How To Touch A Woman Friend To Get Her Horny In 3 Minutes Flat – Your Complete Guide

I want to talk about how to initiate touch with a woman in a social party, at a bar, at a club, in any kind of party or nightlife situation, in a manner to generate HARD attraction with her- and get her horny within 3 minutes flat.

First of all, touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin.

Oxytocin, what it does is increases a woman’s testosterone levels, giving her high sex drive. Oxytocin also causes a woman to feel a powerful bonding feeling with whoever is touching her. And it creates a desire to be penetrated; a woman spiked with Oxytocin has a sudden desire for intercourse.

So you’re talking to a woman, and even if she’s cold to you at first, a few touches will make her start to feel hot and sexual, literally against her will, because it’s an automatic response women have to touch.

And it doesn’t matter where or how much you touch her, even a few small touches on the woman’s arm is enough to release a spike of oxytocin hormones into her body and warm her up to you.

What’s more, the oxytocin hormone gives her the desire to be touched even more, producing yet even more oxytocin, a reinforcing cycle of sex hormone escalation.

So if you keep touching a woman, she’ll quickly get to the point of wanting more and more touches and eventually warm up to penetration and sex.

And here’s the strange but wonderful thing about it; the Oxytocin response is FAR more powerful in women than it is for men.

That’s because Oxytocin affects the brain only in combination with estrogen. Without estrogen, Oxytocin has no effect. And women have far more estrogen in their bodies than men, particularly young women.

I mean, in your experience, have you ever noticed how a girl you were never really attracted to before, one day she touched you on the hand or shoulder and suddenly, suddenly, like a bolt out of the blue, blood rushed to your penis or you started to think about her differently, in a more sexual way?

Well, in women, that effect of a touch is literally 10 times more powerful!

A touch turns you from nice guy friend into potential lover instantly.

You can’t underestimate how being touched automatically and universally gets women in the mood for sex, literally and immediately, and for more touching and quickly for and penetration.

Oxytocin also decreases mental processes and impairs memory. A spike of the hormone brought on by a touch basically takes a woman outside of her head and into the moment. That’s why hugging a girl will typically defuse and melt away her “bitch shield” or cool her off from an argument; touch breaks her pattern, makes her forget her pain, and changes her state. Hugging a girl can instantly warm her up to you in a purely sexual way.

For all those reasons, it’s why touch is one of the KEYS for generating HARD attraction in women.

If she likes you, she thinks you’re awesome, you’re entertaining to her, she will feel light attraction to you. But unless you are touching her, you’re going to FAIL to generate HARD attraction, period, that hard attraction where the girl will literally chase you down.

And look, guys are naturally more physical than women. We’re sportier, we’re about 20% physically larger on average, and physically stronger.

Women are more in touch with their feelings and their feelings quickly change to the surrounding environment.

So it’s natural to stimulate women’s feelings, spiking their sexual hormones, through being masculinely physical. By touching a girl and her being receptive and having your touch affecting her feelings, you are being a natural man, and she’s being a natural women. So it’s completely natural to touch women, all women, when you meet them.

Touch The Girl Right Away

Now, when you’re in a bar or club or social party, it’s very important to touch a woman right off the bat, from the beginning of the interaction.

Because if you just stay in conversation land, and you talk, and you talk, and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk some more, the longer the conversation goes on, the weirder it’s going to feel to the woman in a way she can’t quite put her finger on.

And how long can you fucking talk a girl’s ear off? 20 minutes? You’re going to keep going for 40 minutes? And never make physical contact?

What happens is, if you never touch her, you just end up entertaining her to keep the conversation going. And that’s a sure-fire recipe for the conversation to eventually just die and go nowhere and you end up wasting your time.

The sooner you touch a girl from the first moment the conversation starts, the more NORMAL the touching and the conversation is going to feel to her.

Because if you touch her right away, it shows her that you are completely comfortable with touching, you’re not making a move, it’s just part of who you are, and what you do with everyone. And since it’s no big deal to you, it won’t be a big deal to her.

When you touch a girl right away, you’re showing her your sexual masculine intent from the very beginning and she feels in her gut that you’re a sexual man and a possible sexual partner, and not just a friend or a buddy.

But if you wait 20 minutes into the conversation, and THEN you suddenly try to lay your hands on her of nowhere, you’ll creep her out because it’s like you were pretending to be the “nice guy” for the first 20 minutes to make her like you, and only THEN once you felt you had her permission to go further, only then did you start touching her. And that’s WEAK and girls don’t like it because you suddenly changed personalities halfway through.

That’s not what a cool guy who trusts in his actions does, he doesn’t look for the girl’s permission to start touching her, he just does it from the very beginning because that’s just what he does with all girls.

So touch the girl right away, because if you wait and beat around the bush trying to get her permission and making sure that she likes you, the girl isn’t going to trust you.

But once a woman feels physical contact is there from the very beginning, once she sees it’s just part of who you are, she will accept whatever the fuck you do, because girls fundamentally like touch. And once touched, they want more touch.

The Initial Moves You Need To Make

Okay, now what I’m going to do is give you a give you a moves to begin touching a woman in a bar or club when you first open her and say hello.

The jewelry moves. After saying hello or introducing yourself and opening, you check out her jewelry. You just ask her about her jewelry while you touch her jewelry and by default brush her skin with your fingers. You do a jewelry inspection.

Or another initial first touch you can make, is when you introduce yourself, you shake her hand and you pull her in slightly.

Or you introduce yourself, say something that you like about her, and then you give her a hug, which conveys assertiveness, comfort, and sexuality.

Or when you open her, you put your arm around her shoulder as you do so.

