fun!

Did you develop this material shortly after your trip to South America?

Out of curiousity what is your current relationship status?

Best wishes.

Mark Hunton
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This is what we were doing in the late 70’s and early 80’s in the Osho commune in India. It’s all about chillin and putting out the vibe. Basically your teaching people about Tantra. Good for you! My son is 16 and I’ve been explaining this to him. Of coarse me being the father, he thinks I don’t know shit, so I’ll turn him onto your site and see what he says. Asian women are very receptive to vibes, they feel it and dig the love vibe and are easy to deal with, playful and innocent. It’s not about just… Read more »
Sam
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Sam
This is wahat the whole natural humanity is al about. Everything will be true as Jessy said; you have to belive it first, force yourself to live with that attitude, and never hesitate. You have to love it and not only love it but burn for that and almost worship that. belive what you have defiend as true for you and live after that. Everyone Please tray to undersatan what Jesse is telling us between the lines what caind of attitude personality you should have, and do not stop there but be creative and help Jessy if you have something… Read more »
TG Parker
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TG Parker

I have all of your previous work… and that was excellent, state of the art, dating technology for it’s time, so I eagerly await your new work…

TG

Iceman
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Iceman

That is so great.
I feel like this is the real deal
Please keep it up
I want to know more!!!!!!!!!

Brent
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Brent

Stoked to be a part of it man!Really appreciate all your effort!! Looking forward to the next video!

Rustem
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Rustem

Jesse, you are the men))!!!
This was very encouraging video. You’ve truly charged my mind with those ideas which will help me with the women I want to meet. Thank you Jesse, you’ve truly helped))!!!

bill
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bill

hell yea there’s interest!!

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