Hey There, Welcome To Seduction Science!

Hi, I’m Jesse Charger,  and Seduction Science is my website.  Let me tell you my story!

I’ve been running Seduction Science since 2001, over 15 years now(!), and in the process taught thousands of guys how to meet women- over a quarter million new visitors reach Seduction Science each month.

My personal passion is the science of attraction, and to deliver you real results in your own life!

How It All Began…

Now no matter how bad your own story is… I probably had it worse!

Goofing off…

I went through high school as a complete nerd, spending all my time programming video games on my computer. I was terrified of talking to girls.  Girls simply did not pay any attention to me, and I had no clue what to do.

I programmed 3D graphics in C++ and Assembly Language on a 33 MHz computer with 100 MB hard drive… which was pretty kick-ass at the time!   😎

I also enjoyed creative writing, and wrote hundreds of pages of fantasy novels.  Though I never tried to publish, it gave me a lot of valuable writing experience.

A secret beach on the border between Panama and Costa Rica.

Needless to say, I loved pretty girls, admiring them from afar.  But I was too nervous to ever talk to one.


And college wasn’t any better.  The one bright spot about college is that I started cold approaching some girls I thought were pretty.

I’d go up to the girl my heart racing like locomotive, shake their hand, and tell them how pretty they were.  And then I would just stand there waiting for them to react, and I wouldn’t know what to say next.  So I would just say goodbye.

That actually got a lot of good responses, but I didn’t know how to follow up.  So it always went nowhere.

Remember, there was no “online community” back then, and I had no idea how to convert my walk-ups into dates, so it never led to anything.  I had balls, but no direction.

My First Job

After college, I decided to get laid the traditional way.

With money bitches—make it rain!  😎

An apartment on the beach…

Big muscles…

So I moved into a swank apartment on the beach, started raking in cash with a nice programming job.  I hit the gym every day, and I got ripped.

A 5 minute walk to the beach led to crowds of young girls frolicking in bikinis in the sand, so there was lots of eye candy and potential.

Yet 12 months later I was STILL was empty handed with women!

My approach anxiety paralyzed me, and even when I was introduced to girls, I never could make them attracted to me, even though I looked perfect on paper with a great paying job, money, being youthful, fit, and well dressed.

So if you think I naturally have some kind of “super powers” with girls, that makes me better at getting girls than you… I absolutely don’t!  For the first half of my life, I straight up SUCKED!

I Understand Your Pain…

So I KNOW how frustrating it is to have a lovely woman walk by, and just stand there like a total schmuck, letting the moment pass and losing your chance with that girl forever.

I know what it feels like to be LONELY, to be deprived of real human touch, thinking about all the hot girls you saw that day that you CAN’T GET.

You get frustrated.  You’re pissed off.

And I spent years of my life like that!

Getting nowhere is even WORSE than “getting rejected”, because when you approach girls, you at least feel like you’re DOING something.

And if you don’t change things NOW, that lonely life path leads to a DARK PLACE.

Guys who lack sexual choice, they end up with a questionable woman out of convenience, they settle for mediocrity.  Or they don’t live out their life’s full potential.

They just give up on life, they get overweight, and most men, eventually, end up divorced or broke or both.  Most men get cheated on, or they end up masturbating to porn every day.

Most men end up alone.  Perhaps you know someone in YOUR family just like that.

Just check out any Walmart and watch the older, feeble men walk by who look like they JUST GAVE UP, to remind yourself where you DON’T want to end up yourself!

A Rebirth

So, I decided “enough is enough” and I was determined to seize my  destiny.  😛

I started approaching girls with weird openers, telling them how beautiful they were.

Eventually, after getting rejected about 200 times, I *finally* got laid, and that’s when I started the Seduction Science blog over 10 years ago now.

At first I published tips, just to help out my friends, but within months Seduction Science was getting thousands of visitors every day.  And I realized… hey, I’m not the only guy in this boat!

Since then, I’ve approached thousands of women, I’ve taught boot camps all over the world, I’ve travelled across the globe from South America to Europe to Asia, in over 30 countries now, teaching guys the psychology of women and attraction.

I’m Passionate

Now one thing you gotta understand about me.