So you want to pick some physical move that you start out every interaction with. And it can be the same move for every girl you meet. You don’t 5 different opening physical moves in your head at once. Just pick one, stick with it, they’re all effective, and they’re all good.

It doesn’t matter the first physical move you make, it just matters that you make a move. They’ll all triggering the Oxytocin response. That all convey assertiveness, leadership, comfort with oneself, trust, self-acceptance and convey sexuality. All of them. So just pick one. And get it down. Use it and recklessly bust it out on all the girls you meet.

For example, every time you open a girl, start inspecting her jewelry. For every single girl you meet.

Or, every time you say hello to a girl, put your arm around her shoulder. Even if she’s with other girls in her group, or whatever. Just make it a rule that when you introduce yourself, you put your arm around her shoulder.

Hugging every girl is damingly effective because girls likes hugs. And you make it the one minute hug rule. Within the first minute of any interaction, you MUST hug the girl! No questions asked. No scenario where this isn’t possible. No situation where it won’t lead to a better outcome.

So pick your opening physical move, and just stick with that move. And getting physical is exactly what sparks that HARD attraction.

(P.S. For even BETTER physical moves, check out my Girlfriend Express video here)

The 1 Minute Hug Rule

Here’s how to make a girl horny in one minute flat…

Now most guys talk about what they should SAY to women, but really attraction and seduction is not in your verbal sparring with the girl, but in the physical interaction, the touching.

Because can’t really expect to talk your way into a girl’s heart. It’s got to be through physical touch. It’s physical touch that is what makes the girl wet and horny between the legs for you.

So rule #1 is, you want to touch the girl right off the bat. You don’t to be waiting 10 minutes into the conversation before you start thinking, “Oooh, wait a minute, I should be touching this girl.”

You need to initiate touch right from the beginning, and the second you start talking to her, you should be touching her.

It could be giving her a high five, or shaking her hand on the introduction, or tapping her on the shoulder, it doesn’t matter. You just want to set the precedent of touching her and giving her the idea that you’re okay with touch and that it’s okay to be touched by you.

And once that first touch precedent is set, you want to keep physically escalating!

And one good rule to follow is the hugging rule.

And the hugging rule is that you want to hug the girl within 60 seconds of meeting her. So within the first 60 seconds of any interaction, somehow you MUST hug the girl! So questions asked.

So even if people are looking, it doesn’t matter girls like to be hugged no matter what. You can hug the girl in front of other people. Girls love hugs.

Even if a girl has a boyfriend that you don’t know about, it’s still cool and socially accepted to hug the girl.

And you don’t need a good reason to hug the girl. Just for any dumb excuse you can give her a hug. She says something you like, and you say, “Hey that’s so cool of you! Come here, give me a hug for X Y and Z!” And you hug her.

And what hugging does is that conveys confidence, it conveys dominance, assertiveness, friendliness, sexuality, it conveys to the girl that you do what you want and you take what you want.

Hugging conveys that you’re not held back by what other people think or by society’s standards. It conveys that you’re comfortable with physicality and therefore sex.

It conveys that you’re a leader, and that you’re not worried about being judged by others.

And the cool thing about hugging the girl within 60 seconds is that it helps to overcome one of the biggest conversation problems, and that is the problem of running out of things to say.

Once you hug the girl, there’s a level of sexual tension, and then it doesn’t matter what you say. Because even talking about your job or what the weather is going to be is going to be far more sexually charged, and therefore very interesting to the girl.

So instead of trying to be interesting by having the most interesting or funny things to say, instead touch her right away, hug her within the first minute, and then you’ve created a low level of sexual tension and then even the most boring topics will seem interesting to the girl because your are physically attractive to her and there’s a physical attraction going on.

And be setting the physical groundwork early, it makes it much easier down the road to cross that barrier into kissing and sex.

Because if you don’t touch her early on, it gets very hard later on to try to go for that first kiss. But if touching is already there, getting to the kiss is more of just a natural extension or next step of the physical escalation.

So remember, touch the girl right away, even if it’s just with a handshake, and hug the girl within the first 60 seconds.

It makes the interactions so much easier and getting to that first kiss, and you don’t have to worry about what to say so much.

261 thoughts on “How To Touch A Woman Friend To Get Her Horny In 3 Minutes Flat – Your Complete Guide”

  1. Fun fact! This doesn’t work.

    While Oxytocin may be released, it’s only released if they find you attractive in the first place. Otherwise they get nervous, which is a major turn off.

    Not to mention that hormones arent the only factor!
    Scent is also a good one. We’re attracted to people with the opposite immune systems, which we can smell apparently.
    Personality. Of both the woman and you. But I can garrentee that no women ever wants to get touched by a stranger.

    The surefire strategy? Be a decent person. These aren’t mindless animals, driven by instinct.

    1. Thank you – exactly right!! Because there are a lot of scary guys out there and we women have to be so careful, making excuses to keep touching me right after I meet you – as suggested in this article – is likely to give me the creeps and put me on guard, even if I was initially really attracted to you. I love hooking up (and have lots of FWBs now), but I don’t want someone I just met to be making excuses to keep touching me. That just feels disrespectful and creepy.

      I wrote a lot more advice on another comment here, on approach and how to help a woman feel comfortable with you, which is the first and most important step toward sexy fun with a new friend. 🙂

  2. Fist Rockbone

    This is the best advice on either getting arrested or finding a woman with no self esteem. Way to go, pal. You might be getting lucky, but you’re still trash.

