With younger girls, you’re NOT obliged to acknowledge and follow everything she says.
Because often girls start to talk about stupid things that actually *weaken* the conversation.
She may talk about ex-boyfriends…
Or ramble a long story about what she did on a vacation.
Or she starts to get negative about something.
So if the conversation goes off in a boring direction, here’s how to handle it…
CUT HER OFF.
Cut off the girl’s conversational thread and wrestle BACK control !
Just plow over her and get back onto subjects that YOU want to talk about.
Like if a girl says, “I have a boyfriend,” don’t even register it and just immediately start talking about something else and game her from there.
Always ask yourself, “Is what the girl saying making me happy?”
Ask yourself, “Is what she’s saying as bewildering as a half-naked Sean Connery with a gun?”
And, “Is the girl adding to the positivity of the conversational vibe?”
Because if she’s not, it’s up to YOU to lead and to CUT the conversation thread by bringing up something else.
That’s called verbal dominance.
That’s controlling the interaction.
And THAT’S what women look for in a guy!
An EASY Way To Develop Verbal Dominance At Home!
Most guys are so eager to be liked by the girl that they let her ramble on about whatever nonsense, and just listen endlessly.
That screams, “NICE GUY!” And Nice Guys LOSE.
Don’t be her wussy emotional tampon by listening to everything she has to say. She has her other *girlfriends* for that!
So you need to practice LEADING conversations. And it’s really easy to do.
To start, grab a male buddy on the phone.
You lead off by talking to your friend about a topic that you’re passionate about. Say, mountain biking, big boobs, cooking, or whatever suits you.
Then your friend tries to change the topic to something that HE likes – say, hockey – by talking OVER you, cutting you off, and wrestling back control of the conversation.
And while your buddy talks about hockey, YOU want to look to switch it BACK to say, mountain biking.
See who can control the frame of the conversation!
So call up a friend and tell him you want to practice “frame controlling a conversational thread” and that you’ll be competing with each other to hold onto your own topics in a match of vocal wrestling.
With a little practice you’ll become a hot shot Top Gun at cutting off and leading conversations with passion!
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