Here I am going to get into the very heart of Blissnosis Love, the formula of Blissnosis Love. This is important material that turns everything you know about pickup upside down on its head, so you have to listen up very closely.
Look, what’s the top fears of any guy? First, the fear of being alone. We don’t want our youth to slip by or to die without having the experience of a beautiful woman in our arms. Beautiful on the outside, but also beautiful on the inside. That’s understandable.
And a second top fear is the fear of looking like a failure or experiencing humiliation in front your friends or other people and looking bad. That’s why we’re after a woman to love but that’s also why cold approaching women can seem like such a nerve wracking chore sometimes. Not to mention the amount of time that goes into it. Not so glorious.
That’s where Blissnosis Love comes in. Meeting more women, meeting, higher quality women, and taking most of the cold approaching out of the equation.
Blissnosis Love stands on three concepts, on three pillars and I’m going to explain each of the three pillars individually, and then at the end I’ll connect the dots and explain how they all come together so you’ll want to stick through to the end.
The three pillars are, number one, “Blossoming”. Number two “Lovespace”. And pillar number three is what’s called “Blissplosion”.
The first pillar is “Blossoming”.
Here’s the problem with traditional pickup, seduction, cold approaching… whatever you want to call it! You are the one chasing after the women. You are the one chasing after value.
You see a woman, she’s hot, she has the value, and you go chasing after her. Walking up, say hello, try to attract her, try to win her. Just by the act of cold approaching women, you are automatically set in the frame of the chaser. This puts the power into the woman’s hands and it can be stressful.
Really however, ideally, YOU want to be the one producing and giving value, not to be chasing after it. YOU want to be the epicenter of the value that the WOMEN chase after.
When the women are coming up to you, that takes all the stress out of the equation and makes it fun.
Here’s the secret: instead of chasing beautiful women, chasing after the external value, YOU can become the PRODUCER of value.
Instead of looking for the hand-outs and the dog scraps from the boss, you can take over the factory and become the boss yourself, the guy producing the value.
Take your typical hot girl at a club or bar. In reality, she’s hot because she spent hours on her makeup, hours on getting her hair straight, she spent hours in the salon doing her nails and getting her highlights, she invested money into her spray-on tan and her brilliant green eye colored contacts. She’s probably enduring hours of pain in her 3 inch heels and push up bra that makes her breasts look three times bigger.
In the morning, when the makeup and clothes come off and her hair is a messy nest, she looks pretty much like any other plain Jane.
In other words, your average hot girl you see on the street didn’t start that way in the morning.
In addition, attractive women on the surface have all sorts of emotional problems underneath.
They’re typically insecure, often spoiled, often bitchy, often they’re drama queens. Many of them are socially inept, are uninteresting people. Many go through wild mood swings and have depressive episodes. Many are addicted to drugs or are alcoholics. Even though you might be wishing for a real hottie in your fantasies, in reality they can often drive you completely crazy as girlfriends.
Even the hot ones with a head on their shoulders, many times they’re completely timid in bed, they’re sexual inexperienced and naive. They don’t know how to rock your world how you might fantasize in your head.
So that perfect dream girl… really you often have to do thousands of walk-ups, thousands of cold approaches to find her, and it can take FOREVER, even if you’re getting makeouts and new dates every week. Just look at all the pickup gurus out there, most of them haven’t even found and stuck with a quality girlfriend. And if you still have approach anxiety meaning you’re not meeting lots of new women each week, wow, you have a looong road ahead of you.
But what if you could BUILD dream girls, what if you could BUILD those Perfect 10s, pump them out like a factory, be the manufacturing plant of female hotness, right in your own home or apartment. So instead of chasing after external value, you are the source of its production and you can harness all that value to work FOR you.
In other words, you take the common Plane Jane’s, and you guide them so that their light, their expression, their Tensation, their smile, their radiance and glow, Blossoms open like a glorious butterfly from its cocoon. So that they’re laughing and singing and dancing and have a beautiful, open, healing energy that they just want to reach out and touch others with.
