Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work

You can also lower a girl’s social value in relation to yours with quick lines by negging women.

Here are some examples of negging women:

For a girl with a belly shirt: “Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

“You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

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Effect of a neg on a hot girl illustrated

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”

“I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.”

“Hey, you’re a goof.”

By negging women, you’ve indicated to her that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group. This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you’re demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored. The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adoration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

Negging women is ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don’t want to use value zingers. All you need to do is demonstrate social value – you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

Negging women is unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl who is already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a neg or two on her.

Now, it’s critical to use negs right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad. But used correctly, negging women is a powerful tool in your arsenal.

Update From The Author

I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.

I understand the blowback.  I understand where some of you girls are coming from.  You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.

And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.

Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women.  Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.

Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates.  So naturally, you feel sympathy.

But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.

First, we are talking about a night club environment.  There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.

And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.

Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy?  Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.

It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”.  Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish.  (Like, “Hey girl!  You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)

Then again, it’s a night club.  If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.

So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!!  After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!

In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example).  These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down.  It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.

So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life.  So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.

Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.

So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model.  Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants.  And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?

But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you.  That’s why you blow them off.

That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female.  That’s what attractive guys do.  And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM.  Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.

I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl!  It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!”  But really, it’s an empty cause!

P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!  😆

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Winston ThatGuy

just curious, how many of the women denouncing this topic actively shit test when their hypergamy starts playing up?

Jessica
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Jessica

I thought this was a joke. I’m really disappointed that it’s not. This is disgusting. Negging is disgusting. No woman wants to be belittled like that. It’s disrespectful, manipulative, and shows you have a LOT to learn about interacting with human beings.

Steve
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Steve

NEGating a gorgeous girls beauty is a good way to see what other qualities she has. Negs are good for really beautiful woman so they have to show their personality instead of relying on their looks. Sorry but your looks aren’t everything and if you get offended then you are really superficial. Negs aren’t insults. Just like constructive criticism is not an insult.

Eliot
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Eliot

Dear Author,
Shut up and respect women.
Sincerely,
Literally everyone

Mads
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Mads

I’m gonna give you a hint: this kind of crap is why hot girls don’t like you, sweetie. If you have to rely on unnecessarily insulting a woman (which, yes, is what this is, get some manners) to get her to give you even a look, you clearly have nothing of worth to offer a relationship.

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Rebecca a Swenson

where do I even start? I was glancing over the DVD section of the library when I was a approached by a slim man around my height, he asked my for my number straight up. Usually or at least back then, I always gave my number if a man who came up to me asked. It seemed really confident and at the time I was impressed with that kind of display because I could never do that myself. This man bookended getting my number by reminding me to “fix your hair, before our date” which he explained by saying it… Read more »

Jak
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Jak

That is called date rape and I don’t think it has anything to do with negging. I was only googling the term because it came up in a video, but from what I read it isn’t endorsing the violent and disgusting behavior of the man who raped you. I’m sorry that happened to you and I am glad you have the strength to talk about it, but it also has nothing to do with negging, the guy was just an asshole.

Jessica
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Jessica

In the beginning of her story, she said he negged her. That’s part of it. Every single thing this guy did was predatory. Men who neg women are doing so to manipulate them. I mean, come on… that’s exactly what this article is about; manipulation. Rapists are assholes, and so are men who neg women. And sometimes, GASP, they’re one in the same! Where do you get off telling a woman what she’s experienced, anyway?

Victoria
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Victoria

Ladies, I don’t think there’s anything here that should get our knickers in a twist. We all need to try different social strategies to figure out what works best for us. Yelling at the coyotes to have some respect doesn’t work… better to protect the hens. They have places online where they openly state their opinions, goals and methodology! That’s a good thing! It teaches the misogynists among them to openly identify themselves with certain traits and it teaches us exactly what traits to look for. It’s a win win. At the end of the night, most men who operate… Read more »

Anonymous
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Girls need to understand, we men don’t like to neg you. You think if I had choice to compliment you or neg you, I’d choose to neg you? Definitely not. Compliments are much better and easier to come up and get a better response HOWEVER, women are used to compliments and an attractive women would get 3/4 at least on a night let alone a week. So if I’m a high value man for instance who has his shit together and very picky who doesn’t goes to every girl to hit on her. When i’m a picky man, I make… Read more »

Nick
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Nick

Hell no. Never seek validation or give validation you’re fefinitely not a high value male nor an alpha if you’re over here sucking up to bitches

Jessica
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Jessica

Dude…no. No woman wants to be insulted. Attractive or not. We prefer someone to be actually interested in us as human beings not just a body; a pretty face, or someone to manipulate.

