So, how do you make women feel horny and wet between the legs for you – even if you’re not the best looking guy?
What most men do, is that when they see an attractive woman that they like, they actually bury their sexual feelings and desires deep down inside of them.
They look away from the girl, maybe they just peek at her from the corner of their eye, but they don’t want the woman to know that she’s checking her out.
Or, the guy goes up and says hello to the woman, maybe opens by asking her opinion about something, and maybe tells a story or joke to make her laugh. But he still hiding his sexual desire to fuck her by being super friendly, and as a result the interaction doesn’t have any sexual tension, it doesn’t have any sexual undertone or vibe.
He’s not being raw and masculine, so the woman cannot feel raw and feminine in return. He has no chance awakening a primal lust in her.
So the guy might be liked by the girl, but she’s putting him into the nice guy “let’s just be friends” category because no hard attraction is being sparked.
And the reason that guys hide and bury their masculine sexual intent is because they want approval from the girl, they want to be liked by the girl. They’re more worried about being liked then to actually get the girl into their bed. They want to be liked more than actually risk a rejection by showing their true feelings of attraction.
And when you do this, it’s very easy to get the girl to giggle and laugh, but generally the interactions won’t go anywhere farther than that if the girl doesn’t know why the fuck you’re talking to her.
Sexual Intent And State Transference
And remember that concept that whatever you feel, the girl will feel. If you’re hiding your true intentions, and you remain completely asexual, not only will that make you feel lame yourself, but the girl is not going to feel sexual for you in return.
If you want a woman to feel that hard, I-want-to-fuck-this-guy feeling, you have to go there first.
If you want a girl to feel that tingle of lust, you have to go there first. You lead her state.
On some level, you need to feel that testosterone fueled fury, that fire blazing up through your body of sexual intent.
On some level, the girl has to feel like you are deeply attracted to her.
On some level the girl has to feel that she is in imminent danger of being fucked.
On some level, she has to feel like you would follow her to the ends of the earth to pursue her all the way to better.
On some level, the girl has to feel like a sex object and this is going down at any moment.
And you expressing your sexual intent openly will allow her to feel that rush of underlying sexual tension.
And you’ll generate that hard attraction, because finally she’s meeting a man who’s not afraid to project that kind of energy, who’s not afraid to express the truth, was not afraid to be real with her, who’s not looking for her permission to express himself, a man who makes no apologies for having a Dick. She’ll feel that sexual tingle because women are inherently, biologically attracted to men to take the lead in goal for the girl’s permission to act recklessly.
Embrace The Sexual Man In You
Because remember women want to be fucked. They want men with masculine dominance and masculine intent to fuck them. Women want to meet a real man with every intention of bending them over. And women love to be physically dominated and checked out shamelessly. It makes them feel feminine.
So the first thing is, to embrace that identity of being a sexual man.
That you were born with a Dick, and you make no apologies for your sexual desires as a man. But you won’t bury your true self or your true feelings or your true desires, but you let them shine through and you make no apologies for it.
You embrace that role as a man who lets women know what he’s about and why he’s talking to her. Any make no excuses for being a sexual guy. Any make no excuses that fucking hot girls and expressing yourself is your manifest destiny.
And again, like I said before, that open expression of your masculine sexual intent, is what the game is really now. Because that’s where the fun, and the rush, and the feeling of youth and vitality and happiness and that you’re 10, comes in. It’s not in getting laid. It’s not in getting the girl. It’s who you are, expressing your raw masculinity, and taking complete reckless action that defines you as a man and will sustain you day after day and ground you in fun and motivation.
And by doing so, women will feel that shine through, and feel hard attraction as a result just as a side effect of who you are.
How To Express Sexual Intent
That begs the question, what is then a sustaining motivation to keep going out, to keep meeting women week after week, and just having sex as merely a side effect of who you are — without getting laid been a conscious and the goal?
What can you do to feel alive, to feel vital, to be happy, to have fun, despite whatever else is going on, despite if sex is happening or not — and yet you’re still attracting massive quantities of women in your life, as a side effect of who you are?
Your goal each day, and your motivation for going out, is most healthy and sustaining when it’s about being a man who expresses recklessly his masculine sexual intent. That’s the magic formula to stay motivated and be healthy about this.
Reckless sexual intent is looking hard-core into a woman’s eyes, and then her lips, and then at her breasts, checking out her body shamelessly as he talked to her.
Reckless sexual intent is running up to a woman and telling her that she’s the cutest thing on the planet as he smiled big and say it with 100% conviction.
Reckless sexual intent is speaking loudly and dominantly with breaking rapport tonality.
Reckless sexual intent is ignoring a woman’s tests and powerfully plowing through like a steamroller over all opposition to express yourself to her.
