It’s not enough to always be chasing girls. If you want to sleep with a girl, you’ve got to get her to chase YOU. And that’s particularly true with really hot girls.
Take night clubs for instance.
It’s common when you approach the “super hot girl” in a club that her friends have decided that they are going to make your life a living hell, test you, bust your balls, try to fuck with your frame, be aloof, try to brush you off, or ignore you.
Well don’t worry, you are not alone, and it doesn’t have to be like that.
I have provided you with some field tested street tips I use myself in set to bring the girl and her friends back into the palm of my hands… even those that start off with a “no hope” label.
There is a systematic way to handle these types of situations. You can turn every set around by employing the following six methods:
Method #1. Bombard the set with Blitzkrieg Type Tonality and Super Fly Body language and a “I own this shit” mentality.
Method #2. Use negs to get them chasing you.
Method #3. Call women out on their second class behavior.
Method #4. Use curiosity loops and tension loops to create “intrigue and mystery” that act like chick crack and will make the women “hooked.” When you’re in attraction phase, your goal before going into Screen/Accept phase is to “Hook” the set.
Method #5. Use multiple threads. Just change the thread to another conversational thread that is totally unrelated.
Method #6. Selectively validate women
NOTE: DO NOT GIVE UP GUYS. I see too many guys stalling and losing sets. Do not give up. Basically talk until you make the “Ho say no”, or until the Ho say’s OHHH!!!
Let me outline each tip and give you an example of each rule employed in the field.
#1. Blitzkrieg style tonality
Use Blitzkrieg style tonality and body language with loud vocal projection to turn the set around and get the girl chasing you.
I opened a girl at a mall using an indirect opener. I got her to stop but her short, club-ho, attention span led her to wander off and walk away. As she was walking away, I just kept on shouting game to her, even from 20 feet away. I did not turn around to face her, didn’t move an inch closer to follow her. Just turned my head and acted totally unaffected, and pretended that she didn’t even walk away. My tonality finally got to her and she came back all the way to where I was and started to game me. She asked me, where you from, you are very interesting, and so on.
#2 & #3. Negs & Call Outs
Negs and calling women out can be mixed in together. You can use negs to get them chasing for your attention and also by calling them on their second class behavior.
If she is losing interest, say, “Talking to you is like pulling my teeth,” or “Hey honey do you do drugs? I don’t talk to chicks with drug problems or Attention Deficit Disorder… which one do you have?”
Or I will say, “Consider yourself lucky talking to me, as there are thousands of women I can be talking to right now, so please respect my time and energy and effort to talk to you the way I am reciprocating that basic courtesy and respect back to you. If you can’t act mature and grown up, then pleasure meeting you.” They always buckle after this.
I’ll say shit like “Okay… nah, I’m not feeling this… I’m going to go and ask someone else.” They come back.
As soon as a girl starts to get out of line, I say, “You’re acting really socially retarded… Didn’t your mother teach you that when you are presented with an opportunity for learning and growth to be attentive… You poor deprived child! Are you okay!?!”
For super hot bitchy girls who really act disrespectful and act like I want them and are trying to hit on them, I’ll then say as a comeback, “Honey get a life… too bad you’re not my type. I’m just asking you a simple question that I could have asked that cute eight year old girl and she would have been more attentive and interesting than you. So what’ll it be, are you going to pay attention to what I am saying, or am I going to have to dismiss you?” This gets them chasing you. I had this happen to me and my friend two weeks ago when a hot Portuguese hairdresser would not leave my sight.
I get only this harsh with super snotty, bitchy type girls who have a self perceived value through the roof!
#4. Use Curiosity Loops and Tension Loops
Curiosity loops always get the girl chasing after the guy.
For example, I’ll bait the woman I want by making cliffhanger/bait-hook comments or questions like, “What the fuck is up with your hand?” Then I segue into my palm analysis. It hooks 100% of the time.
Or I’ll say, “Do you know you have the most unusual hand structure, nah …fuck it. I don’t want to get you all excited….anyways!!!” She will then say, “What about my hands… what, what… tell me…tell me!!!”
Women love mystery and tension. You can create this elastic band effect to reel them in and get them hooked.
