Giving Women Oral Sex – Taking Them Over the Edge

It must too be part of your bedroom repertoire to eat a woman’s pussy out good and proper.

Cunnilingus is called by a lot of names; oral sex, eating pussy, going down, tongue thrashing, giving head, and muff munching to name a few.  But whatever you call it, women love it.

For some women, oral sex is the only way she’s trained herself to have an orgasm.  For others, it’s the most intense.

Women will adore you if you’re able to give them a good tongue lashing.  You can easily compensate for having a small penis if she knows she’s found a terrific tongue thrasher, and she won’t let go of that easily.


You can move your tongue in ways your penis never could.  And your tongue is naturally lubricated for her pleasure to boot.

However, cunnilingus is not a natural skill that you’re born with.  If you don’t take the time to learn the skill, women won’t get the thrill.  And fortunately for you, many guys are reluctant even to put their face in a vagina giving you a great advantage.

Love the Pussy

About 90% of men complain that cunnilingus takes too long, is uncomfortable to perform, or tastes funny.

Imagine this scenario.  A sexy, beautiful woman sits on your bed.  You ask her for oral sex.  She declines saying she doesn’t like the taste, but finally agrees to go ahead with it.  She pulls your cock out, takes a look at it and frowns.

“Ugh,” she grunts as she takes the tip of it into her mouth.  After a few minutes she asks, “Aren’t you going to cum yet?”

Not very hot and sexy was that?  Most of the fun of getting a blowjob is getting a good blowjob and knowing that the girl loves giving it.  It’s no different for a woman getting cunnilingus from a man.

Now imagine this scenario.  The same sexy, beautiful woman is sitting on your bed.

She unclasps your belt, wetting her lips with her tongue.  “I find you so sexy,” she says… and her eyes smile when your cock springs to attention for her.

Taking your cock in both hands she smiles from ear to ear with a devil’s grin.  “Hmmmm… I’m going to love sucking your cock,” she says.  She slowly licks the underside of your penis, sucks your balls, and takes you down her throat until wet saliva covers your shaft.  “Hmm… I love the way your cock tastes in my mouth,” she says. “Don’t cum yet…”

The difference between bad oral sex and good oral sex is attitude.  It’s the way the giver enjoys what they’re doing without inhibition.  Nothing is hotter to a woman than for her to think that you find her pussy the most delicious dessert on Earth.

Let her know, or at least fake it, that you love eating her pussy out.  Pretend her vagina is a cherry lollipop that you’re dying to lick.  You love the way her pussy tastes.  You love the way her pussy smells.  You’re NOT giving her oral sex for her pleasure… you’re giving her oral sex for your pleasure.

Give Her Eye Contact


Men make the mistake of not keeping eye contact when eating a woman out.

Although more easily said than done, keep eye contact with her as you move toward her pink treasure.  Glue your eyes to hers a little longer than you would normally, even during silences.  A gaze that stays overtime awakens primal feelings in her.

When you must look away, only do so reluctantly.  Drag your eyes away slowly, as though they had been stuck with warm taffy.

To spice things up more, throw her a devilish look that conveys lust.  Throw her one as you’re licking and sucking your way down her stomach.  Stop and look.  Install the feeling that you’re a “bad boy” in your head, make eye lingering contact, and slowly lick your lower lip.

Smell It and Taste It

Most women’s vaginas taste like hot, sweet, sticky, kind-of-salty candy.  However, her specific taste will vary depending on her period, hormones, contraceptive method, what she ate that day, and her age.

Whether she’s worried about vagina’s smell or taste or not, tell her how much you love it to relax her.  When you first put your face in her inner thighs, breathe in deeply and say to her, “Hmm… you smell really nice down here.”

This next trick gets a woman really turned on.  Once her pussy is soaking wet, stick your finger inside her vagina until its slick and shiny with her vaginal juices.  Pull your finger out and suck her vaginal juices completely off while making eye contact.  Tell her, “Hmm… your pussy juice tastes sooooo good.  I could just eat down here all day.”

If she smells or tastes downright foul, this is caused by out-of-control bacteria, not her natural vaginal moisture.  Don’t tell her that she smells.  Tactfully suggest that you take a shower together first so that you’ll both smell clean.


Above all else, make sure that YOU relax… or she won’t!  If you’re squeamish and tense, she’ll sense that immediately and follow you right into it.  Remember, you’re the leader and you’re setting the tone.

So relax.  Don’t worry.  There’s almost nothing you can do that won’t feel terrific.  Even if at times you may feel confused and uncertain, she’ll be in heaven.  Any licking and sucking of her vagina or clitoris is going to feel great to her.

Tease Her


Most men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time, whether they’re aroused or not.  This is not the case with women however.

Most women need a good bit of stimulation before having their clitoris tongue lashed.  Unless her clitoris is engorged with blood, it will be too sensitive to touch directly. So don’t dive right in without a little prep work.  First you need to get her dripping-wet hot down there.