Getbent
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Getbent

So basically this is an article for lil bitch boys who know they have no chance at women and believe that if they can hurt them and lower their self esteem then they can get their dick wet and dip out and the woman will just be fine with the insults and being used. We aren’t in fucking high school anymore. There’s no such thing as ‘the popular girls’ out in functioning society, and if you can’t act like a functional human being and just form a connection with a person, even if it’s just pick up culture, then it’s… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

you dont have to worry about negs. they are aimed at 8s, 9s and 10s only

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Pro tip for meeting women: Treat them like people

jon
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jon

I think everyone has a big misconception on what negging does to a women on a high horse. It knocks her off her high horse and makes her chase the guy for his validation. If you wanna call it manipulation then so be it. Women manipulate men all the time with what they wear the makeup shaming them for not behaving a certain way gas lighting the men giving ultimatums after the man loves them. They start acting different after having his baby or getting married and the list goes on. Women will strong along men and keep them in… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Two wrongs don’t make a right. Fuck you.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

You’re in a club. You see a gorgeous girl and your heart pounds. You think to yourself, wow I have to say hi or I’ll never forgive myself. You have no intentions either way – you just want to see what happens next. Maybe she’ll be flirty or shocker engage in conversation, maybe there will be some sexual tension..who knows.. you’ll play it by ear. You go up to her and say hi, and she just puts up her hand up to your face, or rolls her eyes, or turns her back, or something disproportionately rude – simply coz she’s… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Trueee p

Jessica
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Jessica

Wow. No. That’s not how any of this works.

Just because you find someone attractive, does not mean they owe you their time. And we are cautious talking to strange men because of people who think the way you do about women. Also, if we’re out with a group of friends…we aren’t there looking to hook up. We’re there to hang out with our friends, and your interruption is rude.

Jen
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Jen

“So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life. So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.”

Nice neg. 🙄

Anonymous
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Anonymous

LOL.. no-win situation.(so now you want to be negged to show you are a hottie?? talk about reverse psychology)

Anonymous
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Anonymous

lmfao

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Only the lowest form of trash would treat another human being this way. Jesse, I hope you look over your shoulder every day. Someone will eventually pay you back for this.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Most girls treat guys a thousand times worse – so you’re just shooting down 9/10 girls in clubs when you talk about who the trash is.

Getbent
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Getbent

Oh yeah, ‘shooting’ down men. Kinda like how a certain man with this mentality shot down several women. What was his name? I think his first name was Elliot.

Andrea
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Andrea

Just because a women is beautiful doesn’t mean she’s not got insecurities. A lot of gorgeous women i know are even more insecure than average looking ones… Who knows if she’s hot because she’s got an eating disorder or something .. You are stereotyping women based on a quick observation of her appearance. Trying to lower anyone’s social value is a form of emotional abuse. Playing less interested is one thing but borderline insults to try to cut her down is just bad advice.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

a neg is not being disrespectful. you know you negged correctly if she laughs!!!! if she doesn’t laugh, the neg didn’t hit correctly and the man must calibrate

lmao
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lmao

im cackling. just leave women alone. go find someone in daily life to hunt down like a creep, and let women enjoy their night out in peace. we ignore you for a damn reason dumbass, and we dont go to a night club to get shit on by people who get ‘so much worse’ from women. get a grip. i ignore men at a night club because ive been sexually assaulted, and so have MANY other women. but yeah. let me know when you get ‘so much worse’ by being rejected. boo fucking hoo cunt

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Sounds like you’re too damaged to be hanging out near men in a social situation. I think you, like many women, want to punish other normal guys for the damage suffered at the hands of some arsehole. By taking that approach you are just validating that all women are bitches coz all men are bastards. Just give up on being human and intimacy, and stay home with your friends. Getting dressed up and going to clubs to reject men to improve your self esteem is really messed up.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

not accurate reply to what she said. she goes to a club to have fun. she doesn’t go to a club to reject guys. why do some guys think it’s all about them? and what obligates someone to talk to another? guy to girl, OR girl to guy – works both ways. guys aren’t obligated to talk to girls they aren’t interested in. and if you, as a female, choose to ignore a strange man you’re fair game for ‘negging’? And if you want to have fun and not talk to guys you should stay home?? hahaha!! enjoy that red… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Exactly this. Well said.