You don’t approach thousands of women and develop mastery over a decade, unless you’re PASSIONATE about what you’re doing.

So you’re going to have to forgive if I come across as overly passionate, if I gush a little about my method… because I pretty much eat, sleep, and breathe it.  Either in going out, or shooting a new video for you guys, or refining my formula to get deeper to the underlying truth- I’m passionate about my system because frankly… it’s the best method for getting hot girls.

It’s just up to you to step up to the plate and tell me, “Yes Jesse, let’s DO this together!”

So now you know a little about my story.  What’s your story going to be?  And how can I help you.

Your friend,

Jesse Charger

P.S. And please tell your friends about Seduction Science!

Much thanks and peace,  :mrgreen:

112 thoughts on “Hey There, Welcome To Seduction Science!”

  1. Lindsey spear

    I bought a one time thing and I didn’t notice you were charging me $50 every month for well over a year now… you need to end my subscription now… I watched like 5 videos and they were garbage… and never watched anything else after… I don’t even remember how much I paid but it wasn’t worth it… at all… this is a scam and if you don’t end my subscription I will be getting my credit provider involved and if that doesn’t stop the payments I’ll get a lawyer because nowhere did you say it was a month to month payment… you don’t even have anywhere to cancel the subscription on your website so this is definitely a scam I’ll probably get a lawyer anyway because I’m sure you’ve stolen over $500 from just me… you don’t even respond to emails…

  2. Hey there, am trying to cancel a subscription and have sent you an email but there has been no reply. My credit card has been charged and would really appreciate you replying to it.

  3. Charles M Carroll

    Jesse, I have a very strong interest in purchasing girlfriend express, but…… I am not interested in finding a girlfriend. I need to know if this program will help revive a stagnant sex life with my wife. Thank you,

  4. do u have books for selling? btw i wanted to see your favourite books could you tell me what are they? the 10/10 9/10 as you wrote on “about jeese”

  5. Where are u at right now jesse charger how long u come to see me? I want have hug u and kiss u too?
    Jesse charger is my boyfriend not yours?????

  6. Would like to buy your product about the submissive imprint. Hesitate to use credit card on line. Can I send you a check or money order.

    1. Credit cards are safe nowadays… I use STRIPE as the payment processor, so no one has access to your number, not even me!

  7. If anyone listens to this guy about meeting women, that’s just sad. He doesn’t know his ass from a hole in the ground.

  8. Jesse how do I purchase ‘speaking to her DNA’ without a credit card. It would be awkward to ask my dad to purchase it for me.?

  9. Hey Jessie: Any way of speaking with you and not having it posted? I have some great techniques that work quickly but want to incorporate your techniques for getting 3 somes and more somes. I am a very private person and don’t like to be posted. Thank you.

  10. Martha Faskerdanke (@Faskerdankey)

    I hope to get Darque Wing started soon. Too much failure to arise is really a turn off.

  11. Is there a site like this for women? I want so desperately to get a great guy, a guy that I choose, instead of the mediocre guys that approach me.
    Don’t get me wrong! I’m so not a snob, and I don’t care about loads of money or hot looks… I just seem to attract the idiots that lie and cheat. WTF?!
    So how do I entice and seduce a great, loyal, faithful man?

    1. I am him. I will make you feel empowered and confident. Your passion and pleasure will know no bounds. Can you see a life where there are never any judgements on you, your actions or your fantasies? No pressures, no rules and no inhibitions. Want to live your fantasies? Simply reply

  12. Jessi, hi this is Jason. I emailed you awhile back some comments and you sent me an email back about a soul mates coarse for the most advanced you have. Can you hit me up with that email again? I’m not sure how it disappeared? haha

  13. Jesse…

    moving to Floriapa next week..How long did you live there in Florianopolis?

    Would you live there permanently if you had the opportunity? If so why/why not?

    My only concern is that the culture of Floripa has changed to one that is more materialistic/artificial given the island’s rise in popularity.

    I’ve lived in the NE part of Brazil, but found the people to be not as open minded as those from the South…

    Any other suggestions/ideas would be great.

    1. FYI, Florida is a Peninsula. Most girls/women expect their date/boyfriend/husband to be intelligent. FL women have high expectations – the ones you really want are.