Approach her pussy slowly.  Women, even more than men, love to be teased.  Make her anticipate the sensations.

Kiss and lick her inner thighs first.  Then lick the groove where her inner thigh meets the outer vaginal lips.  Go up to the very edge of her pussy licking long strokes.

Before you touch her pussy with your tongue, gently use your softest, warmest breath on the whole area.  Come dangerously close to her pussy and then float away.

Licking the Pussy

Once she’s hot and wet, move onto the main feast.  Give her pussy a tongue-lashing, but don’t touch her clitoris yet– you’re still warming her up and her clitoris might be too sensitive still.

Move in and out of her pussy lips and around and around with your tongue.  Keep your tongue wet and moist.

Now almost all men get this part wrong.  Don’t extend, tense or point your tongue like you see in porno flicks.  These are actors putting on a show for the camera.  It’s better to use the whole surface or the flat of the tongue rather than just the tip.  Just try licking your own hand with the point of your tongue and then again with the flat.  Which one feels better?

Again, tell her how much you like eating her.  Sigh as if you’re in heaven.  Tell her, “I love eating you out… I could be down here all day… mmmmmm.”

After you’ve pleasured her pussy to the point she’s really wet and juicy, move on to her clitoris.

A woman’s clitoris is the most pleasure-sensitive part of her vagina and that’s where you’ll want to devote your attention.  In fact, the tiny little clitoris has more sensory nerve endings than the entire penis!

Imagine the sensation of your entire dick being stroked all at once in the space of green pea.  In other words, be gentle!  Most men make the mistake of licking the clitoris too hard.  Keep the pressure light, especially at first.

Every woman is different however.  Some women will love it if you suck hard and directly on their clit.  A few may shriek in pain at direct contact, even if they’re excited.  For most women, what would have felt rough at first will feel fine once she’s very excited.

Taking Her over the Edge


She’s getting close to orgasm now.  Yes, varying your stimulation is good for getting her there, but once she’s close to orgasm you want to keep a steady rhythm and intensity.  When it comes to clitoral orgasms, wandering off or changing technique when she’s on the verge of cumming will only sabotage it.

Once you’ve got her hips bucking up and down, pressing against your face and she starts to have an orgasm– don’t let go of that clit!  Most men make the BIG MISTAKE of stopping too soon.

Stay in there no matter what. If she’s bucking up and down, try to move with her as best you can.  Unlike men, women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm.

So how long should you keep going?  Until she makes you stop.  Usually you’ll know when she suddenly pushes your head away or says, “Stop!” because her clitoris will be very sensitive after she’s through having her orgasm.  Otherwise, she’s one of those women who can have more stimulation after orgasm and can have multiples, in which case just keep going.

If you’ve tried every technique you know of and she still hasn’t had orgasm, don’t worry about it.  Unlike for a guy, oral sex for a woman doesn’t need to include orgasm for it to be very pleasurable and satisfying.

112 thoughts on “Giving Women Oral Sex – Taking Them Over the Edge”

  1. if you perfect your oral techniques you can really get girls to open up and want to please you even more

    once you make her cum in that way she will do anything to repay the favor

  2. km. Reshma Singh

    Myself is university going girl and living in private hostel. I have hide physical relations with my frd of university. his personallty is too loving lot of the girls are wants their company on bd, but myself is lucky to slept with him as naked on bd and some time passed whole night stand with hi. His penis is circumised just touching 7″ which heavy head and pointed toes which i like too much instaed of uncircumised having big foreskin.luckly my pubic areas is fair and not dark . my frid like it too much so many times he shave my pubic hairs by their shaving kids when he feel that hairs may be distrubed when sucking my shining choot. He lick my vigina with their soft tonque and drink my water when come out from vigina and also play with my clotiries and lick and massage though it is hide not as butterfly type and when errect he lick with their toes. After sex we go in 69 pose and both lick and suck untill his penis is not ready for next round. he also used my annal though I feel unbearable pain due to heavy penis head but by the use of lubricants and with slowly slowy do it and i request with him please enter ur penis slowly slowly as on bed this is ur property. use it as u like being my sex servant. and he tell my u r servant of my penis please care it.several times he clean my pussy with their pee flow and wise versa I also clean their penis with my pee flow which is too hot as he said. I like when he licking my clitories and vigina and massage my viginal walls and spread wand show me by help of miror. Nice meeting with him always and activated my gspot.His peni is in fair color not as dark or black like my father and brothers.

  3. thanks for your oral sex. i like oral sex,eating pussy .pl more tips how to crazy lick ,suck of my tounge on women clitores

  4. Evening ladies and gents.
    I have been away from my wife for nearly 2 months I never use to like eating pussy, so she is really my first!
    Thank you all for your posts and advice it’s a massive learning experience reading each post. I miss eating my wife’s big bubble-ass and pussy does anyone have any ideas on what I can eat whilst eating my wife’s pussy,
    Example: ice cubes, ice blocks I been trying to find like candy that fizz and pop in your mouth that would be awesome on my wife’s clit whilst I’m eating her out, but did some research sweets on/near the pussy can cause yeast infections etc.
    What do you use?