So while other women have that standoffish, negative energy, she is the one bringing the beauty to the room, the splendor, the blinding light, a state so powerful it overwhelms others, she is the chocolate, the ice-cream, the wine, the flowers in both her outer appearance and inner splendor.
And from that other women will want more than a taste, they will be hooked, they will be attracted and coming up to you and the women you’re with for a piece of that glorious state.
That’s Blossoming… what I call Starlight girls…. a woman letting go of the social conditioning that causes her to be a bitch or be plain and instead radiate raw attraction and sexy star power, and share her glow and rays through expression and Tensation. Blossoming, it’s what causes women to perk up around you and be immensely open to talking with you.
In essence, you bring value by teaching women to bring value and in doing so making them your biggest fans and advocates and having them be the attractors for you.
So no longer are you search for those elusive Perfect 9s and 10s, but YOU are the factory of what everyone is chasing after, that outer beauty and the inner beauty, which the women themselves are chasing after. And this is the secret to turning pickup upside down on its head.
The key is mastering the Hand of Starlight, to become a Starlight guide, and it’s really not difficult at all to do.
Take a look at this photo, and I’ve included it right below the video so that you can click on it for a zoomed-in view. This photo was taken at a competition in June 2006. The competition was between nine women for the best makeover.
These nine women had every possible beauty treatment available to them over a period of twelve hours before the contest. Meaning they had only TWELVE hours to get ready, so no plastic surgery. Only makeup, hair, skin conditioning, and clothing.
Take a look at the photo close up. In the top row you’ll see the nine women—none of them are exactly your perfect 10s that would make you trip over yourself to meet. And look at the bottom row. Blossoming of the outer appearance to look radiantly feminine with hair, makeup, and the right clothing.
That’s Blossoming outer appearance, and combined with Blossoming the inner woman, you become the factory and master of goddesses, of inner and outer transformation of women from their walled cocoons of social conditioning and limiting beliefs into beautiful butterflies in every sense from her inner majestic beauty, to her sexuality, to her outer splendor, that overwhelms other women with their light and can do all the attraction for you, meaning now more pain, loneliness, or dealing with brutal cold approaching again.
Blossoming, okay that’s the first leg. But there is more. This is not so easy, I said before you have to put some time and study into this. The second leg of the formula is Lovespace.
Lovespace is the master tool for bringing love and light and joy and tranquility to a woman’s inner self.
Lovespace is the master tool for forging a beautiful woman out of a simple seed into a glorious force of unstoppable beauty so that a total transformation takes place from the gleam in her eyes, to the beam in her smile, to the softening warmth of her heart.
Lovespace is the secret to bringing out a woman’s full sexuality so that she’s completely free from social conditioning and free and eager to please you and do the meeting and greeting and shining value for you so that when you go out you are a like a lightning hammer of attraction that just draws women in.
Lovespace consists of two parts, ‘Love’ and secondly, ‘Space’. Love is teaching women new things like Tensation, expression, Blossoming her sexuality, Blossoming her in every way.
But women, molded by social conditioning, have many bad habits, insecurities, unnecessary drama in their lives. Their will be roadblocks and speed bumps along the way in their evolution, so with the Love you’ll also be conversely creating Space. Space is the ‘Push’ to really help the woman step out of her bad habits and the drama and blossom into Starlight.
I’d like to go into Lovespace more, but let’s leave it at that because there’s just a lot to cover here.
The third leg that you need with Blossoming and Lovespace is Blissplosion.
You’re the producer of value, you’re the factory where the hottest, most desirable women on the planet can Blossom into being.
When you bring that shining Starlight woman to a nightclub or a bar or a social party, or even to a daytime venue like a bookstore, this is when Blissplosion rocks the venue like a small earthquake.