      1. Pedotrump?? Lol when every Democrat is getting busted one at a time for child porn and other creepy things lol #Trump2024

  3. What a joke. This entire article was so fucking creepy. I feel like i just read some incel plan.
    I personally get freaked out by being randomly touched straight away by dudes. It doesnt make me horny, it makes me feel uncomfortable and sick. I’m personally a lesbian but, all the girls I’ve been friends with have all complained to me if a guy was ever too touchy with them straight away because It’s always creepy.

  4. Okay, I don’t believe that this article is completely wrong. Even I know that I’v fallen for this little trick once. Plus, it seems like research was done correctly, mainly with the estrogen and triggering of Oxytocin. But, I do have my opinion that I’d like to share. I don’t like to be touched too much. I mainly find it desperate and sometimes rude or perverted. Don’t get me wrong, men are great but, depending on who touches me, this little trick can work or fail.

    For example, I was at school talking to a friend and a random short boy in my class approached me. I greeted him by saying “hello”. He touched my arm and said hey back to me. Now, when he touched my arm, I felt a little discomfort. Now, this kept happening for a while until one day while I was waiting in a line for bathroom break, he touched my butt and ran away… I know this wasn’t a dare because he wasn’t talking to any of the other guys while he too was waiting in line, and I know that he touched my butt on purpose because he ran away with a smile on his face. I of course told a teacher on him. (That teacher didn’t do sh*t) A different day after the butt “incident”, I was collecting work books from my classmates. The random short boy in my class was sitting in his chair as I walked over to him to get his workbook… He f*cking touched my front and said, “slurp”. Note that I was wearing the school uniform so there wouldn’t be any reason for him to want to do that. So, I obviously wouldn’t want to have sex with him.

    Here’s a different scenario with a different guy in my class. I sit next to him. I was struggling with a work-sheet question, so I asked him for help. He told me how and where to find the answer and I thanked him. He then asked me about the very first question on the work-sheet and I told him how to find it.
    When that class ended, the classroom had to walk to P.E. He then came up behind me, put his arm around me and started talking. I didn’t find this discomforting but at the same time I didn’t want him to have sex with me. To this day, he still puts his arm around me and I couldn’t care less.

    Okay, here’s another scenario… I saw a guy drawing characters from many different games and tv shows that I knew about and liked. I say, “Cool isn’t that Little-Tale Sans?” He looks up at me and says “Yeah”. This go’s on for a few days and finally we start having real conversations about games, anime and other interests. By then, I started to like this guy a lot. Maybe even start considering to ask him out but, I didn’t because I wanted our friendship like relationship to remain the same. He never touched me in any way at first but I still formed feelings. Heck, I even formed this thingy where we would hug at the end of the school day. I wouldn’t want to have sex with him but I do wanna keep this awesome friendship we have.

    Alright, another scenario of mine. I was drawing in class until I was interrupted by a guy with a faux hawk like hairstyle. He asked me for a pencil, so I gave him one. The next day he thanked me for the pencil and proceeded to talk to me. We kept talking for days until he straight up told me that he liked me. I told him that I didn’t want a relationship at the time because I’m too young to being getting into drama and plus, I’m not ready for a relationship. I did like him and he knew that I did. One day, I was watching a movie in class. He calls me over to sit with him, so I do. A little bit further into the movie, he moves me toward him, I didn’t think much of it and proceeded to watch the movie. He grabs my hand, and I turn toward him saying “what?” He then says the phrase, “want sum fuk?” and I respond with “ew, no”. A little bit more into the movie I turn to him, and place my hand on his leg/thigh as a joke to the “want sum fuk?” phrase that he asked me. Even more as a joke because I knew he wouldn’t mind, I slid my hand over his area and he pushed my hand away. As I did this, I didn’t realize at first that I got turned on just by touching him like that. He then touched my thigh. I moved his hand away after realizing we discarded each others boundaries and that we should stop. For the rest of the day, it looked like I was in distress (and or) hot. When I got home, I was dripping wet. Being wet was something I have never experienced before that guy came along. So I guess I’d want to have sex with him if I wasn’t still in school or if I didn’t have any plans for the future.

    That’s about it. So some scenario’s work and some don’t. I just think it depends on the girls that you want to have sex with.

  5. I want to have sex with my sister_in_law who is elder to my wife and married. How to make her feel the same for me?

  6. You’re a fucking creep… Don’t touch someone you don’t know. Getting felt up by weird strangers has never turned me on and I can speak for most other women too. ?

    1. Your missing the whole point, which means you don’t understand shit about human sexual interactions. Women have done this to me plenty of times, A hand shake a tap on the shoulder or arms etc. It works on women all the time, it don’t mean she will sleep with you, but it’s a great start to let a women know you want to be more than friends with her.

      Amy; You really sound like a true virgin, or don’t have too many guys approach you.

  7. I just tell women exactly what I want from them. I’m always completely honest. If I want them I tell them. I tell them why and the things I find attractive about them. It usually works. They see me as straight forward and strong. I’ve found that most women want a man that makes them feel like the most attractive woman in the room . It’s really simple.

    1. You can talk all you want if you don’t touch her you don’t get laid. LOL. what your just going to say hey I want to fuck you, good luck with that. Guy’s you must touch her in a friendly matter that says I like you , your not just going up to her and grabbing her Breast.

