How To Get Horny Faster AND Start Getting Girls With It

Here’s how to get horny for more for girls and start meeting them in a way that gets you more girls- by using your horniness itself!

So are you picky about which women you find attraction?

On the surface, pickiness with women kind of makes sense. It would save you time, you just go to the one hottie that you really like the most, open her, attract her, and boom, you’re done for the night.

And why talk to lesser attractive women because that’s just opening up yourself to possibly additional negative reactions, and it’s just a lose-lose situation because you wouldn’t be interested in the girl anyway.

But we also talked about how this mindset and methodology will really blow up in your face.

It’s because when you first go out, you’re not warmed up. You’re not socially calibrated. You’re not yet in positive, talkative, let go state.

And you see that hottest of the hottest girls there, and you’ve just freeze up. This is the one girl you want, this is the one approach you want to do because you’re very picky, and that will cause approach anxiety.

Even if you do go up to her, that neediness will come through in an approval seeking way. The approach will have this, “Please, please like me and accept me,” tone to it, and you’re going to be running really timid, conservative game because you’re afraid of fucking things up.

That’s IF you approach her, which is unlikely.

And we talked about how the key is to actually approach ALL women in the party. Even the unattractive ones. To just let go of the 1 to 10 scale, and even to let go of the 0 to 1 scale. So you are going up and saying hello to girls that would in theory provide absolutely no social value to you, because you wouldn’t have sex with them even if they asked you to.

But what this allows you to do is build a lot of momentum. Because after you talk to 4 or 5 women, you’re going to relax, feel social, feel positive, and going up to that super hottie is going to feel a lot more natural and easy and she’ll get a much better vibe from you.

That’s why I actually like the unattractive women because they basically provide fodder for me to build up some massive amounts of momentum. And then a little later into the night I’ll hit up the real super hotties, maybe it’s 20 minutes later, maybe it’s 40 minutes later, sometimes it can be 2 hours later to really build my momentum to full steam.

But I need ALL the girls there in the party to get there.

Gold digger example

And that’s what women find attractive anyway. Let’s flip the example, and say you’re at a party. Who is the most attractive woman.

The woman there that is just a pure gold digger, and is ONLY interested in talking to the richest man in the room. And she’s got approach anxiety about it, and when she talks to him, she’s all needy for his approval. Is that the most attractive woman in the room. Is that the kind of woman you would want to be, if you were a woman?

Or is the most attractive woman the woman who is positive, talkative, talking with all the guys. Who’s approachable, who when you approach is happy to meet you, is happy to say hello and vibe with you. The woman who doesn’t seem like she’s seeking anything, but she’s to all possibilities and she’s not just digging the pockets of the richest guy in the room for cash.

That sociable, talkative, positive girl who’s energy is open and free is going to be far more attractive, and what most would consider, psychologically, a healthier person.

So as a man, you don’t want to be the looks digger, who is only distracted by the most beautiful woman. You want to be that guy, who talks to ALL the women in the room, and attracts ALL of the women in room equally.

Not only does that end up building up your momentum, but it allows you to have FUN in the night, meet unexpected people, and it’s psychologically the healthy way to go about this.

The dilemma

Now I can tell you, just open all the girls in the room. In fact, you should open all the girls in the room, but just because I tell you to do that, doesn’t mean that it will happen.

Usually guys will get to the party, think that they should open up every girl in the room, and they just up standing there, and their eyes wander over to the real hottie.

So intellectually knowing that you should do something, doesn’t make it happen.

And it’s the same for me too. I’m pretty picky, and if I just go to a bar or club with the wrong mindset, I’ll just end up standing there pretty much, uninspired by most of the women.

Getting horny

That’s because you’re just intellectually thinking about it, but to open all women, you need to be thinking with your dick.

Yes, you have to be horny for more chicks.

You have to be like the horniest guy in the room, so that the women can feel your sexual intent, and you have the drive and the driven want to actually go up and talk to all the women.

So you’ve got to make yourself horny for all the women.

Even that girl that you don’t really find attractive intellectually, you’ve got to be able to make yourself massively horny for her in the moment so that you have the drive to go talk to her, and make it fun and worthwhile, and to elicit the best response from her, so that you can build up your momentum through the night.

Okay so this is my specific formula on how to build my raw drive.

To build my horniness, to start thinking with my dick instead of my head. Because if I just think with my head about which girls I want, it’s only the hottest girl in the room and it’s instantly game over.

My horny formula

So first step, you have to drop the idea of looks, of trying to get a girlfriend, or you want this specific kind of hottie like a blonde or an Asian. So no abstract ideas basically.

An abstract idea is anything that you’re desiring that’s inside your head, but not physically in front of you. Instead it has to be concrete.