  5. When you first reach puberty gentleman and you see your first pussy up close and you’re ready to go down on her this man is exactly correct you need to know what you’re doing and most of it is common sense you need to read up on the Vulva the Inner vaginal lips the outer vaginal lips the clitoris the hood that covers the clitoris the G spot and so many other things about inside the vagina if you truly want to make your woman fall in love with you eat her pussy as often as you can even if you hate the taste or the look of their pussy or even the smelleat it for her anyway I can tell you most women don’t like to swallow your cumm when giving a blowjob but they do it because they love you and they know that I will turn you on and keep you coming back for more it works both ways again common sence act like you love eating her pussy for her even if you hate it even if you hate it act like you love it and make love to it and wait for her climax to be completely over and take all of it into your mouth just like she does to you and swallow it trust me it taste good I do it to my woman 4-5 times a day we probably 69 warden any other couple in the world and we both love what we do for and that’s not only because we love each other it’s because we love oral sex it feels good and if you love your partner you will do it anyway just to please them and if you know how to eat pussy and you swallow there were gas in their climax they will always cumm for you repeatedly they will never leave you and she will always beg you for more just like when a woman swallows your cumm for you she does this to please you and trust me they don’t swallow you because they enjoy it they do it because they love you and they know it’ll make you happy just like a woman who deep throatswallows you that’s the ultimate in a blowjob I guarantee you find a woman like that you’ll never leave her either because that is just like eating pussy again it is purely common sense please your woman and keep her begging you for more swallow all her climax enjoy it just like she enjoys swallowing your climax once again common sense and vice versa everyone loves oral sex I don’t care who you are but it is all common sense truly make your woman you cannot be afraid to put your face down there and eat just like they are not afraid to take your cock in their mouth and suck

  6. If men if men are that stupid that they don’t know how to eat pussy from the day they reach puberty they need some serious help I’ve been eating pussy since I’ve been 13 and I’ve done it exactly how you say it and I’ve never had a complaint and my women always get off so if you don’t have any common sense is a man how to eat pussy then I guess you’ll never have a woman that knows how to give you a blowjob because that takes common sense and training just as well but mainly common sense that’s why they don’t use their teeth scrape it on the way up and down unless you have a woman that doesn’t know what to do with her mouth it’s all common sense you need to learn with the vagina is the vulva the outer lips the inter lipstick clitoris the G spot you need to know all that can read up on that beach. I’ve known it since I was 13 I never read anything its all common sense

  7. Lovely article, and as a woman I would like to add that the most seductive prelude to taking many women over the edge is to begin first by cuddling, looking into her eyes, caressing her hips, kissing and talking to her in a loving, intimate way. My man tells me I am beautiful, that he loves my smooth skin, my scent, my nipples, the softness of my hair. He tells me how much he loves tasting me, being inside me and bringing me pleasure. He tells me the things he wants to do with me and for me, and I will tell you guys, I am SO turned on by him, before he even gets near my pussy that I am practically ready to beg him to do the things this article talks about.

  8. I am looking for a woman to practice eating out which she can enjoy. i am married and we enjoy girls together but we are meeting an old friend over christmas and i want to put her in heaven. we can also hang with husband but dont need to

  9. As a woman, I guarantee you this is the best article ever written on this topic, at least that I have seen. Especially the section “Taking Her Over the Edge.” I have bookmarked this as a must-read for the next man I date. I’ve only been with 2 men who ever seemed to understand that most important thing, the reason why women start screaming “Don’t Stop!” is b/c so many bozos stop doing the exact thing that has gotten us into that frenzy. Why would a guy stop doing what is working?!

  10. Well I gave her one last friday and it was awesome. I went down on her and sucked her clit and licked it upwards gently, her body movement indicated she was getting the thrill then i went further down her pussy and licked it upwards she began making noises, I continued that for some time, I go ther to shif position lie on two pillows and go further up the bed, lie down diagonally so I have more roon, I went down on her azgain liking, using my tongue cupping it with my mouth and then began concentrating on the clitoris while i moved my finger into her pussy and began and in up and out motion, she began crying saying yes darling more, more I like it. and her body squirmed over and over again she anted more and more and more, she held my head and she moved her bottoms she was in ecstasy then she came as she usually does, she screams, then bursts into laughter and does not allow me to continue she says its ticklish.

  11. OK, I have to say something here. “Unlike for a guy, oral sex for a woman doesn’t need to include orgasm for it to be very pleasurable and satisfying”
    Good grief!!! Where to you do your research? Clearly by not asking women for the truth. That comment is so false. Women definitely need orgasm for it to be very pleasurable and satisfying.