  14. Hi I have an idea, how about you make The full desire system available to us but for a limited time ? It’s powerful stuff

  15. i have an extra marital relationship with the women working in office and feel oral pleasure only with her many times but she is not ready to come on bed,how to seduce and get her ready ?How to create sexual desire in her?

  16. Hey Jessy, what happened to your other programs, like Circle Magic Bliss? Also, what version of Blissnosis is the current one cause you mentioned somewhere, Circle Magic Bliss is more current and covers everything whereles Blissnosis more aims at dealing with girls from/bliss parties. Thanks for elaborating!

      1. Hi, I am a male of 31 years of age from one of the North Eastern States of India where hiv prevalent rate is high. I had an unprotected  sex with a prostitute on 28/12/2014 at around 9:30 p.m.and I had cleaned my penis with a spirit at around 10:30 p.m. The next day i.e. on29/12/2014 at 10:30 a.m. I had one tablet of Zidovudin 300 and Lamivudine 150 and since 30/12/2014 till date I am having  tentenofovir 300+ Lamivudin 300+ Efavarenz 600 at 10:00 a.m. and I intend to continue the later till its 28th day as PEP. My rapid hiv test is negative. What are my chances of getting infection even after strict adherence to the later tablet till its completion?Please let me know if the chances of infection are there or not if my penis was not fully erect as I was drunk and the lady in question was in doggy position and i did it from behind and did it for 3 minutes maximum and I am still on PEP and intent to continue till its complete course. Please reply asap.

  17. heh thats funny, seems like im in a very similar situation you were in…
    im 23, just got a computer engineering degree, salaried position, got some decent money in my wallet, decent looking, workout every night and play sports, but just couldn’t go after the girls myself because i had no balls.

    The one difference is that i’ve been addicted to masturbation and porn since i was like 13-14, which has severely affected my sex drive to have the real thing. I’ve had multiple opportunities to get laid in high school and beyond and i’ve passed them all up because i was like “ehhhh whatever im gonna go relax at home play some games or something”…

    Finally about 2 years ago i finally decided to seriously curb my addiction because i wanted to have sex for gods sake, not watching other people having it and longing for it so i made a notepad in which i kept a daily record of how long i could not masturbate and im still keeping it for the 3rd year now. The addiction was so bad that it took over 2 years of ACTIVE effort to quit in order to finally do it.

    Basically i tried doing something ive never done, marking the notepad a month ahead as if i didnt masturbate and BAM it actually worked!!! whenever i had the urge i just said to myself “naa the notepad says i cant” and now its been over 2 months and im still going strong. Im gradually waking up from my 10 year stupor. My sex drive still needs to get back up there but im getting more and more comfortable talking and being with girls and getting more physical with them.

    Ive hanged out with some friends in front of local 7-11 on weekends and just hitting on random girls walking around, not expecting anything, just for practice. Reading these articles really help me get myself into the mindset that yea i am a fucking boss because im young, athletic, smart, and naughty and that any girl would be lucky to have me. So in the end, i can’t know how much bs is in your articles or not, but they help me feel better about myself and that’s all that matters.

  18. Nice site, hopefully it will give the unfortunate guys who are afraid of females some confidence to finally break free.

    One piece of advice to people who might be reading; in general women certainly do like confidence and cockiness, but there is a special type of elite girl I have encountered for which a new approach might be necessary. The intelligent, intellectual girls from very distinguished families who also happen to be be drop dead gorgeous…basically the total package. Many of them don’t fall for these cheap tricks because they have seen it too many times and they see those type of men as very common and boring.

    I had the good fortune of inexplicably landing one, and have heard from her and a few friends of hers on a similar level that they hate those type of men, which is funny because I am normally that cocky and arrogant guy. I had to adjust my approach quickly or risk losing her. They still like confidence, but it has to be more subtle and respectful, and be accompanied with sensitivity and intellectuality. Also expect a longer courting time, most aren’t the one night stand type. Furthermore, you almost always have to get approval from their parents which can be a fucking nightmare lol

    After you have broken them, things get easier but be prepared to put in work up front, the cheap tricks that normally get you laid won’t work here.

