Why do so many guys who finally land a beautiful woman only end up getting DUMPED by her a few months later?
It’s no good to have the pickup skills, only to lose that hard-won beauty a few weeks later.
The problem is, guys can become obsessed with trying to win a woman’s approval – even AFTER he’s slept with her.
And when you lack a backbone because you’re afraid of displeasing your girlfriend or wife, your woman eventually learns that she can take advantage of you.
Pretty soon, your woman starts demanding special treatment. She might become bitter, moody, materialistic, complaining, or emotionally cold. Her moods begin to vacillate. Maybe she stops exercising or she stops wearing sexy clothes like she used to.
Instead, she sits on the couch eating chocolate bon-bons and gets fat.
She starts using sex as a weapon against you to get what she wants.
If you’re a wuss, she learns that not only can she get away with bad behavior, but in fact she is REWARDED for it.
Here’s how guys go wrong:
First, the woman acts badly. Let’s say she withholds sex. Then we reward the woman for her bad behavior, say, by giving into her demands and trying to snuggle up to her. We buy her flowers and gifts and try to win our way back to approval and sex.
But that’s how women become spoiled and selfish.
When you reward your woman’s bad behaviors, you’re teaching her that these bad behaviors will get GOOD responses in return. And when she’s rewarded for it with attention, then the bad behavior only gets worse!
Likewise, what happens when a little child throws a temper tantrum when he sees something he wants and the parents always give in? The little child becomes a spoiled brat.
Pretty soon the woman is controlling when you have sex, giving it and then withholding it, creating an emotional roller coaster ride of positive feelings and then negative withdrawal that gets you chasing her.
The Sexual Monopoly Bludgeon
The woman wields even more power if you’re in a committed relationship with her, like dating and marriage.
In an open market with many competing manufacturers, how much does a product such as a pair of shoes cost?
A new pair of shoes costs just above what it costs to make it, and the manufacturers compete with each other to give you the best shoes at the best price.
But what happens when only one show company controls the entire supply of shoes?
Holding a monopoly, the one shoe company has no incentive to improve their product. In fact, they have every incentive to raise the price of shoes sky high to maximize their profits at the expense of your pocket book because you have nowhere else to go to buy shoes.
Monogamy between a man and a woman creates another kind of monopoly – a sexual monopoly. And if you act like a needy Wuss, the woman has the power to control the supply and price of sex.
That’s how some women can wield monogamy like a bludgeon, battering their needy, Wussy boyfriend or husband into subservience, into doing everything possible to accommodate her whims in exchange for lame sex and attention.
How Guys Get Dumped
One day your woman begins to think to herself, “He is not a real man anymore. He’s a Wuss, a little boy.”
Suddenly she’s spending more time with her friends or more time alone. She becomes more distant. At some point she cheats or just leaves you.
If she’s married, she feels trapped with a loser and comes to despise you for someone she doesn’t respect.
If your woman treats you with disrespect and you let it go or even reward it, then it’s your own fault. You have no one else to blame for her spoiled, rotten behavior but yourself. She’s simply responding appropriately to the frame that you’ve set for her.