    2. Great advice. I’m a woman with a very high sex drive and I love and enjoy casual sex. The straight shooter approach like this guy above is way more likely to get somewhere with me than a stranger finding excuses to keep touching me right away, which often just feels creepy or may even make me concerned for my safety. Remember there are lots of scary guys out there, and you don’t want to give women a creepy pushy vibe because we’ll be scared and looking for a way to get out of there – which is the opposite of sexy. Consent is key, and to me, being a gentleman (i.e. unrushed and respectful) is sexier than just about anything else and is most likely to spark my interest. It says here’s a guy who cares about making me feel comfortable and safe, and who understands that just because he’s attracted to me doesn’t mean I’m obligated to feel the same way or do anything with him. A guy who is patient and cares about my comfort and consent while flirting, is a guy who’s more likely to care about my pleasure in bed as well, instead of just selfishly jumping right in and getting his nut. He’s the one who has the patience to get me off for a while first, and enjoys the process of getting me all hot and ready and hungry for him. He knows if he takes the time to do this it will be so much hotter for both of us, and I will want to be with him again and again. I think about all of this while we’re still just talking, not touching… and if at any point I get the sense he doesn’t care about my comfort or pleasure then I’m out.

      A lot can be conveyed in the eyes by keeping friendly eye contact and showing interest (without looking us up and down like a piece of meat, which just feels gross). Rather than the OP’s “touch early and often” approach, it’s sexier and feels safer for him to chat with me for a while and then move just a little bit closer – but still respecting my personal space and not touching me – to show interest in me and the conversation. That gives me an opportunity to signal how I feel by either moving a bit closer to him to show I’m interested too, or touching him briefly, or else leaning or moving back a bit if the chemistry or situation isn’t working for me. Most women will appreciate a guy who is open and honest, no games, respects their physical space, and pays close attention to her signals. If the chemistry is working and we both move in closer, it feels natural for him to take an opportunity in the conversation to ask if he can touch me, or just briefly touch me in a non-sexual place like my arm, shoulder, or hand and then move his hand away again. That last part is really important, because then I don’t have to actually ask him to stop if I don’t like something. That makes it very comfortable and non-threatening for me. Then I can invite him to go further by leaning in closer and smiling at him, touching him back, or taking his hand and showing him how/where I’d like him to touch me, but he’s still giving me an out so I can back away if I’m not comfortable going there. If he’s respectful and patient while we’re flirting, he’s more likely to be respectful and patient (and a whole lot more satisfying) in bed. And that’s hot!

  8. Is this a joke? This seems like the kind of thing you’d see in a sitcom when a boy is struggling with a girl so he looks up ways to get chicks and this shit pops up.

  9. Ha! Except nowadays we’re balls deep in the middle of the MeToo movement so you cant even think about touching a woman (even a pat on the shoulder) nowadays cuz its an immediate and automatic life ruiner/jail time. There are so many cold vaginas out there now youd think we live in a morgue.

    I swear, this is why RealDolls will soon take over the Earth.

    1. the “me too” movement is supposed to make girls who have been a victim of actual sexual assault (not your “funny” definition of it) feel like they’re not alone, which they’re not. Comments like the one you just made is why there are so many “cold vaginas” out there, I feel bad for the people who have to deal with you everyday.

      Sidenote: I wouldn’t be surprised if you came back at me with words like “bitch”, “cunt”, or “feminazi”. Go ahead, I’ve been called worse and frankly don’t give a shit

      1. Hooray!! Thank you.

        I’m a self-admitted horndog and I love casual sex, and I know numerous women just like me. But we still all want respect for (1) our personal space and (2) our right to say no to unwanted touching. It’s just a basic human right, Tony. Consent is key. Consent is sexy. Stop acting like we’re frigid just for reminding you that we’re real human beings and we’re not just here for men to treat us like objects and just touch us whenever they feel like it. Would you personally be OK with random men coming up and just touching your body, sexually or not, whenever and wherever they wanted to without even asking you first? No? Same thing.

        I should add that there’s a lot of non-sexual touching that is plenty offensive too, such as being patronizing and patting me on the head like a child. Some men seem to feel it’s perfectly fine to pull this crap with women. No one has my consent to touch me that way, ever, and if they’re daring enough to do it anyway they might not get their hand back in one piece.

        I am super affectionate and love consensual touch, hugs, snuggling, and sex. But It’s my body, and as such I have every right to say if, when, where, and how someone can touch my body. Tony, if you don’t want to be bothered with real humans with real feelings and asking if it’s OK for you to touch them, then by all means get a RealDoll and stay home away from people so you can continue to do you without subjecting others to your selfish disregard for their rights.

    2. No, you can’t touch someone you don’t know. Cry about it, cuck.
      Nobody’s going to jail for touching someone’s head… It’s the rapists and molesters that are getting called out.

  10. Felt like I was reading “how to be a creep for dummies” … guys the only problem with this article is attraction is instinctive especially for girls. If she doesn’t want you in the first place she won’t want you just because you touch her. If anything you’ll creep her out and she’ll be uncomfortable. If she was already attracted to you this won’t be necessary and words can be even more effective than touch. You don’t have to invade personal space to create intimacy

  11. OMG – Please give us girls some credit!
    We are not some lame primitive unevolved creatures who need to be touched to spark an emotional attraction.
    Ever heard the phrase that ‘the brain is the most powerful sex organ’. Unless i am turned on by a guy’s intellect and personality, i wouldn’t let him anywhere near me !!!

  12. Bad advice. Touching a girl could usually work but sometimes it won’t. My best friend (who is a guy) was very touchy toward me and still is and it never sparked any attraction in me.