    I hope this helps. BTW all girls are different, so no single approach will work, you have to read them and adjust accordingly

  19. Socialkenny the black Cassanova

    Hey JC it’s been a while! I like the look of the new site with the black theme on the top of the page. Great look! Looking forward to reading some more great articles bro!

  20. Hey JC.
    Came program across some of your material a few years ago, but Ive been out of the loop for a good while. I need an update. Whatever happend to your programs that included concepts like “reckless disaster”,” Bedroom Beasting”, “strarlight girls”, love circle/space,etc.? Im still very much game to master theese concepts.

  21. hi jesse i wondering can i order you programs if i stay in south america??
    much thanks to the other information u giving me on the homepage!!

  22. hi, i came by ur website by chance actually, but once i checked it out, i got caught up in reading ur articles n’ ur advice 2 guys….i must say that one fault i’ve found with ur tips is that u tend 2 over generalize matters. u assume that all women (or 90% at least) would love 2 b dominated by a strong alpha male who doesn’t give a shit abt them! maybe 4 some women that may be the case, but haven’t u considered that a guy could meet a girl who was actually raped, or abused by an ex or molested as a child or been tortured in prison (if she comes from a country that’s at war for instance), and that this kind of behaviuor actually represents everything that this girl is running away from?! i mean haven’t u stopped 2 consider that these are actually real humans with real feelings and emotions, and that they can be complex and have psychological issues that would make ur advice would actually be a big turn-off for the girl? i mean haven’t u considered the fact that some girls could have actually been traumatized by a past experiences in their life, and are actually looking for the kind of nice guy- u actually think of as a loser and encourage ur followers to never become- to make it all better for them, and restore their faith in the fact that good men do exist?! i think that u should take into consideration that people are complex and u can deal with them based on instruction manuals…..

    1. Pretty sure your girlfriend/wife is bored with you. in and out of the bed.
      I am a woman and I am satisfied with what Jesse shares in his page.
      Maybe you are in the wrong place e…..

      1. Excuse me, but the obvious fact that you don’t seem to understand the point she’s making does not mean she’s boring, it rather shows a lack of empathy on your side. The point she’s making is a valid one, because more than you know, people of both genders are sexually inhibited because of traumatized experiences during their childhood. Get familiar with those facts first before commenting on things you don’t understand, is my advice.

    2. Your point is very valid and based on my experience, I try to answer this for Jesse.

      People with sexual inhibitions and a traumatized past of how you describe it will not naturally be attracted by strong alpha males, and vice-versa. They will be more attracted by male with a lower sex drive and show interest in a platonic connection, because the idea of sex with the other gender or sex basically, threatens them, based by the imprinted past experiences they had. Without therapy, this condition will not change. The same goes for other women who are just not as feminine, balanced, or are more male than femine. Those women will not naturally be attracted by a man showing strong alpha male traits, and vice-versa, those men will not feel attraction towards this kind of women.

      Having said that, I don’t think Jesse suggests to overpower or even rape female subjects, just because the fact of being an alpha male would entitle them to do that. His school of thought though emphasizes the idea of the primal forces of polarity between men and women. That means, that a female woman wants to be emotionally led and sexually dominated by a male man. This is by no means Jesse’s concept, it is millenial wisdom that can be reread in the taoist and trantric writings. The western world came up with the term ‘alpha male’ which, unfortunately, is often mistaken as machoism because of its rather egotistic focus and the lack of spiritual orientation and practice.

      Hope that helps!

  23. Talk about hitting the nail on the head! Have been trying to find ways to get my bf to be more dominant in bed. Love your site – will definitely be referring it to him. Can’t wait to experience the results!

  24. Hey Jesse,
    Love, love this site. Stumbled across it when I was checking out sex toy sites.. Lol.
    My question is, do only men sign up for your page? Cause I have sent this site to many male friends an linked it too my iphone. Most men dont have a clue, the intentions are there but they dont follow thru. Please let me know if us wom(en) can join? Thank you n keep up the great work.

  25. Howdy Jesse!

    I’m recommending your Seduction Science course to all my buddies (who are all divorced/divorcing) so they can also improve themselves and get “back in the game”!

    I was very impressed with your course; when I listened to each lesson I thought “Geez, this guy has really nailed it – how the heck did he learn all this great shit so quick when it’s taken me 30 years of hard women studies to pick up what I know!”

