Cunnlingus Tips
Even if you’re the biggest loser on Earth, women will go crazy if you’re able to give them explosive tongue thrashings
You can easily compensate for having a small woody-woodpecker if she knows she’s found a rare treasure tongue
Oral sex is not a natural skill that you’re born with. If you don’t take the time to learn the skill, women won’t get the thrill
Attitude is everything- nothing is hotter to a woman than for her to think that you find her pussy the most delicious dessert on Earth
Don’t give her oral sex for her pleasure- give her oral sex for YOUR pleasure. Eating her pussy is its own reward
Throw her a devilish look that conveys lust- throw her one as you’re licking and sucking your way down her stomach. Stop and look to meet her eyes
Unless her clitoris is engorged with blood, it will be too sensitive to touch directly. Don’t dive in without a little prep work- get her hot first
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more than men, love to be teased. Make her anticipate the sensations
About eating pussy, a lot of guys ask me, “How long should I do it?” And I answer them, “How long can you last?”
Controlling Your Orgasm Tips
By orgasm without ejaculating, you can orgasm repeatedly and satisfy your woman for as long as she wants it
Develop strength and control of your PC muscles to prolong erections, last longer, and give yourself more ejaculation control
Female Fantasy Tips
Women’s sexual fantasies are as vivid as men’s- 35% fantasize of orgies, 25% of anal sex, 80% of sex with strangers and 35% have girl-on-girl fantasies
The truth is, sex is very cerebral for women- unlike men, your woman can be trained to have orgasms through fantasizing alone
Physically stimulating a woman’s body alone is not enough to becoming a legend in bed- you must also learn to stimulate her fantasies
Research shows that women who think sexy thoughts and fantasize sexy scenes before having sex have more orgasms. Explore her fantasies
The ideal lover allows her to release herself from the mundane limitations of life, bringing out her inner fantasies and desires and fulfilling them
Sexual Surrender Tips
The amount of pleasure a woman experiences is directly proportional to the level she can let go and surrender her body and mind to you
To be an exceptional lover relax and completely let go of any fear and hesitation- make love to your woman uninhibited
Women’s sexual selves are repressed by society’s expectations of her as a daughter, worker, wife, and mother- it’s your job to bring her sexuality out
Techniques are worthless if she can’t let go and enjoy herself. The best sex she’ll ever have is when she feels good about herself and what she’s doing
Most women are self-conscious about their bodies- tell her how beautiful she is so she can trust you enough to let go and surrender
The capacity for sexual arousal and orgasm is biologically programmed into the body of women- so if it isn’t happening, something is in the way
Intimate Sex Tips
Steadily gaze into her eyes- keeping eye contact maintains that sense of connection and makes her feel a huge amount of sexual energy
Focus on enhancing your awareness of pleasure in the moment and achieving a deeper sexual connection with your woman
For an intimate experience, lie together on the bed and look into each other’s eyes. Match her breathing until it’s synchronized together
Let go of any distracting thoughts and focus only on her. Let the rest of the world met away. Stop trying, relax, let go and all will come naturally
Stare deeply into her eyes. Keeping eye contact creates intense intimacy. Imagine you can read everything about her by reading her eyes
Place your right palm over her vagina, and your left hand on her heart, linking her pleasure and passion together
Breast Play Tips
Tickle, tease, caress, nibble and kiss her nipples. Don’t hang from them or bite hard. Be gentle like you’re touching delicate china
First time, treat her breasts like they’re delicate china. Run your fingers around the contours and the undersides where they’re most sensitive
Before you touch the nipple, blow a warm breath on it to tease- then lightly flick your tongue once across each nipple until she goes wild
Put a hand on each side of her two breasts and push them together. Slowly run your tongue up between them a couple of times
Pay attention to her breasts for at least five to ten minutes. If she’s really hot for it then go on for another ten. She’ll love you for it
In foreplay, swirl the tip of your tongue around the outer edge of the areola in a circle, getting closer and closer to her nipple with each rotation
Once her nipple is wet, blow cool air on it for ten seconds. Then, immediately switch to a warming mouth suck- contrast the sensations
Dirty Talk Her Tips
You may be as surprised to learn that 99% of the women love dirty talk. In fact, women are even more sexually excited by the power of words than men
Even if she’s too shy to confess up to it, sexy talk her to be the “bad girl” she desperately wants to be in the bedroom
Dirty talk isn’t limited to the bedroom. When she calls you by phone tell her “I just took a hot shower and jerked off while thinking about fucking you”
Tell a woman a forbidden fantasy while you make love. Remember, what makes dirty talk exciting is that it’s “forbidden”
An Open Mind
There is no effort, no goal, no path. The only thing to do is to let go and unlearn our prejudices about sexuality. A true lover requires an open mind
The very sexuality that many try to repress can be used wisely for spiritual uplift and be transformed into a miraculous cure
Sex is a journey of self-discovery without judging or expecting anything in advance but living passionately in the moment
A couple should express their thoughts to each other exactly the way they are as their real selves, free from disguise, duplicity, or pretense
Sex is a personal journey of spiritual and sexual awakening, of letting go of your prejudices and ego, and reframing lovemaking as a spiritual endeavor
Poor lovers make love to gratify their ego or for sexual release and complete as quickly as possible. Don’t get lost in the goal or your orgasm
Final Tips!