  13. Yo this might help me cause I’ve noticed that too so I want try and see what happens. Wether it works for me or dont, thanks for the advice


    1. Great read, but these tips need to be used only if a girl is responsive to you other wise you will be nothing more then a creep

  15. I’m a girl and while this article is a lil sexist, a guy that Ive known for a few years does this and even caresses my hand when we’re at parties with all our friends and yea it makes me wanna fuck his brains out but it doesn’t give me any romantic feelings towards him so be careful (unless all you want is sex and then ur good)

    1. Fuck you Aahhhhhhhhh oohhhghh h mmmmmm ummm. Fuck you my big dick sooooooo ccccchuummmm ummm you pussy

    1. Then this will take you out of friend zone. But first freeze out for a while, tell her u really have to find a great girl and leave her, and date other girls infront of her, refer sexual things(not creepy but sexual stuff) of the girls u date to her and say that you are happy but still not found the girl. And then u susddenly start touching her arms and pat her shoulder inbetween conversations (only between conversations) u can hold her shoulder when you laugh for a joke. another freeze out(this is gonna set your track with her) after this she has to come and talk to u to see whats wrong(do not go back untill she comes to u to specifically know why you are no longer talking with her the same way) and you just stop answering any of her questions directly maybe you can say “it was not intentional”, and NOW YOU CAN PROGRESSIVELY touch her more and back off when she is backing off and again go physical, do this untill the tension is intense that you both cant wait to go make out (this will happen if you wait till she comes to know why you have not been around). This way you never have to talk it out, see women are defenitely gonna take a standpoint thats socially right when you are verbal with them, so telling her that you no longer wanna be her friend and become her lover she is gonna give you the sorry face. or even worse, she’d laugh at you thinking its one of ur jokes. So just progressively get physical from the second phase (when she comes back to know why you have not been around). 😉 have been there and done it all, thats y am being so precise One thing about her coming back to know why you have not been around, this could happen in multiple ways
      1. she could express it little angrily saying “why would u have time for me” never react to her drama, its all her periods, so stay away from reacting (cos reacting to drama will push u back as friend)
      2. She would directly confront.
      3.She would come back as if nothing happened and try to make a conversation, but ur not much talking, not much reacting attitude will strike her differently.

      whatever it is she SHOULD at all cost first approach u after missing you. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT bro!

  16. let me tell you you are on point. if you have the slightest crush on a guy and he touches you. Awe girl!! It will be on and popping

  17. Fun article. I have never been big on touching people when I was younger. Reason being it gave me a weird feeling. When I met someone men or women I would just say “hey” and that was it. When I was in my 20’s I only dated one woman. If on the off chance I hugged a woman in her presence I had to explain myself later. We broke up years later and the need to feel close to someone may have prompted me to hug everyone I met. It seemed nearly overnight I had friends. I also dated more as well. Once I got use to hugging people I started to feel this wanted act was more of a chore. As a result people shied away from hugging me. I think this article went over this a few times but if you are not genuine and sincere in giving a hug it will not work in your favor. Just a side note read a few dating post from women. Bet there will be a few that mention cuddling. Can’t help but wonder if this article is on to something.

  18. She literally dragged me into the loos locked the door and I humped her my pennos stated to get all horny and she stripped-down and said that she wanted to be on top at first I thought she was going mad but it terns out she wasn’t. She stripes me and I sit down and she sits on the floor I lick her front but and suck her tits then she erected my pennos and I stuck it in and we humped I was too exited to stop and she started crying but she said keep going

  19. I will try it with women that get them horny and wet and I bet it work on women. Thanks for the tip got a lot ladies down in Texas here in ft.worth.ready are not here I cum.

  20. So let me get this straight: fat, greasy haired guy touches girl, and she just falls in the sack? Ummmmm, no. Like most seduction shit on Internet, far too simple, simple minded and lame

  21. Ok I’m a girl and I just realized that I fell for this. When I first met him he shook my hand, then we went to the movies a couple times and even though we were with people he made quite a bit of physical contact and now we are really attracted to each other but not in a relationship yet.

    1. Sexist?… It’s called biology and evolution and no amount of university/media PC indoctrination garbage is ever gonna change it! It’s what makes the world go ’round. Deal with it!

      1. Just because the author uses the word oxytocin doesn’t mean the content is biology. Don’t trust advice from someone who misspells jewellery so often, or uses terms like ‘bitch shield’.

  22. Dear writer. I’m very curious to know whether you got laid or not. I’m a girl. I don’t agree with this article at all. If you want to get a girl, DON’T touch her the very first minute because she’s just gonna get creeped out and run. Instead, develop and use your social and communication skills. The perfect balance of hard to get and friendly and good talker can have any girl eating out of your hands.

  23. I agree with a lot of things u said……….but dnt think for one second that u can just keep touching the girl w/o holding a good convo w/ her. The better the convo, the more seductive the touch will be.

  24. Every woman is different, some like touch some like words, some like both… Find out which type she is and make your move accordingly… If your a complete idiot and you can’t hold a conversation… She will never be turned on by you touching her… Lol, if she doesn’t find you physically attractive and you touch her… That’s just creepy oxytocin or not.. Your argument does have some degree of merit… If every woman on the planet was exactly the same

    1. This not easy as you think… it’s way too far…ladies prefer to feel comfortable before having intrcourse… make hrr feel that…and you will enjoy her…and her with you

  25. I’m meeting a woman tomorrow for coffee that I met on line. I’m going to hug her as soon as we introduce ourselves.

  26. You sir are a FOOL! you are nothing you are waste of time goodnight!! My girl loves the conversations it makes her moist 😉

  27. as a girl that has been hit on many times by this touch assertive method, I must say that only inexperienced girls will fall for something so plotted. Women still want intrigue, and to be enticed in all ways, emotionally and intellectually, so the physical part is only a fraction of the battle to get a girl interested.

  28. It’s all about the numbers, and those numbers for touching are in the mans favor. Most women do like touching and it’s a primary reason why they wear jewelry. We can “inspect” them. They want to be noticed, appreciated and “handled”. This information is dead on. And if you want to talk about “manipulation”, that ball is in the woman’s court most of the time. I adore women, and there is nothing wrong with letting them feel it.