Just lean back and let the Bliss explosion hit the fan, letting your Starlight girls do the attraction and meeting and greeting work for you.
It’s in this way that you’re not starting from scratch every time you meet a new girl, you don’t have to chase after her value every time you meet someone new. Instead, YOU have produced value from the women you’ve already met from before and you can just build your circle of value and beautiful women bigger and bigger with time.
And from there you can begin building your Love Circle. Instead of juggling lots of women and hiding them from each other, or using women coldly, Starlight girls are totally cool with the other women in your life, so that you can gradually build a Love Circle of women that you see on a regular basis, a Circle of 3 or 5 or even 10 or more women.
The girls in your Love Circle don’t live with you, it’s not a harem situation, they keep their own lives, but as Starlight girls it’s like a loving community of sexually free women who are also the hottest, most advanced both internally and externally and they are there for you, as lovers, as friends, as companions.
And again it’s this Love Circle dynamic which is key because it’s relationships that are what’s fun. Not string of one night stands, that is not what I’m teaching. It’s keeping ongoing relationships with cool and sexually sophisticated women that is what will ultimately bring you long term joy and happiness in your life.
And best of all, all the women in your Circle will really love your for it, for showing them and teaching them new aspects of her sexuality, for opening her up to the magical gifts of Tensation, Expression, female polarity, and other life-changing frames.
So you can begin to see here how all of the cold approaching is taken out of the equation, and with each girl you bring into your life you can build a stable of sexual social value that is a gift, a joy to everyone that comes in touch with it. Each girl you meet builds for the future women to be touched.
And your looks, age, height don’t matter because you’re building value and building attraction in a revolutionary way that has nothing to do with looks or age and yet far surpasses it.
And in the process you build better girlfriends, women that don’t cause you drama but instead look up to you, admire you, worship you for all the gifts you give them, and you truly transform them from the inside to the outside into mesmerizing dream girls.
You have variety and flexibility, if you want to meet new women each week you can, if you want to build a steady circle or two or three girls you can go that route, it’s a very flexible system for designing a relationship structure that fits your needs. But no matter what it is you choose, this is about building solid relationships of mutual joy, trust, sharing, and community. This isn’t about juggling a bunch of girlfriends, here all the girls are one big friendship family, and it’s not about getting a fast lay and dumping the girl right after or using the girls just for sex or being a jerk.
After all you are giving value, so much more than value than you would otherwise, you’re making the women you meet far better people and showing them the way to true inner happiness. This is about making the girls you’re with your biggest fans, your biggest raving supporters, making them enthusiastic advocates and activists for you.
Compare that to regular pickup formulas, to cold approaching, where you have to do a million nerve-wracking approaches to practice, starting from scratch with no social value each and every time you approach, and it’s often based on trickery and where the girls are used for sex and thereafter dumped and left no better off for having met you. Just not cool.
Ecosystem and more
Now I just outlined the broad principles here, the devil is in the details and I’d have to expand on each section. For example I still need to go into what’s the difference between Seed Girls, Firecrackers, and Starlight girls and where they all fit into the scheme of things. I need to go over Masculine Polarity, like a woman, in order to transform her, needs to know that she is around a force that is stronger than she is, spiritually, emotionally, and physically so that she can relax into her femininity and follow your lead.
I need to talk about Ecosystem. You want to get to the point where the positive energy of the girls bounce and feed each other, in a synergistic feedback, so that 1 + 1 = 3, mutually reinforcing each other in a virtuous circle. So creating a nourishing environment for Blissnosis from the bedroom, to your house, to the very fabric of our societal customs is absolutely key too.
But just with what you’ve got so far, this should give you the basic idea of how it all works.
And as you can see this is NOT some kind of get-laid-quick scheme. It can happen quickly, very quickly, but you will still need to put some work and dedication into it, it’s not an escape, it’s not a quick fix, it’s just a different path, a healthier path to reach your goals.