Reckless sexual intent is imagining putting your one hand on her breast and another hands on her but in pulling her in for a wet kiss as a speaker.
Reckless sexual intent is making women feel like they are in danger of immediately being fucked if they were to be alone with you.
Reckless because you take action without permission. Reckless because you take action to try to create a social disaster in dealing with the consequences only later.
That’s the core sexual expression that makes you feel like a raw, alive, blood coursing through your veins, masculine man. And that’s what will ultimately make you feel a rush, feel alive, feel young, feel happy, feel complete freedom, feel proud about yourself and happy that you are you, that you can make women feel this way at your will. You feel like a man.
Sex Cannot Be The Only Goal
Regardless of whether sex comes from that, because the sex cannot be the goal. Getting laid cannot be the goal. Pining after a girlfriend cannot be the goal. Expressing your sexual masculine intent can be your only goal for the day. And when you express your sexual intent, shamelessly, recklessly, without permission from anybody, that’s far more powerful then the act of getting laid itself.
And that’s what attracts women as a side effect of who you are, and you can just allow the sex to happen when it comes, without reaching for, without grasping for, without dreaming about it, without it being part of your agenda, in your head as some thought based goal. Because the thought based goals set in the future come into the present moment and destroy it. Thought-based goals basically cancel out your happiness for today because of the goal you feel you haven’t succeeded, you feel you aren’t complete. So self acceptance and happiness go right out the window.
But if you’re out there, in the field, taking action, expressing your sexual masculine intent to women, that’s its own reward because that’s what will make you feel awesome and feel like a complete man. It’s not getting approval from the woman in the form of getting laid that will make you feel that way.
So your motivation to go out each day is to recklessly take action. And if you’re doing that now, you’ve reached the pinnacle. You are already there. You don’t need to achieve anything more. Just enjoy that. Just enjoy that you are a man who takes action. And that’s all you need to be. Enjoy the rush. Enjoy the adrenaline. Enjoy feeling young and vital. Enjoy the power. Enjoy that you’re leaving. Enjoy that you’re making women blush, making women smile, making women slap you, making women run away, making women flustered, making women fall head over heels, and just getting all these crazy intense reactions from women.
And listen, this is why so many relationships fall apart. Because the guy was originally motivated to get laid or find a girlfriend. So he gets into a relationship, has his girlfriend, and gets laid.
But — he loses his opportunities to express his masculine sexual intent. He’s prevented by his new girlfriend from going out and expressing himself to women or expressing his desires to women. and yes, the relationship he’s in is comfortable, but he starts to feel neutered. He starts to feel a longing. He starts to feel something is missing. But something is missing.
Because a man is most fulfilled when he’s expressing his sexual intent, making women feel that hard attraction, blowing up girls realities, and acting recklessly and dominantly.
It’s not about the girl. It’s not about the sex. Those things don’t last. What it is about is you, and who you ar, and how you act – that’s what lasts. That’s what brings you lasting fulfillment and joy, happiness, and motivation to keep going out.
So your goal is really, each day, to go on expressing your sexual intent with recklessness, without seeking permission to do it, and cleaning up the social disaster and consequences afterwards.
That is far more sustaining because every day is a new opportunity to live in the moment, to have fun, and have loads of success.
utter bullshit
confidence is always the key
This is fucking GOLDEN! This is just what I needed to hear! Thank you Sir! I will come back, and I will read it time and again, until I will be able to recite it word by word! And until then, I will hit on all girls who are my type, with a clear intent! Fun time is coming!
This BS actually works.
Well I am new to this but I feel it’s time to get out there again as been 5 years now being single
Hmmm nice
Hello, I just want some advice please.
I’m a 50yr old man but still in good shape. I am attracted to this young sexy women that passes by my store at least twice a day. I tried to speak to her by calling her but all she did was to give me a shy smile and say hi and carried on walking. She passed this morning again, but won’t look in my direction , though she is aware that I’m looking at her and admiring her. How should I approach her and get her listen to me. And if I do get her to speak to me , should I make my serial intent known to her , openly admiring her beauty and by telling her how sexy she looks?
Yeah, who cares if she’s laying there quiet and bored- you’re being RECKLESS!!! LOL
It simply works
Seriously this is the most ridiculous bullshit I’ve ever read pls. Guys, if you think this will get you laid, I’m telling you now as a girl, it will not happen.
Are you kidding me? well shit I was planning on meeting YOU at the Bar and as I look at YOU I know That ” all YOU want is bent over and fucked”, and then I will make MY Sexual intentions to you known and That will be that and WE will be fucking in the car before we get to the room..am I right or what?….hahahahahahahahaah what a fucking JOKE… Anne I have to say the time spent with YOU was incredible , I hope it was good for you too… 🙂
Well, please shine light on the subject. As a female, what would get a guy laid?