    Now what can be confusing you, is that the most important thing to women is connection. AND, you’re not going to like this but the majority of women do not speak up and ask for what they really want, or they will pretend it’s ok if orgasm doesn’t happen because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Women agree to a lot or stay silent a lot, not wanting to hurt feelings.

    Trust me, we want the orgasm as much as you do.
    Have you ever thought of just talking to her. Gently asking her if you’re doing it soft enough, if the speed of movement is ok, if the pressure is ok, if you’re hitting the right spot on her clitoris, and if not to please guide you.
    Communication will get you everywhere. Just be prepared for some gentle nudging in that department. Most women are uncomfortable asking for what they want or giving instruction, because again… she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. You see, there is this myth that men just instinctively know what to do, so many women stay silent when they discover you don’t know because they’ve never been taught how to communicate around this issue.
    It’s not your fault every woman’s body is different, and it’s a good thing for you to know that every woman’s body is different. We all like different speeds and pressure. Communicate guys, and be gentle with her as you get the guidance out of her. For many women, helping you out with this is a new experience and uncomfortable the 1st time.

    Communication and connection are extremely sexy qualities for women

    1. Does anyone have experience with eating a woman’s ass out?.

      Last week my girlfriend told me that she really got turned on by the idea she on her hands and knees, and got her ass eaten out by me

  12. According to a recently published study, one of the reasons men perform oral sex on female partners may be to minimize the risk of infidelity as well as others… view relating post by following this link then “skip ad” to view research article……..

  13. This is to all the guys that don’t eat pussy THANK YOU SO MUCH if you can please your girl n make her cum before yo actually go in it makes the sex so much better and a little hint I’ve found helpfull. In the middle of you fucking (not when she’s about to cumulative) kiss her all the way down eat it again then go back to sex

  14. i love eating pussy i eat pussy 2 to 3 hurs i love the juice. Evan i cam to the pussy love to suck that cum with woman cum. the woman i am with she love that. she sit my face with my cum. she says that when i suck that she get 56 orgasm. i love to do that to

  15. during your foreplay , especially at the beginning use your hands —run them along her hips…on and around her belly button massaging in a way upward as to have a slight effect on her clit…move your hands up to her breasts and massage while also gently squeezing her nipples…..afterwards when the time has come just keep your hands down below to open her pussy lips to only concentrate on inner lips and clitoral hood and clit…I have found then when things are getting so intense for her she will more often using her hands to massage and squeeze her nipples….my g/f seemed to do that always as she was about to cum….then she’s buck and moan and it seemed her hands could never stay on those tits ..instead just flaying all over…..and yes would never stop until she told me to which usually consisted of a somewhat crying breathing laugh and trying to say STOP

  16. happy go lucky

    Without knowing i get pressed up against on my ass by my mans rising penis from behind is a thrill for me ,the to get whisked away while being caressed and kissed……then my panties ripped off to get my clit sucked ….LOVE IT….it makes me wetter to know that i told him i wasnt in the mood and he still continues to pleasure me ……it drives me wild 😳 anonymous lover

  17. everything you have described is good until the last phrase… the woman doesn’t need to have an orgasm from oral sex UNLIKE a man??? what a piece of bullshit!! 🙂 an orgasm from clitoral stimulation/cunnilingus is EXTREMELY sensational for a woman and a man who can give it to her will open a lot of doors for him for a better sex and relationship… so YES guys SHOULD worry and MUST keep working on their techniques to make a woman come this way… unless you wanna leave her unsatisfied and grumpy and end your sexual chemistry right there…

    1. damn right natlie = after spending the night with a young co/worker //hopeing i had pleased her =when leaving in the morning = she pulled me toward her /and said thank you when you went down on me =YOU MADE ME FEEL LIKE A WOMEN = every time i see her now she,ll point at her self then me and say =WOMEN = it never fails to get a rize out of me =wake up guy,s

    2. As a woman, I don’t think the woman HAS to have an orgasm from oral (neither does the man), but that should be something the woman or man can tell you at the time. You should assume that they intend to go for an orgasm, and not stop unless they tell you otherwise (or, you know, you’re in pain or discomfort and need to change things up). I have had times where I didn’t cum, but I did have an amazing time. I’ve also had fines with guys where they didn’t cum, but they had an amazing time and we later had other encounters with different results. 🙂

    1. Sachin can u do oral with my pussy in my standing or bent forward position ??? I am married girl of 24 yrs living alone in Breilly.

  18. Great article!!! (im a woman by the way)
    Im almost 30 and for the first time in my life the guy i’m dating won’t go down that area!!!!!! I’ve never asked a guy to practice oral sex!
    Could you give me some tips on how to do it in a sexy way?????
    i know its a stupid question but, even though i am very open minded in bed and tried a few things…. I DONT COME UP WITH A FRASE THAT SUITS ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks!
    PS Great article blw job!!! I’ve taken a few notes 😉

  19. I am a girl, and it makes me feel so horny when someone gives me oral, that I start masturbating. Eventually, the sex stops and he just starts licking my ass and breast. I’d like him to keep on going but he refuses. Help?