    1. next thing will be a tap on the head will leave her more flexil when placing her in the boot without screaming.omg give women more credit. agood comical read tho. 1920s style

  29. This is one impossible move to do when its your first time seeing that girl, might I prefer eye to eye contact then you talk to the girl.

    1. If you are mildly attractive all you need to do is be able to hold an intelligent conversation and show interest. You might THINK you are showing interest but you need to be very direct. Guys aren’t mind readers.

  30. Dixie DeckenheartNo wonder why I had a girl lovin on me.

    No wonder why I had a girl lovin on me.O wonder why I had

  31. Kapuccini Bentali

    I would like that Moira, my neighbor, gives me head. Preferraby ike a pro-shafter, ie those that lick the tipbase of the man-symbol.
    Here in Breasty everything is sexy.

  32. Kapuccini Bentali

    I heard that in some countries women like to play on fours, hehehe
    From a seduction teacher I learned that women to feel it hard against their body. Should I put the dong out for them to love-see?

  33. I have this girl I am in love with and she says she doesn’t want a boyfriend, how do I earn her trust and make her want sex?

  34. Excellent text, it all makes perfect sense. It’s a good trick to check out jewelry, girls like compliments about jewelry. I’m gonna start doing that

  35. drop your wad,i mean your money then show her yours,and ask her to see hers,then ask her if that dosent work to go and set your alarm in your bedroom to get up for work the next day.women like men who work and oh looky here she is in yo bedroom.

  36. Wow everyone on here is an idiot women are easy finding one u can put up with for ever is the real trick

  37. In Islam and muslim culture it is forbidden for a man to touch a woman if they are not married, before praying they should wash face, hand and feets, if you touch a woman between this washing and praying ritual, the pray will not be accepted. This should explain the points made in this article. Touching a woman before the pray will invalidate the pray. This article is logical and makes sense. Now One can see why touching is so sensitive in muslim culture.

  38. Oriental conceptions about interaction between males and females, about touching are completely different. And oriental ladies have their educational, familial conceptions about interaction and touching : they just don’t allow these kinds of touching which are rude, unacceptable to them. So your theory will absolutely, completely fail, and worse, will create a very bad impression from them (and this is a complete turn off), if you touch them boldy and roughly….I think you should have other methods which can apply to women in general in the world, because your current methods may (I said “may”) be reliable to all occidental women.

  39. Lmao..This Is Pretty Generalized And Manipulative. Imma Woman And Ive Been Around Jackass Men Who Are Overly Friendly And Touchy And More Often Than Not I Am Not Impressed Or Turned On And I Have A Rather Healthy Appetite For Sex. Asking To See Jewelry? ThAts Just Fucking Weird.I Think The Only Way This Could Work For Me Is The Guy Would Have To Be In My Opinion Smoking Hot. Otherwise, NaH. This Is Why So Many Men Fail With Women. They Listen To Advice Like This.

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  41. I think that guys can touch and hug women, but I also think that they should not do that to women who they are just meeting. I think that they should ask the women whether or not she wants to get horny. They should ask women before they touch her because I view it disrespectful for a man to touch a woman without asking her permission first. Also the guy doesn’t know whether or not she is mentally ill, so by touching her and getting her all horny he could make it so that she has a mental breakdown. Causing a woman to have a mental breakdown is not a very nice thing for a guy to do to a woman.

  42. Good advice,its amazing how women relate to being touch.
    I’ve been recalling my previous interactions and not touching the girl lead to the most boring social encounters.

  43. Walked up and hugged this girl just like you said and it worked! But within 5 minutes after commenting on her ring and lightly brushing her hand as I did so her fiancé was beating my ass. Now I’m in a full body cast and no way to get laid for at least 6 months.

  44. this is wrong. Oxytocin is a hormone stimulated by only the females pituatary gland and it is what puts her into labor. thats why if women dont go into labor the hospitals induce them with ptocin im in the medical profession

    1. Oxytocin is involved with childbirth but it also plays a vital role in orgasms and feelings of trust and intimacy. Do the research yourself and see

  45. WHAT DA FUCK HOW DA HELL DID I GET TO DIS PART OF THE INTERNET O_O Dont listen to dis stupid ass you just get to know a female nd fuck whatever happens happens :I

  46. I don’t know how to start conversation with a girl. If I will able to start conversation I can easily go ahead. Can you please give me tips ?

  47. Bro… Here in South Africa, the hug is used as a greeting… If we touch anymore its going to be seen as yea this advice is great I’m sure.. But not in all countries 🙁 us africans have it tough here with the competition. Where are the boobies 🙁

  48. Jesse

    Get the feeling you are much younger than me but knowledge often comes from the most unlikely places. I am not necessarily attractive but have always been very self aware and confident. I have had woman half my age often. I always wondered what it was that attracted them and now I know- always greeted them with a hug!! thanks for the clarification. My conquests have always told me I am very sexy…

  49. I never let guys hug me, that’s not my thing. And this exactly WHY I don’t let guys hug me. On a side note, I’m sure touching and closely hugging him could make him horny too!

  50. This guy knows his stuff! If I am sexually interested in a woman, I like touching her shoulder – and yes, within the 1st minute of meeting her. I do this very gently while looking her in they eyes and asking whether I can get her anything, or ask if she minds walking this way so we can talk, or whatever – it doesn’t matter. The jewelery thing works too – but you have to be careful not to come off as a fruit. “Oh, I just love those earrings” – ehhh, that gets her wondering if you’re a homo. But, “Ahh, that looks really tribal…” something along that line does work. I never really knew why touch works on women, but it does. Thanks for providing details on this.