Bullshit Detector
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Bullshit Detector

Negging is a way to bring a woman, that may think she is all that, from acting “bitchy” down to fucking earth, to reality where she can communicate without stacking someone above or under her “nothing to offer but looks” ass. Negging should be playful and funny, but is more powerful when it is slightly true. Nooooo, negging wont get you laid, it will just allow you to communicate directly, to a woman who is too in to her own bullshit, like her looks is actually a valuable thing that will last.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Agreed – and women play this game to men (and each other) all the time. Women invented negging. They are the masters of backhand complements – that’s how they played all through high school in their bitchy cliques.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

you sound like you are still holding on to a lot of rejection from HS. I hope you heal and find a way to achieve your relationship goals in a healthy and respectful manner. all my best to you.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

You are delusional;you seem to be unable to communicate effectively in order to strike up a conversation with a normal woman. Very sad. Perhaps you should get some professional help from a therapist. Insults do not make a person more “lovable”.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Why do you want to go after those kinds of “bitchy” women in the first place? Seems like you just have bad taste.

Tasha
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Tasha

Maybe we aren’t at a night club to hook up. 🤔 Negging is and always will be for losers. If you have to negg to be with a chick, she isn’t worth your breath.

Dina
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Dina

Let’s put aside gender for a moment. Because regardless of whom is saying what to whom that type of comment is manipulation. And manipulation is a form of deceit. A way to get what you want in a dishonest way. Its wrong no matter male or female and is spoken by a person who is weak in character. No one wants to think they are weak or poor in character but few attempt to improve themselves. Instead they just try to even the playing field by manipulation.

anon
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anon

whats wrong with leveling the playing field? Women manipulate men all the time like the makeup you use.

Getbent
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Getbent

Oh, okay, so no more diets, fancy clothes, working out, or any fucking EFFORT to look nice. Get fucked.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

It’s VERY wrong because it takes an already existing problem and makes it worse, rather than solves it. “They were mean to me so I’m gonna be mean to them, MEH!” is a very childish attitude to have.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Sad just Sad !!

Anonymous
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Anonymous

There’s no space for women to disagree with you. If they disagree with you they are “too sensitive, don’t understand.” If they agree with you, they likely don’t recognize how fucked up this is. You say in your response, men have it so much worse at night clubs. They do not. When women reject men it’s because 1) we aren’t interested 2) they are scaring us. Being scared of men in a club is a reality men don’t face *as much* as women do. We literally have nail polish designed to spot roofies. When you direct men on how to… Read more »

anon
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anon

Men have it worse then females in any situation because it isn’t just rejection. All women have expectations that are very high for men and these women can’t even meet there own expectations. yet there are so many expectations for men after they don’t get rejected! I can go on and on but i will leave it there. It isn’t society that put these expectations on men it is women. Stop directing the blame else where for your plausible deniability asses.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

This is the biggest piece of flanking shit ever. No self-respecting female would respond positively to negging EVER. Respect goes both ways. I respect men more who respect me. This is fucking ridiculous that the only thing some of these guys are complaining about is fear of rejection and their fragile egos. Um, yeah, women have to fear rape and sexual assault, are more likely to be murdered by their male partner than anyone else. Louis CK’s standup about men being the most serious threat to the existence of women…ironically, turns out he was a creeper predator himself. Get a… Read more »

Getbent
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Getbent

If you really think getting rejected is the worst thing in the world, then you need to accept that you have a fragile as fuck ego and you need to raise your confidence because you have fallen down the rabbit hole of self loathing and dug even deeper into taking it out on other people. If you can’t take a ‘no’, then I hope every single woman guards her drink and her person around you.

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If you really want a treat click on that link about tapping into a girls DNA. I’m a happily married man who sometimes isn’t always sure how he does things right so I like to look into or read up on things girls may like to keep the marriage alive in the event I run out of the natural abilities to do so. This got me interested in the idea that girls are naturally triggered by something I already do. His “Secret” in the link is a insanely long sales pitch where he’s basically trying to convince lonely men to… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Last weekend I had two guys coming onto me (which was nice because I’m not a model and I’m over 40) and I found one of them really funny and thought we were connecting when he started going on about what ‘number’ we would rate at. I refused to rate him, I said I thought it was a really de-humanising thing to do, but I had already shown a lot of interest in him (had already given him my number). He then said “You are so hot, you’d be a nine and a half, except for that top, it looks… Read more »