  20. I love to eat my wife’s pussy but I salivate too much when I have my tongue in her. When she starts bucking, she begs me to penetrate with my penis. But then she is too dang wet to where I dont feel any tightness around my penis.

    So how do I avoid too much saliva in this process?

    1. Suck it up & swallow the saliva & her cum, then put it in…you will know when you if you burp a little. Tell her, you don’t normally swallow, but she tastes too good so you had too. This way also keeps the sheets drier…just keep your mouth open when she is really bucking her hips

  21. Master! I humblily bow in ur presence! Thanks, Thanks, specially in the learned part in porno movie about use the tip of the tongue. Amazing.

  22. I love sucking the clit but after a while, my wife forces me to have intercourse. I am confused. Tell me why

    1. maybe she likes to be fucked. having a cock inside you makes you feel more connected. If she is not bucking like a kangaroo while you are down on her though, you may not be pleasing her in the oral department, so take some more tips form this page!
      also a minority of women do not actually enjoy oral sex for many reasons, that is always a possibility.

      1. I happen to be one of those girls who just isn’t into oral. I do, however, like playing with toys with my partner. I’m willing to sometimes work oral in if it’s at the same time as something that DOES arouse me, if it’s something my partner really wants to do.

    1. First, ask why she doesn’t like it. There’s a high chance she is self-conscious about her taste/smell, so (if you really are interested in doin more oral, and do enjoy giving it), you may want to choose your opening words wisely. Instead of asking “why don’t you like receiving oral sex?” you can add the complimentary, “I love tasting you, but you don seem interested in oral sex, what is it that you don’t like about it?”

      If she’s still not interested, don’t get too whiny about it. Instead, suggest working it in with other things she does enjoy. Find something she does like (penetration, vibrators, nipple play) and then work some oral in at the same time.

      If your issue isn’t about your love of going down on a woman, but rather your desire to please her without having penetrative sex, you could also try other types of stimulation. Lots of guys are threatened by the use of sex toys by their partners, but a girl is likely to be very willing to have a toy used on her by her lover as foreplay or even an alternative to sex or masturbation.

      Also, if you’re having trouble maintaining an erection, there’s nothing LESS sexy than a guy who’s ashamed that he can’t keep his dick hard. But you know what IS sexy? A guy who can shrug it off, say “well, hey, sometimes it happens – I’m still into it, so let me keep making you happy till it comes back” and continues to please his partner without placing the burden of failure on either of their shoulders. Frequently, by taking your mind off of your performance and onto your partner’s obvious pleasure, you’ll regain your erection and get back to it! 🙂

  23. “When it comes to clitoral orgasms, wandering off or changing technique when she’s on the verge of cumming will only sabotage it.

    Once you’ve got her hips bucking up and down, pressing against your face and she starts to have an orgasm– don’t let go of that clit! Most men make the BIG MISTAKE of stopping too soon.”

    THANKYOU – As a female it is nice to see that SOMEONE appreciates how incredibly ANNOYING that is !

    1. Yes, the last guy I dated, that’s one of the reasons I broke up with him! I tried to explain and he wouldn’t listen! He loved going down on me, we’d spend hours almost with his head between my legs but the reason it was hours and still no result is that when I started getting really worked up, he’d stop! I would yell at him finally and ask why he’d do that and he never had an answer! Instead of receiving oral sex putting me in a good mood it put me in a bad one, I wanted to punch him when he got me so close then changed what he was doing and put his big meaty fingers in me which actually HURT at that point! I never had an orgasm with him, ever. He dig slice up my vagina with his untrimmed fingernails. Guys, be wise! We women are delicate down there!

  24. Don’t forget preforeplay- the Massage, because this can really get a woman in the mood (CONFIRMED THROUGH FIELD STUD-Y).

  25. I know there have been alot of things posted here, but its not super-difficult to make most girls cum multiple times, if you give even decent head.

    Spend alot of time on the foreplay, work inward, & one thing that has helped is asking her to play with herself while I do something(lick her nipples, deepthroat her fingers, massage her thighs etc). So if your doing 20-30 minutes of foreplay, then plays with herself, then you give her head(Flick-and-suck, then switch over to giving her a mini-blowjob on her clit once she is closer to orgasm). I keep sucking her off until she stops bucking her hips, then let the tongue off slowly as it gets sensitive & give her a massage. After being with so many guys who just want a BJ or regular sex, they usually say they really enjoyed it more than normal(I hope they aren’t lying, but I tend to believe if they blew their load or started skullraping me).