  51. Some questions: Girl doesn’t wanna be isolated from the rest of the group (cos I find it awkward to escalate beyond the touching on and off, especially amongst a group of people that talk about those coming just to pick up girls – i don’t wish for the word of mouth to spread about me like I’m a bad apple or sth) or sometimes I find that girl pulls her hand away (when I try to hold her hand) or that she push my hand slowly away when I put my hand on her shoulder (at some point, not immediately). How do I go about escalating in this cases? I notice that most guides lead men to have sex on the first date or first day of meeting a woman (though through my past experiences, they became more of a touch n go relationship – I sorta just am looking for more dates with one single person, but just wish to be viewed as being more than a friend, where sex would come eventually though not on first date cos ppl said that if sex happens on the first date that the woman would not view the man as any serious material but a fling. Correct me if i’m wrong in any of these 🙂 Thanks!


  52. Lets say my Gf been mistreated by men years ago. Shes been sex free for 2 years. Now she’s tryin to stay away from sex, but wants in. She moans when she sleeps in my arms & I rub her. How do I go bout turnin her on? Where r some pin point locations on her body to get her interested in sex again? To bring it, the old her, back out?

  53. spank her in public

    Men if you are going to pee yourself every time a women comes around you will never have any luck. You need to know one thing….they are only women. They fart, burp, poop, pee, eat, and sleep. They do not have super powers keeping you from them. The only thing stopping you from talking to them is you. You do not need women training, you just need confidence training. Women want to know that you are not going to fall apart over life’s day to day operations. That is why little things like talking to her and being able to touch her matter. If you cant do those things then what are you going to do when the car breaks down on a long trip in the middle of nowhere. Or what are you going to do when her boss makes passes at her. Women think all of these things through when you first meet them and make a decision on where to put you…freak,friend or fuck partner. So man up… follow this advice….. and get some tail.

  54. spank her in public

    Mr. Green grow some balls and become an Alpha. Women like men who are confident and know what they want. When you first met her she put you in the friend zone because she is waiting for someone to walk up to her, grab her hand, and walk her into a paradise. She doesn’t feel like you will provide for her and protect her so you are only friend material. Stop trying to change her mind and change yourself….she may just come around

  55. i fall in love with a unmerried woman who is one year elder then me, we know one another from 2004, at is about Nine years, already she knows that i m fall in love with her, as she got be a good friend or a reliable younger brother she can’t get me as a lover, but i want to marry her.. and i told this her but she got angry with my behavior. now what should i can ………

  56. I touch my girlfriend all the time. Usually with the back hand cos she hasn’t finished the washing up. Does this count? Is she being aroused do you think whilst I caress her face with my hand, impacting her at bruising velocity? I used to think I was smacking my bich up, but now I know I’m turning her on, I will have to engage in this activity more often. What that?……Dinner?……(SMACK)……..You call that dinner? She must really be hot for me.

  57. This was a amassing and interesting article my only question is where is the best place to touch a girl and how to make a excuse to hug her?

  58. Hey friends, I li 😆 😆 ke to have sex with my girl friend, but she is shying to kiss me only, by that do u think taking her on bed is easyer?

  59. Yes I would like to ask how do you get past the friend part. I have a roomate I care about and am attracted to . She says she is not into me as anything more than a friend . Any suggestions to get past that?

  60. I don’t understand, this- touching a woman causes her body to release a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Since when oxytocin become sex hormone? You should say pleasure “orgasmic” hormone. Only sex hormones are estrogen, progesterone and testosterone and its derivatives DHT. Testosterone is most important hormone for libido (desire) hormone in man and woman. Thats I could understand but not oxytocin. First to make woman to look at you its how you look and how you speak, if you had pretty sexy speech all ladies would be yours.

  61. It was a real brain storming stuff, nd it really educative. It make me feel as if to go out there and chat up a lady. Tnks man

  62. I met this woman older than me , she is inviting me to her house. She loves me n I wanna pound her hard that she will never forget me. Can u gv me some tips on how to make her like me in bed more

  63. Sir, here, take my like!!! I don’t know why, but this is one of the funniest article i’ve come across. The way you wrote it makes sound very promising and you make it look so easy. Thanks man, i’ll share this on twitter. Or not! Should I? The girls too would love this article anyway. LOL

  64. Best way to get a girl wanting you, is the way you look in her eyes, it trigger some in her head, look at a girl right.

    1. Maybe I’m just selfish, but I’m thankful most guys use their cock to think about sex! That leaves a whole lot of ladies desperately ready for the guy – me – who understands it is the spiritual that your awesome ladies focus on for sex, and, baby, I’m happy to oblige you!

    1. Helpful person :)

      Dude, why would you ever complain about something as beautiful and wonderful as sex? But still. Just tell her that you don’t want to have it as often cause you’re tired or stressed out. But don’t make it think your tired or stressed out cause of her lol. Sex every day could get pretty tiring I’d imagine. So yeah, just tell her how you feel I guess. But be cautious of how you tell her 😛

  65. I know this girl from skul and really want to have sex with her, that girl
    Gets horny easily. And I’m really Good friend with her but the thing is I’m afraid to ask her out or we are good friends abs I feel embarrassed. What can I do please help me.