Alice
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Alice

My god, this is just embarrassing. This is a website for incels, right? No wonder they can’t get laid if they’re following “advice” like this.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

I was negged a lot on a date recently. It really hurt. It did make me like the guy more which is really messed up. I felt like I forgot who I was by the end of the date. It did take all my power away and I learned how much I stand on my looks alone and how fragile I am. I am going to run next time a guy negs. This article is interesting because I didn’t know those subtle insults were negging. I thought that was flirting. When it’s one comment it’s not that bad, but wow… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

A very insightful response compared to some others here. Thank you.
Some ‘negging’ probably existed ever since courtship did and is just a different way to flirt.

what is most interesting to me is that the experience, while it hurt, made you realize your own fragility and reliance on superficial looks to give yourself value. In the end, I wonder if the experience will help you develop into a better person. Not that this is why negging happens or should be used, but a very interesting result.

kimmi bear
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kimmi bear

lmao this has got to be satire. there is no way this would work on me xD

anon
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anon

because you are a 6 and over rate your self

Getbent
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Getbent

Slow down there mister -3 anon. Not even with your harshest negging and with the biggest bank account could you break even .5

Isadora
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Isadora

Ladies, once upon a time, I told a guy who negged me exactly what I thought of him, and I felt awful. I’m a former carshow girl, this happened at a show: Guy: That’s a hot dress you’re wearing but a few inches too short. Me: And that’s a hot forhead you got there, but your hairline is a few inches too short too. Guy: ouch (I felt awful after seeing the look on his face) Me: I’m joking. Hi, I’m Isadora. Guy: I’m Chris. My childhood nickname was Neanderthal. And Pig Pen. Me: (Can’t stop laughing) Guy: Ouch. Me:… Read more »

anon
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anon

awwww that was really cute and i am a guy

Duval
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Duval

should try that on me, assholes. I will give you some reply you remember

Anonymous
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Anonymous

This is so disappointing. If any regular man comes to me with a neg I just assume he really must have a small penis and cums in 5 seconds. The only men that can remotely get away with a neg are men with six packs sexy as a Calvin Klein model. Or if he is a billionaire then we will over look it. If you are neither a billionaire or a Calvin Klein model then instead of trying to use negging work on your confidence. go to therapy, go to the gym, read books on personal development get a job.… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

this is so fucking stupid

Jane
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Jane

I’m dying laughing. “You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they came out of the womb – all curled up.” LOL. That actually works on anyone? That sounds so creepy and unnatural, can’t think of anything that would turn me off more.

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m.a.

I’m a former professional model and used to being chased, however I am not cruel to the vast majority of men who I don’t find interesting. The man I fell for and agreed to marry approached me and I’ve never had to chase him a single day in the years we’ve been together. I am crazy about him partly because he doesn’t play dishonest games and we enjoy making each other feel good by helping each other grow and achieve, not knocking each other down. He is consistent and reliable and I admire his integrity. I want to be with… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

I bet you’re not even that pretty, just skinny and tall enough to be a model

Anon
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Anon

^^online negging: the art in action^^

Anonymous
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Anonymous

I think to ‘neg’ is the natural response to someone else inappropriately acting superior or arrogant at one’s own expense. I have very limited experience, but in my so far 4 days gaming I’ve used it mostly on female blockers who were being rude (long story, I’m the only person of my ethnicity where I live so I find this creates a lot of challenges other guys don’t have to deal with). Often, self-qualification is what I’d use on a girl I actually like. ‘I sense you’re not comfortable with foreign men’. Which often gets them to qualify that that… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

If a girl actually fell for this, you’d deserve each other.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Nope, doesn’t work. I didn’t know it had a name but yes, guys try this shit. It would only work on women with no self esteem to begin with and the thing about very good looking women is that we’re used to getting hit on, we’ve seen it all and this just gets you stamped as a arsehole to avoid at all costs.

joe
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joe

no not true at all. Women have told me this thing all the time and they say it won’t work on me. I ask them to tell me about the men who hit on them and the ones who have hit on them who they talk to. They say how he is a ass hole and he put them down when they first met. Yet why did they like him more? It worked on women who are always being put on a pedestal and knocks them off there high horse. Makes them chase his validation after that and he never… Read more »

Vasileios
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Vasileios

It works,I did that many times with success.Success doesnt always mean go to bed with her,just breaking her ego its a win.
Woman is the most selfish thing in the world.