    Keep up the great work bro!

  26. I’ve been happily married for 28 years but seldom experienced freaky great sex (which I view as the icing and not the cake). Anyway, this last weekend was.amazing as my wife demonstrated a new powerful inclination to sex and initiated several kinky episodes herself. Thanks again, I think this is a direct result of your blissnosis program. Looking forward to future episodes!

  27. I would love to come across a man who is using your techniques. Just to see if it they really do work. Because come on, “make her do this” “make her do that”, seriously? Build yourself a better girlfriend? Sounds too far fetched for me.
    One thing though, allowing a man to think he is in control is one of the best aphrodisiacs ever.

  28. Jesse,

    Don’t get me wrong, I think your programs rock, but not every man has a credit card to get this stuff. How can we still get these programs if I don’t have a credit card in the first place?

  29. Hello, JC
    this is mind blowing scientific maan, I got the balls… too.. but no go ….. read it fr 1st time, just browsing, can you send me more , I guess u touch that difference in male/female brain systems jus like c++, only it keeps getting better.Need more frm a pro like u
    cheers to healthy lliving,

  30. Jesse I recently discover your website, I live en Ecuador South America. Hope you can help me, I have a question I met a girl, she is beutiful, we were drinking with two other friends, and everithing was ok, of nothing happens that night. But what happens was that she sent me like 3 message that night telling me that she was crazy for me and want to make love to me wildly. But that night I was not able to comeback. The next morning she sent two messages telling that she was sorry for she wrote. Now I don´t know how to approach to her again, I want her badly.
    Roberto – Ecuador

  31. I did a Google search for “he wants me to be submissive” and somehow tripped upon your site. Interesting reading for a late Friday night. At work I am referred to as the “hot I.T.-Chick”, who is “very sweet and kind”. A conundrum. I apparently exude confidence in my career and as an independent woman, but lack a bit in dealing with men. I typically gain confidence after the first unveiling of flesh. I’m in my prime, I work out, and I love sex. I’m not shy, but I’m not brazen enough to walk up to a stranger and solicit his attentions. In my entire lifetime, I’ve only ever had one man approach me for a date. Ever. We went on one date a week later; had mind-blowing sex (a first for me because I’ve never had sex outside a relationship) and though we’ve not met up again since, I hear from him every day. When I ask him why, he says, “There’s something about you”…magic words, right? (LOL), but women are either cynical or slaves to that sweet surrender. I think for me it matters not because my body aches for a continuous replay…

    He wants me to be a sweet, adoring woman which I am already. Not a Southern belle, per se, but I’m a giver and it takes very little to make me smile. He also wants a slut in the bedroom that doesn’t fight for control. Perhaps he has heeded your advice and I’m a conquest. I care not. Perhaps he’s my conquest. Either way, I’m curious…where’s your sister-site for women to learn how to relinquish control and keep (for a time, at least) that man that wants to devour her?

  32. Im a female reading your page. This is very informative. Hope more guys will practise these tips so that relationship wont be boring n less divorce rates.

  33. Hi jesse,

    I am rely FAN of you please send me all materials regarding women seduction it’s fantastic, I will be very greatfull to you.

    warm Regards,

  34. someone who finally puts some time and thought into figureing out what a woman wants and how to make sure she enjoys it. im a 44 yr old female who is single after 21 years, i went crazy with a few guys for a while and they could have used you lol. i have now meet a really nice guy who is awesome. i think all guys should visit your site . keep up the good work.

  35. jesse i am applausing you!you’ve studied a lot and you’ve proved if you’ve got aim you will achieve it.
    what was the hardest task in your romancing practice to overcome?
    all the best……..

  36. Amused Observer

    I saw quite a few mentions of breaking through “the matrix” on this website, the implication apparently being staying true to personal desires, yet many of the “dreams” pushed on this blog/frequently updated salespage involve the fairly generic “dreams” straight out of a get rich quick salespage or bad reality TV shot – nice car, hot women, muscles, beaches, travel.

    1. Jack D. Serrano

      I don’t know the specific article about breaking out of the “matrix” but I do know that this site is definitely helping guys break out of the “matrix” that is holding the back from meeting really great women.

      Most guys go through life in a quiet, embarrassed haze never really enjoying their experiences with women.