  26. what a great way to have 69
    I would like to add some thing
    I am 60 years old
    My wife is 52 only
    But we are enjoing 69 almost daily

    after some time i am comming on top of her
    After alittle while she will come on top of me
    We will roll like some thing a solid body

    When i feel she is highly ready and I am on top possitionI will take her thighs locked with my arms and my palms will squeeze her buttocks

    I feel her cum is providing my tounge a silky juicy entrance to her small hall

    At this time myleft hand which was sqeezing her buttock will reach the place between her vegina and the anus start to pulp that area.
    She is almost crying

    In addition my right hand will release her buttock and take the hand under her right thai
    and start to play with her peanut

    in the mean time there is no rest to my toung

    i am sucking her all the cum ans swalowand trying to keep it dry but it will never bocome.

    Finally she is begging me to release my load in her mouthand my penis will become the ever biggest instrument in side her cunt like mouth

    But be carefull she will eat your big penis

    and you should start this before the meals only

  27. Great post and thread!

    What works great for me: After initial foreplay (kissing, sucking her nipples, clenching your hand in her hair near the scalp to tug it, thus stimulating all those nerve endings which she’ll feel all through her body) start working down her body until you’re between her legs. Personally, I prefer a pillow under her ass to raise her up and give me better access.

    Kiss and “love-bite” her inner thighs, nuzzling her pussy with my nose and mouth before extending my tongue and licking the slit softly, until I feel her being nice and wet.

    Spread her lips open with my fingers and softly lick her clit. Circular movements. Write the alphabet with my tongue, maybe. Loving her clit; as if I’m making love to it, not being “mechanical.”

    If you watch any online videos of women masturbating you will see to what extent many women like both internal AND clitoral stimulation. So as I’m tongueing her clit I’ll slip in 1, then 2 (and maybe even 3 if she’s really wet!) fingers. Curl your fingers with the pads of your finger tips pressed against the upper wall of her vagina and rub against it as if making a “come here” gesture; or, just push your fingers in and out.

    When you’ve got her going good, keep the fingers inserted and gently clamp your teeth against the base of her clit (clamp, fellows, not bite) and start to SUCK. Keep your tongue against her clit too, the action of sucking will move your tongue all it needs to to provide additional stimulation.

    (You can actually practice this on the tip of your little finger. See how it feels to hold the fingertip in with your teeth, sucking it and moving your tongue against it.)

    I did this to my girlfriend recently and she told me afterwards “That felt so damned good and I didn’t want you to stop. If you had stopped I would have pulled your ears off.” I could tell when she was cumming so I did it until she literally pushed my head away and said “Easy!” so I know for sure she was finished. This is a good rule of thumb (or, rule of tongue, heh heh): Just keep doing it until she stops you.

    My favorite variation: Do the above with her sitting on the couch, her ass on the edge of the cushions as you kneel between her legs and eat her. Then every so often stop and move up and enter her with your cock, fucking her and kissing her (most women like tasting their sex on your mouth) and massaging her breasts and nipples. Then go back down and eat/finger awhile….back and forth like this until she’s abandoned all control and is writhing against you like a wanton, hungry slut ~grin~

    Great job Mr. Charger!

  28. derek can u give me some topics that i could about for a long time and go from one converstaion to another and because whenever im around the girl and even though i KNOW she likes me for a fact i dont say too many things im shy i think “what if she thinks thats a stupid thing to say” or idk just so much negativity in my head and sometimes i get these random “hyper” moments where i just talk for 10 minutes straight and they love it! i tell them a story or about something ive done and i make it sound very intense and thats how a blissnosis man is i can feel it because just the way i put words together and i make it seem so intense they share their story afterwards and comment on mine and we talk and talk and talk but that only happens sometimes when i get hyper or when im drunk. but how can i be like that all the time?? i need something to say at first and then build on that.. i guess my problem is just being social, love to hear from u soon…i need to defeat this problem and move on with my life man. please and thank u

    1. relax! you dont need to be like that all the time, just be yourself. Keep up physical and eye contact, occasional pat on the arm, sitting close, touch on the knee. confidence is the key. When a man is confident, women want to know you. although showing your sensitive shy side is also a turn on – but only when you have got their attention with confidence! (confusing I know, but thats women for ya!)
      have a few stories in your head and try them out with friends to make sure they are good and make it funny (if you can) no matter what you look like you can always laugh women into bed, it is far more attractive to be funny than be obsessed with your body or too good looking. once you have got a few laughs you should relax a bit more and the cycle goes on!

  29. I have been ” PUSSYING ” the girls n that is what
    the like it always. Let”s have something new and
    mindblowing . Awaiting for something new.

  30. A good skill for our sons to develop; a lot more women will be happy especially those who have difficulty having orgasms or none at all.

    1. Felix;

      The term BONDING with the woman is rarely mentioned. My guess is most men don’t know what that means.
      When you said, “80% of the time (why men get dumped) is because they did not take their time to bond with the woman”, struck a note in me.
      If I am interested in a woman, sexually, I ALWAYS bond with her before sex.
      BONDING is a good subject to describe even further.