Burn!
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Burn!

English isn’t your first language is it?

Jae
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Jae

You’re a fucking moron! This shit does work. I had this one idiot try to “neg” me. He told me I was a “hot girl in an average girl’s body”. I looked at him like he was nuts! Then I got my taller, way hotter MMA fighter boyfriend to scare them shit out of him for trying to insult me! It had no effect on me because the guy was a disgusting looking troll that I’d sooner shit on than date! Even if a hot guys sunk so low, I’d give him the brush off because there are 100 other… Read more »

Bullshit Detector
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Bullshit Detector

First off, you sound like you have nothing else to offer, lastly you have an MMA fighter boyfriend and youre married to a cuckold husband that looks like a Ken doll? Dont even reply I’ll never need to go back here and read it, all you need to know is that we can all see your bullshit (let alone the type of shit you are), there is a wrong way to neg and I’m sure it works for some guys because its clearly a subject some people said they’ve had success with. You sound like a fucking child too, just… Read more »

jon
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jon

You had a boy friend which is why it didn’t work on you because you were loyal to him because of what he made you feel.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Wow. I think this strategy is brilliant…for a 3rd grader.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

It works though

Burn!
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Burn!

Right?!

Anonymous
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Anonymous

ANYTHING that anyone (male or female) does to lower a persons self esteem, no matter how much of a cruel bitch or thoughtless bastard they are, is wrong. It is a form of manipulation to get ppl to do what YOU want for YOUR gain with no thought or care of how if it negatively affects the other person. Negging is one of those things.

Ano
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Ano

Just feel the bitchy affect on the negger for once….then you can feel it

seagirlkw
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seagirlkw

Absolutely. It’s careless and self-serving. And – trying to justify it…I just shake my head. If you have to “neg” a woman, then I suggest you work on your own self confidence. You want her number or a date with her? Use wit and charm. No matter what situation you try and frame this behavior in……..well…let me put it this way. You know how chicken poop has that white spot on the top? You know what it is? It’s poop too.

Lulu De-Belle
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Lulu De-Belle

#metoo movement hello! I’m so embarrassed for you because you clearly don’t understand women and need to be an asshole to get attention. More often than not, when a guy is a creeper and can’t take no for an answer, a girl will try to avoid contact, especially if her intuition sets off alarm bells. Yeahhh lots of us have had to deal with unwanted attention and physical abuse and it’s a womans prerogative not to talk to a guy, we don’t have to speak to you just because you want to speak to us!!! When the guy can’t follow… Read more »

Geoff Lee
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Geoff Lee

This is total shit but I’ve been studying this for a laugh. I’m pretty sure this website subscribes to Mystery or what you might know as “The Game.” It objectifies woman as some singular entity that can be easily broken down into womanly wants and desires. My favour part of this is how they say a girl who is 6s and 7s on the hotness scale doesn’t have much social value to begin with. It’s like they are in high school and think looks is everything. However, there are still girls who fall for this. It’s sad but these guys… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Lol

Lol you’re ugly
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Lol you’re ugly

You’re just ugly. Stop going after hot girls and date the ones on you yotr level. Problem solved

Burn!
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Burn!

You, I like. 😉 I am a very pretty woman, and I would TOTALLY talk to you. Why? Because you come across as intelligent, nice and polite. Guys, women are NOT that hard to get. Be polite, wear clean clothes, smell nice but don’t drown in cologne, RELAX AND BE YOURSELF. Also, make sure your fingernails are clean and cut short for sexual purposes. Also, read a book once in a while. Men who read are SEXY!!!

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Nice insights, consider this: having self respect and confidence as well as being a nice guy is the hottest thing ever. I am freaked out by ‘alpha males’ and if a quieter man can have an intelligent conversation, I’m hooked. Nice doesn’t mean passive. Nice can have it’s own interesting edge … how you hold yourself, the humour you use, the things you’re doing in life, that’s the hot part.

Dee
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Dee

Hahahaha i love it

Burn!
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Burn!

Exactly!

Edward
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Edward

“Just be a nice dude and hopefully you’ll attract a nice girl to speak you.
Whoowee. Bad advice. I hear it from women that they HATE “nice guys” TM

Dave Smogg
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Dave Smogg

Read this article and thought fuck it what the hell tried it out in the local club and got slapped round the face 3 hours later she was letting me fuck her up the ass. I mean I honest to god thought at that moment this seems counter intuitive but I got nothing to lose and that short sharp sting made me think. Ah yeah that’s terrible advice. Well turns out it wasn’t. Best sex i’ve had in months.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

So it works on women who need to be hurt and sad in order to fuck you.

