Here’s 4 surefire techniques to make a girl chase you down. And it’s only when the girl is chasing you that you’ll actually end up sleeping with her.
So the key is to get the girl to do all the work of the seduction. You want to get the girl to invest in the interaction as much as possible. And there’s a number of ways to do that.
Tactic #1. Get the girl to qualify herself to you
Like asking the girl, “What makes you unique?”
Or telling her, “You look young for me. What else do you have going for you that would make up for that?”
She’ll start giving you reasons that she’s unique – in effect, she’s trying to make you LIKE her MORE. She’s gaming YOU by qualifying herself to you.
And the hotter the chick, the more you’ll want to qualify her. On an extremely hot girl, don’t be afraid to pummel her with qualifying criteria. Qualify her HARD. Really make her work to game you hard. Make her work hard to win you.
And the funny thing about hot women is, that they are so used to being chased by the guy, that when she does start gaming you, by asking you questions and qualifying herself to you, she’ll fall for you even HARDER – because it’s so rare for her to do that, so rare for her to actually game the guy. That’s why in their own way, extremely beautiful women can fall HARDER for you than you’re typical woman.
Also qualify the girl based on your personal standards. Maybe you don’t like girls that smoke. Qualify her on that. Be open and authentic about it, challenge her on it, tease her about it, don’t hide it just to try to impress her. Be a challenge based on your personal standards and challenge her. Speak your mind. Have the balls to the show the girl what you like and what you dislike. And stand behind what you say.
She’ll be chasing you in no time.
Tactic #2. Use open and closed body positioning
Often when you first start talking to a girl she’s not facing you. You’re fully open, talking to her, facing her, but she is completely sideways to you.
And you’ve got this feeling that you’re grasping to talk to her and have her pay attention to you.
Well, you can create the same effect with the girl to make her chase you. When you first go in, you don’t have to fully face her immediately, you can have a slightly sideways position. And when the girl says something that you like, you can open up your body language to her more. And when she says something that you don’t like you, you can close it off or turn away more.
And what that does is get her constantly working for your attention and your approval. She ends up being the one that is grasping, that is chasing, again getting her to invest in you.
Tactic #3. Use breaking rapport tonality
A girl will never chase you if you use seeking rapport tonality like, “Hey how are you???” where your sentences rise in pitch at the end, like you’re asking her a question, it sounds grasping, it sounds needy, and it will turn the girl off.
But if you use breaking rapport tonality on the girl, like “Hey! Come here! How are you!” it sounds more like you’re barking orders and commands.
And what the girl naturally does in response to your breaking rapport tonality is she herself goes into seeking rapport tonality, and qualifying herself to you.
She’ll say, “Ah, my name’s Rachael?” in a seeking approval voice.
So if you tell her, “Hey, what’s your deal!?” in breaking rapport, she’ll say back…
“Um, actually I’m a student, I’ve been studying psychology for a year… and…”
See she’s qualifying to you by explaining herself, just in response to the type of voice you’re using.
Tactic #4. Create Space (push, don’t always pull)
When you’re talking to a girl, you don’t want to be suffocating the conversation, instead you need to take moments where you lean back and let the conversation breathe. You allow there to be silences. You allow there to be slower moments. And you lean back and you give the girl the chance to lean into you and to work for your attention.
So get the girl to invest in you as much as possible, and then you’ll find the girl HELPING you through the interaction.
She’ll be happy to give you her number because she’s chasing you.
She’ll be happy to meet you on that second date because she’s chasing you.
And she won’t give you nearly as much last minute resistance in the bedroom because she’s chasing you.