  31. jesse i have a problem my gf loves me but i am her first boyfriend and she is new to the whole dating thing, weve kissed before but we havent made out its been 2 months i ask her why she says idk then i ask again and again and she says she doesnt know how, im trying to teach her and i hope that will work out but my question is… how do i make her less “prude”? i really want her to show me the sexual side of her thati know is somewhere in there…but how do i get it out? and she wont kiss me in public either, she has this thing when theres ppl around she thinks its bad…

    1. NEVER ask a girl, especially an inexperienced one for sex. Never !
      It makes her feel pushed instead of relaxed.
      Starting NOW, forget about asking !
      Ok, let’s talk about buttons:
      Here’s the thing – women cannot resist if they are treated the right way. They just can’t. It’s how they’re built.
      You have a few groups of “buttons” at your disposal:
      The emotional buttons, the erogenous buttons, the arrousing buttons and the climactic buttons.

      1. Emotional buttons:

      a) Words:
      Sincere compliments (never “admire”something you don’t really like; she’ll catch you)
      These are the ones that make you be the one that makes her feel attractive. Women are avid for them, even hot ones. On hot

      ones you go for : “Could you tell me who arranged your hair, it’s very interesting. Most men go for “you’re hot” BAD. Many men

      go overkill with a compliment. WORSE, she’ll see it fake and hate you for it. K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple, St…)
      Sweet words ( I feel so much warmth in your arms, baby )
      These are Damn hard to come by if you don’t really have feelings. A test for yourself.
      Their effect?
      They make your intimate moments warm, cozy and special.

      b) Looks and facial expressions:
      It’s frustrating as HELL for someone to give some love and be met with Mr. Too Cool. She’ll end up putting you in “the freezer”.
      React to her gestures and touches like she’s playing a song on the strings of your soul.
      Unfortunately, I cannot demonstrate these in writing.
      They’ll stick the concept that you are “the right guy for her” Deep in her mind and heart.
      Mr. Too Cool looks good only from a distance. That’s where he’s doomed to remain.

      c) Non-sexual touches:
      Holding her in your arms, rubbing her back, rubbing her feet if they’re cold, playing with your fingers in her hair (some women

      go beserk with joy if you do that).
      It simply shows you care and are trustworthy for her to open herself to you.

      2. Erogenous buttons:
      These are the ones that do not get a girl horny, but put her “in the mood”
      Have you ever wondered why girls Love dancing so much?
      These zones.
      The length of her spine.
      Hips. (no buttocks allowed)
      Forearms (soft kisses there resonate straight to her heart)
      Face. (the ultimate zone for saying “I love you” without words. Closed eyes. Kiss them very gently.

      3. Arrousing buttons:
      Well, the world’s your oyster here.
      A woman’s body is full of them.
      NEVER go for the hard ones, like nipples or vulva. You’ll be left with nothing to “work on” later and that’ll be the end of it.

      Try an exercise: after a bath or shower, caress your own body with the tips of your fingers. Immagine it’s her doing that. You’ll

      find a LOT of sensitive spots. Her’s are only more sensitive than yours.

      Base rule: be delicate, be gentle, be persistent.
      You can go for buttocks, inner tighs, neck, earlobe (mad, this spot, to the touch of a tongue), wrists, so on.
      You can start biting gently and sucking her skin.
      Be immaginative.

      4. The climactic buttons:
      Vulva, breasts and nipples, perineum, anus (if you two are emancipated enough – not recommended for beginners).
      Labiae, clitoral hood, vaginal entry.
      Clitoris, G spot, A spot and U spot.
      If Derek doesn’t mind, look them at “”

      OooooK ! Now that you know all these, I’ll give you the Holy Word:


      Great sex begins with you pcking her up at her parents (or home, if she lives alone or otherwise), taking her through all the steps of a good date, cozy-ing her when back home, discretely pushing these buttons so the warmth and sexual tension slowly escalates.

      When you about hit the last of the arrousing buttons, she’ll want you like there’s no tomorrow.

      Here’s a dirty trick you can do: get her all worked up, then, instead of going full monty, slowly decrease your stimulation, switch the talk (you do communicate while fondling, don’t you? DO, if you don’t right now, otherwise she’ll feel like you only want to screw her) to something funny,like a good, non offensive joke and then, abruptly fake being tired and having to go to sleep because of all the work you have tomorrow.
      Do this to her 4 or 5 times and the accumulated, unsatisfied sexual tension will get so extreme she’ll practically rape you (joking ! but she will demand it) when she has had enough.
      (this is how you get a virgin to want penetration)

      Now, in all this have you seen any form of proposing sex? NO.
      If it feels great, she’ll want more. That’s all.
      Asking creates stress and drastically decreases your chances.
      Plus she won’t enjoy it as much (or even not at all) and will make you dumping material in the end.

      Have you ever wondered why men get dumped ?
      80% of the time is becaused they did not take their time to bond with the woman.

      Heed the ultimate truth: “There is no frigid woman, only unskilled men”.

      From first button to the last.