  66. my step sis is always giving me hugs and trying to be friendly towards me what is her deal she always hugging me….btw hugging me don’t work on me lmao maybe it’s just women

      1. Hahahaha ha the female is a extremely interesting breed of humans but one way I always pick my woman up is by remembering one quote “baby you and me ….. We’re just mammals …. Lets do it like where on the discovery Chanel …” -truth

  67. hi! there. there is this girl i asked out in my class in skool that refused me on the account of having a boyfriend but we still have lots of fun and i have even tried kissing her but she refused but we hungout at a friends house one particular day and it was all about cuddling and breast touching and she told me that she likes watchin porn and she also sid we were going to discuss about it wen we resumed skool and it is tomorrow we are resuming plz how do i go about making her horny and dripping wet

    1. I would say to just follow what this says! just when you touch her do it super gentlyand slowly and you can touch her anywhere really and you can touch her a lot! that would probably get her wet =)

  68. School Boy and Swimmer Girl

    I cannot believe this actually worked!!!! And I didn’t even know that I was doing it!!! There was a group in girls in high school that absolutltely loved me! They would wait for me during snack and lunck/ worry and ask why I wasn’t there! I never had this in my life and it all happened when I was trying to be more acertive. I have broken the boundary with hugs, and not even known it! Also when it came to the time I spent with them, I would touch them on the arm and even rest mine on their shoulders. ONLY IF I HAVE KNOWN THIS SOONER!!! I WOULD HAVE BEEN UP WITH ALL THOSE “PRETTY BOYS” THAT WOMEN SWOONED OVER!!!!!

    -Lesson learned.. touch, touch and HUG!!!

  69. Fantastic advice, and it all makes perfect sense when you recall the situations when a guy has just walked in and pulled a girl right out the group. Now I think of it, all the touch elements were in play…

  70. ive hugged tons of of girls becaful when you hug them thelr smarter then you give credit but other then that thisis great advice

  71. Hey i got this friend that has a crush on me and a boyfriend how can i make her feel comftiable enuff to wanna jump in tha bed if you could tell me how to do that id be in there lik swimwear

  72. Great to see some techniques~~but the hugging part, wouldnt it seem wierd to just hug a girl that you have just met? I am sort of afraid that i might get a wrong/ bad reaction… I do want a girlfriend or flirtatious girl who likes to play around with me… please give some tips how

  73. Your advice explains a lot of what I did wrong with the last girl I was with. I still don’t quite know how to just come up outa nowhere and strike up convo with a girl. Whether it be Hastings or anywhere people usually go and not just the club or night life situations. That’s probably the hardest part for the majority of guys.

  74. i have a girl who tells me she loves but anytime i try kissing her she avoids me,although i have kissed her before but it wasn’t that willing from her,already she had told me about some attempt to rape by her best friend and her dad’s close friend when she was a kid and has been appearing in her dreams in the night,so she says she feels uncomfortable with kissing and not even going down on her or having sex will work because she has called a stop to kissing and i accepted so now she doesn’t come to visit me,so we only talk on phone,but am really not feeling well with that,so please what should i do?because i love her and i want sex too.

    1. she’s using it as an excuse not to have sex with you, because if she meets a guy she really likes, she WILL have sex with him! click on the links to the forum and we can discuss more

    2. from now on, it’s like waiting for an asshole to self-lubricate, without knowing that the only way that’s gonna happen is by letting shit out (if someone’s iq is under 40 i mean the sex won’t be good if, and i repeat, if it happens). So Fuck her, metaphorically, and GFTOG litterally, and u’ll see how she’ll come back after she sees that to toss ur salad while ur brushing her away.

      Much love to all the self improvers,
      Fuck your egos Mathafackass, and go out and get ur fuckin hands dirty- Lord Jesus-

    3. If you truly love her then you can wait until she is ready to have sex.
      She trusts you because she told you about her attempted rapes when she was a kid. That shows that she sees a future with you to have trusted you with such personal info.
      You have a penis. You can masturbate while you wait for her to be ready. You have to think about her feelings and her perspective on this. This must be very hard for her. You should talk to her about your feelings too. Don’t tell her you Love her if you don’t really mean it, and are only after sex because that would just make you a horrible person. Especially since you already know that she is feeling scared about sex.

  75. plz reply as soon as possible cuz i want to get some things done 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉 😉

  76. hey i like my buddy’s cuzin and im pritty sure she has a thing for me. i have been teasing her by not paying attention to her and her doing the work to get my attention. i was wondering how can i pull this off when theres alots of people around such as my friend

  77. Powerful Jedi-mind shit here bro’!

    Although I’m an advanced PUA/coach,there are nuggets of gold in this article which makes me wanna revert to my newbie days and pull out the pen and pad lol.

  78. great advise the way to get any girl is to meet her and hug her within a minute and get her oxytocin to rise and than hold her hand and walk her to wereever and than hug her and now slowly move your hands up and down her shoulder and when she laughs thats were she like it now move your hands slightly over it and ask for a kiss and than she will have to give it to you you have to ask becouse if she does not want it than you keep doing this but in not enought than you will get slapped so ask her for a kiss and than kiss her on her neck and than go slowly with you tounge all the way up to behind her ear and than kiss her there and do it with your tounge and than she will want sex so go and give it to her

    1. I really like this conversation
      Its hot and sexy
      Because I am burning! Inside
      Yes inside,
      I look for a hot girl.

    1. don’t you think by commenting on her jewelry it might come off a bit fruity? also hugging a girl you’ve just met for an entire minute seems excessively long, friends have a tough time embracing in a hug that long…honestly i think these tactics are a bit flawed, unless you have personal evidence to defend these tips?

      1. Some girls could have been abused sexually and reserved in the whole sexual area manipulations not good

      2. Mate if you don’t try them you don’t know lots of people like my self can pull it off if you think like that than of course you can’t pull it off

    2. could u tell me how can i touch a girl in my class and get her to like me??i know this sounds like a stupid question as you have many posts on it but the problem is i am from INDIA,and in india it is not accepted to do hugs and stuff,so could u plz help me out?

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