      Just because get rich quick people and reality TV uses beaches, cars and women says nothing about it. This site (from what I can tell) is aiming to break out of that matrix and help them start experiencing life.

      Be Amazing,
      Jack D. Serrano

  37. You are cool as f*ck Jesse!! I was just like how you were when I was 15 in 2008. I was a major computer nerd and never had a girlfriend. I am 19 now having only minor luck with women. I have just discovered your website(s). I wish I had sooner! Your techniques are so fact-driven. What’s your view on the Law of Attraction?

  38. hi Jesse, what happened to your “Threesomes” and “Dating Younger Women” Products? You don’t offer ’em anymore ?

  39. i am a chickadeee.I am in class hearing a boring lecture I am suppose to be doing calculus work. but last night some guy friends left this running on my laptop. so here i am in class not paying attention- to busy reading your columns, passing time yada yada yada.I must say i find everything very intresting and legit. just picking your brian and your train of thoughts here. but i got the main concept which is true. women want a man who is confident cocky as hell bold and knows what he wants, how he wants it and when he wants it.
    point being you have entertained me today. yay. I probally wont pass my calc quiz this weeeek though.
    by the way those dumb animation faces are creepy. just saying.

  40. jesse, the way you approach the whole game thing is just great. i am puting your “reckless disaster” program to the test for over a month now with good results. this “sexual fury” fits right in with expressing your intent when opening hoties. if i think about it, i don’t recall any case of opening a girl that i really wanted (i mean having that urge you know, that i’m gonna make you mine feeling), expressing my intent and not getting the girl. for the future i plan to meet more 10′s, cuz untill now, i only had 9′s, or 9/10′s, but no straight 10′s. thanx anyway for your programs and keep it up! Dan

  41. Hi Jesse,
    Your posts are interesting, I want to know if your products work for Mexico or there are some differences, I read here you have traveled around Latin America.

    1. I haven’t been to Mexico since I was a young guy, but there should generally be no difference. All women are pretty much the same everywhere and respond in the same way, minor cultural differences aside.

  42. Its great as a older man to be with a young women. Your right on what you say. Lets not forget the older women they have lot of nice qualities has well. All women are beautiful all colors, sizes everything about them is great>

  43. Jesse, you seem very charismatic and friendly. Thanks for all the work you do.

    Vocal exercises is something I probably should work on. I’ve always been quiet, and it’s almost impossible for me to be heard at bars.

    I’ve heard that there is a resonator bigger than even your chest. I believe it was called the “alpha male resonator” on Google. It’s supposed to be in your stomach or something like that.

    Any thoughts?

  44. René De Beaumarchais

    I like the realistic insight you provide about the foreign women in your website ie not Victoria’s Secret supermodels by the truckload if you step outside Canada and the USA.

  45. hello Jesse,
    i personally with all my heart wanna thank you. u’ve been of much help to me. i’ve been able to handle all my women issues very very well just by signing up for your newsletters.
    i’ve been able to eliminate successfully all the chicks i didn’t like n have invited more beautiful chicks now.
    i think i can run any class of chick now thanks to you.
    previously i had no clue as to how to do this. thank you very much cuz u’ve been much help to me. i PRESCRIBE ur site as a remedy for all my friends who are slacking.thank you very much.

  46. I’m glad I found your site Ive been reading everything you’ve got and everything is so true. Youre a real genius 🙂 thanks for helping me clarify a lot of things that have been going on in my life with the opposite sex. Jack.

  47. You are a genius. I approve your message! 🙂
    I have had a wonderful time reading this stuff. It has helped me. I am a woman!

  48. Jesse, you are a VERY unique person. Providing a FREE all mens’ forum and coaching is VERY rare in our society. This is how it should be.
    Men NEED to learn this stuff. Too many people want a lot of money for something that should be taught in our schools.

    1. Hi Jesse! I loved your program.

      I’ve been following it since 18, i’m 26 now, and the best part about your programme is that you don’t just teach people techniques but develop them as a whole person altogether

      1. Hello Jesse!~ Its nice to see that you are travelling around!
        Will you stopping by Singapore?
        I’m your biggest fan!

        Btw, how can i subscribe to your newsletter again?

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