While making love, don’t close your eyes and drift off into fantasy. Experience the moment WITH your woman
Do seven shallow thrusts and then one deep to vary the stimulation- thrust SLOWLY and withdraw RAPIDLY to make her go wild
To keep a girl crazy for you, the formula is pretty simple- simply be the best lay she’s ever had and she’ll always be back for more
If you are the BEST she’s ever had then you have a monopoly on her pleasure. She’ll always have to come back to you if she wants more of the good stuff
Stress is highly correlated with erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, arousal difficulties, and lack of sexual drive in both sexes. So relax!
wow that is a lot of tips, hope i have the chance to try them all out :p
I realize that so much of being a great lover is being empathetic. If you can’t enjoy the thrill of taking your partner on a mind blowing adventure leading to her orgasm, to where you experience it intimately and erotically with her, if you aren’t turned on by what turns her on, simply for that fact, then I would say you are barking up the wrong tree, and you are never going to be anyone’s best lay ever.
Try not cumming at all and see what happens the next time you are with a woman. Tell her ahead of time that it is all about her, and then just enjoy yourself with no other goal than to please her. That doesn’t mean it won’t be fun for you; you might find that it is even more erotic when it is more focused like that. You might find yourself more in the moment and more tuned in to her vibrations than if you were concentrating on your own orgasm.
This brings about more of the connectedness that turns women on so much, and it creates an energy loop with your own libido that just keeps increasing, which will take you to a much higher and hotter place than thinking of your respective arousals as being separate.
It can be difficult for some to grasp the paradox that the path to your own highest arousal is through focusing on your partner’s arousal and sharing it as if it were your own, which it is, if you let it be. I have known people who seem to be missing the empathy “gene” though, and they will never get it. Avoid these people like the plague; they are to be pitied, not fucked! lol
Emotionally healthy women though, will respond to this kind of sexual altruism in kind, though if you are waiting for them to “repay” your sexual “favors”, you are already in the wrong frame of mind, and that alone will jinx it. You have to commit to this philosophy 100% or don’t bother.
If you do you will be glad you did.
How long should i perform cunnilingus to make my girl a mind blowing orgasm ?
Thats very true. I at times thrust fast going in and withdraw slowly, she likes it. But some women dont realise how difficult it is to control ejaculation. One day i told my wife that we were exchanging roles, that is, she would be doing the fucking, “girl on top”. Now when she was about to cum i told her to stop,but she “cried” as she could not control herself. From tht day she started appreciating each time i made her cum
A thought bout 99% of woman liking it when you talk dirty. tread carefully until you know how your girl reacts. The 1% that don’t like it, hate it! And the 99% that do like it, like it to one extent or another.It doesn’t mean that 99% like hard core dirty talk. You’d be surprised how quickly she can go from giggles to “get out you sick bastard.”
You are completely right!! I was disgusted for like a whole year when he said you like to get paid for sex and how I like many dicks in me! Like wtf! Yeah not sure still how to deal with that shit!☹️?
wow! dead on!
Great. Collection of tips like this are very useful…
I wrote some down to try em out 😉
Superb tips. I really do want to be the any woman has had. Im learning so much and always willing to learn more and get better. Wanting HER to get more pleasure and not thinking about me. Thank for making me better. Lee
No problem, awesome
Thoughts ? 🙂