Jesus, this is what I’ve needed to hear. Every ebook and video series thus far has yet to speak to me like this.
I can say from experience feminism is the most destructive force in our society. I was raised by my single feminist mom who popped me out with my twin sister when she was 22, and that’s the environment I grew up in in the 90’s. My friends as a kid were in cub scouts, so naturally my mom became a girl scout leader. I wasn’t allowed to play with guns or watch Dragon ball z, while my house was littered with books about Cleopatra and with titles like “Women Invent Everything.”
I still remember the day my mom fucked me in the head and caused all of the problems I’d have with game in later life. I always looked back on this, kinda confused and pissed off. When I was in second grade, I liked a girl so I tried to kiss her. I got rejected but I didn’t give a shit, because I was fucking seven years old. I was proud that I’d tried though, and thought it was funny. When my mom found out though, she flipped out on me. She probably assumed I was going to be some kind of rapist because young women and feminists are pants on head retarded, because I got yelled at. “How dare you?! You didn’t ASK for her permission?! You didn’t go in KNOWING ALREADY you had approval?!” I was always able to look back upon second grade and ask why I seemed know more about interacting with women back then than I did in my teens and early 20’s.
That moment right there, when my mom did everything she could to terrify a seven year old of ever getting to make the first move, she basically stabbed me in the back. That framed the rest of my upbringing as, “you’re a man, you’re scum and are nothing if you aren’t trying to win women’s approval” while teaching me how NOT to do it right, but claiming it’s what women want. That’s how “nice guys” are made. We aren’t born, we’re made like this. Every man is born with this knowledge and potential, and this cancerous social movement only exists to squash it and confuse us.
The sad thing is I know I’m not alone, there’s an entire generation of us, with stories just like mine, who suffer in needless silence because there aren’t enough men who are willing to write stuff like this, to try and correct the wrongs of our upbringing, to be that influence we needed but never had.
Thank you.
Holly shit! This article totally changes the way I chase tail! Thank you for this brilliant article and if I met you in person I would shake your hand and by you a beer.
lol
Totally true.
JC very excellent, very buddha, have no fear, have no doubt there is no reality but the present. Most people spend their hours based in fear and doubt, thinking about the past and worrying about the future. Being is where it’s at!, cheers, marvelous mark
THANKS BRO.
Man, do you do one-on-one training? I AM an exceptionally handsome guy but I have NO game. Recently at a restaurant one the employees told me that my nickname there is “Johnny Depp”. Ebooks just aren’t cutting it. I can’t seem to stop being an intellectual (i.e. a fucking pussy).
I consistently have a GF but they are all 7’s. I want 9’s and 10’s. I’m in my prime and I am sick of “settling”.
wagwan this post is the shit man mo-fire
Now! I came to know why women are so initially uncomfortable with me and on a long run so much attracted towards me such that they just compete and fight for me!THANKS JESSE FOR REMOVING THIS CONFUSION FROM MY MIND!
Love this article. It is so true!
Loved it, agreed with it and will use it! If you know the game, you can’t get played!
Cherry Pie!
And report back 🙂 …
ehy man what happened to your fantastic posts?
blog is dead
I’ve got about 30 more big posts ready to post, they’ll be coming up very shortly.
Awesome post Jesse. It’s easy to identify with all this because deep down all know it’s true. We feel the most alive when we’re in the here and now, and not longing after some distant prize in the future. Let them come as a by product of who you are this moment.
Great stuff.
Good points Eugene
love it
Sweet
One of the best articles i’ve ever read!!
Thanks so Much Jes!!
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Can us guys be too sexually reckless and how aggressive is to aggressive ?
Lemme guess when your being helped up off the floor because she smacks your creepy ass into nextweek and u realize thats the typeof girl u want even more the ones that dont want us i dont wanna be needed i just want someone to want me to be the object and goal of one anothers day to come home and mentally and physically bond connecting in this way is what ive learned landed me in an emotional roller coaster sending me spiraling downward yet feeling lifted the hard work in achieving this bond is overpowred by the fear of losing what yall have established thus getting stuck in a rut of doubt and what ifs and pressure to make the right moves and right attitude and words to grow n grow that ultimate feeling youve discovered to be addictive no doubt loves a powerfull drug brought on by r abaility to relate and relay messages simialar to what the other was thinking also thus ringing a ever so sinking feeling of security trust and closeness with that person a relationship is some task it def takes two to make a marriage and two to break one two or more also makes for a great sex session thats almost all physical and predictable the emotional love part is where most of us struggle being blindsided by not understanding u just gotta know where eachother stands i stand in the shower she bends over andpokes her butt into my hips with every stroke were both on the verge of realease and we let it build till both explode and get back to business oncemore lol