Christine
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Christine

Yeah. Even as a twentysomething, I was able to see through the bullshit. BTW, “Awesome” and “Negging” don’t belong in the same sentence. Years ago, I was at a bar with some co-worker friends when a few guys came over and introduced themselves. One of them chatted me up, proceeded to suggest I needed to work out more often (I worked out 3 times a week and was a size 8), then unfavorably compared me to one of my co-workers whose boyishly lean hips were encoded in her DNA. He pushed his phone number on me, and said we should… Read more »

Natalia
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Natalia

This advice is terrible! Hot girls know about negging so they will (at best) roll their eyes and laugh at you. I personally would respond to one of these with a carefully selected genuine personal insult about the physical appearance of the guy to make him scurry away. There is nothing sexy about having to put a woman down to impress her, it’s sad.

anna
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anna

Found this site because a guy negged me pretty harsh yesterday. He have the tendency to show up wherever I am and we have talked a lot, I was actually interested in him. So he dropped a comment saying “Oh great. We get to have another amazing conversation” in an extremely sarcastic tone. Did i follow him home? Did i follow him like a puppy all night? Nope. I answered “Well, we don’t have to” and walked away. I have several miss called and messages on my phone this morning. I’m not going to talk to him again.

Christine
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Christine

Atta girl. Stay strong!

James
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James

That’s just pathetic. You can’t take a lil sarcasm, and use that as a reason to ignore a guy you’ve known for awhile. Fragile little feelings get hurt? Ignore the guy. I guess he’s lucky you showed your true colors early

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Classic negging James, just classic.

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Tom
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Tom

The question is, why would you want a girl who could be manipulated by a “neg”? Why would yo want a girl who’s self esteem is so low that she’ll do anything for validation?

Dave Smogg
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Dave Smogg

To have sex with her. I thought that was obvious

Username1
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Username1

After reading this, I just realized I was negged by one of my coworkers. So on a good day I’m a 6, and there was this guy at work who would awkwardly wave and try to say hello without being able to make out the words. Anyhow, I felt bad for him and went to go talk to him. He asked for my name and I told him, and he shook my hand with both hands! It was like a hand sandwich! Any how he asked me my age and I told him then he said, “that’s not too bad,… Read more »

David
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David

This is about the most pathetic thing I’ve seen online. Sheesh.

Dave Smogg
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Dave Smogg

Yeah mirrors don’t seem to work online. Luckily you got one in your house so just look at that instead

Th menthe
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Th menthe

No offense dude, but this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard!! Being mean even in the mildest since is NEVER a good way to attract someone you like. Seriously if I had like 10 sweet guys who complemented me and then 1 jerk constantly throwing shade, who would I chose? Not only that but your method seems ridiculously shallow.. Believe it or not us pretty girls actually ENJOY getting praised I mean who doesn’t?? Also you mentioned “guys having it much worse at night bars” 1.) Really doesn’t excuse being rude. Just because YOU’VE had negative experiences doesn’t… Read more »

Mags
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Mags

Guy ” Your boots don’t match your outfit. They Should be tan.”

Girl ” Can’t tell if you’re autistic or just an asshole.”

Guy ” I’m negging you.”

Girl ” Oh so both then.”

Dawn M Isola
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Dawn M Isola

LMAO ?❤️??

Dave Smogg
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Dave Smogg

Lmao? It was as funny as child leukemia what’s wrong with you

Dave Smugg
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Dave Smugg

Dude you’re so unnecessary

Dave Smogg
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Dave Smogg

This is why women shouldn’t do comedy because that’s as witty as a sermon let a man show you how it’s done

Guy “your boots don’t match your outfit they should be tan”

Girl “nice catch, (wink) I didn’t think anyone would notice my terrible fashion sense”

Guy” i’m just randomly going to declare i’m negging you so your punchline will fit”

Girl” you mean like those pants you tried squeezing into tonight”

F for quality But B for effort. Not bad for a girl. This isn’t a neg. Your just shit plain and simple

Anonymous
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Anonymous

From your comments I gather you’re a fan of negging, but you might have more success by simply trying to not be a male chauvinist asshole. Although, you sound like a narcissist so not sure how much success you’ll have with trying to be a decent person.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

no one cares