The only thing you can desire, is the real girl that is standing really for real in front of you at that particular moment. That’s concrete.

Okay so you walk into a party, no abstract wants or goals. And the first girl you see, let’s say from 1 to 10, she’s a 6, that girl you want to talk to.

Now to build your drive, because inside your head she’s not that attractive or worth talking to, you need to feel horny for this girl so that you’re thinking with your dick.

For me, this is what I do, though my formula changes.

First, I imagine her masturbating her pussy with her fingers hard, and squirting a wet orgasm, and she’s got this really beautiful, perfect looking pussy that is piping hot and wet.

Then I imagine raw dogging her, no condom, total nasty perversion, no standards, really jungle sex and getting off that I’m doing this on a basically ugly girl. Just pure cumming into that beautifully shaped pussy, raw dog, hot orgasm and cumming inside her to make her pregnant.

I also imagine pulling her hair and forcing dominantly to lick her girlfriend’s pussy.

It’s completely shameful, degrading, nasty, bareback sex, irresponsible, getting this girl pregnant sex, but that’s what will get me hot for her. It’s just pure perversion.

That will give me the drive to go talk to her, and she’ll feel my energy. I fix up that sexual desire with talkativeness and positivity, and the girl will be really attracted to that. Even if the interaction just lasts a minute, it makes an impact on her, and I can always come back around later and talk to her again.

And while I’m talking to her, I’ll just keep up this imaginative scenario of raw dogging her, dominating her, forcing her onto other girls, and as I’m talking to her, I can literally pop a boner in my pants.

And I’ll do that with the next girl. And I’ll do that with the next girl. And the next girl.

And pretty soon you don’t have to do that with every girl, you’ve just got this generally horniness and excitement to nail something, and you’re having fun running up to all the girls just expressing your sexual intent.

Being horny is liberating

And being horny for every girl is actually a very LIBERATING feeling. It’s a great feeling.

I mean imagine walking into a party or a club where all the girls, you’re HOT for. They’re all 10s.

Where every girl there, you’re popping boners for.

It’s like being a kid in a candy factory, and the girls are also going to be inspired and excited by your energy.

Whereas if you’re just after the 2 or 3 top hotties, you’re just going to think that the club kind of sucks, and you’re not positive, and you’re down, you’ve got approach anxiety, and going out to meet girls sucks.

But if every girl is like a fantasy come true, you will be inspired. You will think going out is the greatest thing on Earth. Because you’re thinking purely in perversion with your dick, and that excites the brain to think that it’s in pure heaven.

And then at the end of the night, you WILL end up with that girl that truly is the best girl in the club because you’ve been giving people good energy, you’ve been giving them value, you’ve built up social momentum talking with everyone, and you’re positive. And the very hottest girls will feel that and be strongly attracted to that and you will end up with them.

With the side benefit of popping boners for every girl you come across.

Now I know the counterargument, “Hey Jesse, that’s nasty, thinking about barebacking and raw dogging and squirting some of these ugly girls like that is too animalistic for me.” Well if you think that, it’s fine, just do your way. But I’m telling you, if you can let go of your judgments and just give it a try, it’s a lot of fun, and it WORKS.

Be concrete

Final, important tip here though. Remember, getting horny effectively and getting that drive, it has to be CONCRETE.

It’s not something that you psych yourself up beforehand at your house, before you go out, that you’re getting to be horny for all the girls. You need a specific girl there right in front of you and get horny for that specific girl, so that she can feel it subtly and you’re driven specifically for her.

And you can’t just look at her face and think your way into some kind of vague attraction. That won’t work, you won’t feel it, you’re not going to pop a boner for her.

The best way to make it work, is to go full on taboo sex, total dirty, no condoms, cum inside her raw, dominate her, make her squirt, exchange juices… you know stuff you wouldn’t do in real life, but in your warped fantasy mind, you project that on her because you need to think completely raw with your dick. What would your dick do if you were just a reptile animal with no higher thinking functions, that sort of thing. It would just be raw, animalistic, caveman sex.

That will get you genuinely hot and genuinely drive you.

So to conclude; talking to ALLLL the girls is KEY. Not being picky. Picky will destroy you.

But you may not have the natural drive to want to talk to all the girls. And that drive comes down to your level of raw horniness.

So if you want the top hotties at the end of the night, you’ve hot to amp your concrete for all the girls big time. Like through the roof.

And that will in turn make you feel awesome, make you feel liberated, make you feel giddy and excited, make you naturally pulled to all the women without having to think about it.

So the exercise for this weekend is simple. Go out to a party or even for day game at a bookstore, and do what I’ve described. And feel that motivation to talk to all the girls. It’s an awesome feeling, and it will really explode open your game like a fucking red giant star going supernova!