      That’s all

      May Inspiration and Patience be your best friends.
      Best of luck to you,


      1. I think you should be the one writing articles here. You hit on great points about non-sexual emotional and physical connections that can be built, without resorting to “every woman wants to be bent over and fucked.” I especially agree with your points on communication. some of my favorite suggestions from you were using words, reacting to her (she likes having the power to make you react), playing with a girl’s hair, and maintaining communication (both ways, not just you telling a girl what to do or what to say to you) while being physical.

      1. I am a woman. I am a very sexual non lesbian woman who watches oral porn videos because I have become mildly obsessed and I can say that Jesse knows his stuff! I like using dirty words sometimes, but sometimes the natural music of licking and sucking is all that is needed. Some men are clueless of what to do and I think this is because they get with a girl who has lied to them about their technique. Personally, I do not like to have an orgasm this way unless being penetrated or fingered at the same time. Oral is an appetizer right before the main course. It gets me hot and ready and I become this outgoing foul mouthed, gf of a sailor afterwards (I am a shy and reserved school teacher btw). Jesse, thanks for helping these guys out, now if I can accidently get my Bf to see this site!!! 🙂

  32. Will it not be harmful from medical point of view? Pussy juices will not have dangerous or food poisonig impact on the stomach? Are they not germs?

    1. Of course there’s a lot of info on the net about that. Just google “Vaginal fluids” and see where that gets you.
      Simple answer is NO.
      The mouth has more germs than the vagina and you don’t worry about kissing her, do you?
      The only concern would be STD’s so, if you’re worried, guide her to take some medical tests.

      Besides, a man’s measure is his woman’s pleasure.

      1. Are you serious? As a woman, I can tell you that is not good advice to give a guy. We don’t want you to flap around. We want you to kiss it, make love to it. Then eventually a little flapping could work.

        Guys, connection, connection, connection. That’s what women want, even if it’s a one night stand. If we feel connected and the orgasm is good, you’re our hero

  33. It was really a nice lesson.. However , my girl doesn’t allows me for intercourse after her orgasm. How should i overcome this problem dear?

    1. Damn simple.
      Alternate the right to climax. If you’re a gentleman, give her one first. When she’s finished, mimick an afterplay, but delicately turn it into another foreplay. Unless she’s really tired, she won’t say no to another round of pleasure. At least 30 minutes later, when she’s very arroused, look into her eyes, smile and say; “Baby, I want you to make me come”
      If she’s really your girl, she’ll feel like a heel to refuse a kind, honest request after you just satisfied her.
      If she does that, she just doesn’t respect you so you only have two choices:
      Either get some more Blissnosis lessons and make her go wild for a while after wich you “withdraw the offer” for a while, to make her feel rejection for two weeks. (but do it delicately: “I have to meet the guys. “Mom needs me to repair something” – so she knows they’re excuses but you don’t just shove her away, or
      Dump her ass like a torn umbrella and give the benefit of your erotic knowledge to woman that at least has the common decency to care about you too.
      If her stoping you is immediately after the orgasm, you’ll just have to accept the fact that her body needs to “adjust it’s settings” after it, so be a doll and give her some time for that, during which a nice perfumed oil massage would be both afterplay and foreplay and do you both a world of good.
      NEVER push or pull or try to convince. It will cool her emotionally and you might discover some time later that she’ll either not enjoy sex with you anymore, or she’ll even avoid it altogether.

      Best of luck !

  34. “How To Eat Pussy Like A Champ” by Seymour Butts (yes the porn guy), is a great video to learn from. He gives great advice such as why you DONT want to eat pussy like the porn stars do on film. Even Nina Hartley makes a cameo and gives her two cents on eating pussy while going down on another chick (awesome). This video really helped me up, ALOT!

  35. thank u for giving a good lesson for eating pussy and I realy like it,u teached me alot.Anway,can you do me a favour,where can I find a part of virgina called a ‘G-sport’

    1. Its means she bout cumin and she needs ur dick 4 d maximum satisfaction. Also so many women beliv much in dick no mata d amount of pussy eat out, so poundin dem wit dick taks dem to dat final realm of sex satisfaction

    2. Its means she bout cumin and she needs ur dick to peform dat. Also so many women beliv much in dick no mata d amount of pussy eat out, so poundin em wit dick taks em to dat final realm of sex satisfaction

      1. Densil, Although I have read your comment several times, I am truly not sure what you are saying. You might also want to work on is speaking normally. When a man speaks that way (as you do), it is a HUGE turn off to any woman who is even slightly educated. The author of this post is a oral genius! I would take everything he says & change NOTHING! Dear Author, you are a God. I could spend many hours returning the favor!

    3. densil you are not quite right, it is less likely a woman will reach orgasm through penitration than through clitoral stimulation, not that a good pounding is unwanted on the odd occaion!! FYI the g-spot is pretty much the opposite side of the clit but on the inside.

      1. Hmm I disagree my husband has made me climax to no other with g spot.. If he can’t make you climax that way you are missing out big time.. Makes me fall asleep in sec when done..

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