#5. Multiple Threads
Use multiple thread theory and introduce a new thread to make her chase you. Note the new conversational thread doesn’t have to have anything to do with your previous thread.
For example, during my bootcamp in Toronto my student opened a hot Asian model. He was doing great when the conversational thread he was on just died and he expectedly ended the chat with her on a high note, instead of over welcoming his stay. I then showed him that the show is not over, until she says, “NO go away” or “Yes and you go away with her.” So I introduced the topic of kissing, out of the blue.
Me: “Hey on a scale of 1-10 how good of a French kisser are you?”
Me: “Hey look Marlee Matlin, pretty but deaf…I said, ‘How good of a tongue-downer are you?’”
Notice that with this hard core party, model type I had to calibrate my game to be more sexual, up front, cocky, ballsy… It worked.
HB: “I don’t like kissing.”
Me: “Well how good of a ‘Biter’ are you?”
Her heart starts to pound with pleasure and her buying temperature has been kicked up.
HB: “I don’t like to bite, but I love being bitten.”
Me: “I know you do.”
HB: “How do you know?”
Me: “Don’t worry about it, can’t tell you!”
HB: “You’re funny…what’s your name!”
I then use her interest signal to close the space and touch escalate.
So I am showing the bootcamp student all these cool massage things on her. She is loving it. Anyways the girl that we “supposedly lost” or the set that was supposed to have ended long time ago ended up making a 180 turn. She was a model and invited both me and my student to her VIP booth and offered to buy us drinks.
How is that for shaping a new reality for what is possible? Never let the set go, just because it isn’t panning out or working out for the first few minutes. Stay in it for the long haul, not for the two minute close. It will work. Persistence!!!
#6. Selectively Validate Them
Most women are validation junkies, especially the hot ones or the ones that have a lot of choice.
This means that they will accept anything and do anything as long as it validates her “Archetype” of herself. See, in her eyes or in her mind all high quality women think:
“Men want me”
“I have choice when it comes to sex”
“I’m a great friend, loyal, ambitious”
“I’m a catch”
“I’m a prize”
So whenever you validate any of these claims you are GONE!
Instead, you should be validating her upon her proving or doing something that deserves validation, and not undeservingly as most men do.
I’ll give you an example.
Just because a girl gives you her number doesn’t mean shit. A lot of times a woman will give you her number seeking your validation (THE PHONE CALL). The minute you call her and she picks up, is all it takes for her to get that validation and then she will lose interest because by you calling her you are conveying interest. This is why before you validate her, play hard to get about calling her. Tell her maybe you’ll call, say if I have time… in a cocky and playful manner, and get her begging you to call her.
A woman is used to being chased and that will activate her anti-slut defenses that you are interested in her and want to sex her. Instead, when YOU play hard to get or pose a challenge, not only will it make her seek your validation more and more, it will get her chasing you for it.
And when she does get your validation, she will want to have sex with you because her screen/chase mechanism has been turned on to make her the pursuer and you the one who chooses who she will sleep with and the one who controls the sex.
Check out Maaximum Seduction for more tips from M.C. Maax.
36 thoughts on “Get Girls To Chase YOU Right Now, In 6 Sneaky Ways!”
Pingback: Mystery Method Attraction Forums | Speed Seduction
So much of this stuff is just terribly disturbing. It’s so paranoid to be assuming that women are constantly trying to play games and manipulate men and so must be manipulated back.
This is all so sad and terrible. What happened to trying to make a genuine and honest connection with somebody you’re attracted to?
I can tell you that as a woman and having been on the receiving end of some of these techniques, they are really flawed and the most likely effect you will have in using them is to confuse the woman, make her feel insecure and wary of putting her trust in a you and probably also ruin any chance you once had to have a deeper, real and honest intimate connection with somebody you presumably liked at least somewhat to begin with. Unless your only interest was sex and nothing beyond, don’t begin with disrespect and dishonesty towards your partner, and even then it’s very cold and not very nice behaviour.
Please think carefully before following this advice. The woman you want to use these ‘techniques’ on is another person with all the same capacity for insecurity, vulnerability and hurt as you.
This naivety assumes that all woman are the same with the same capacity(as she said). You all have different characteristics, agendas and damn sure different capacities. The b*tch who works maritime or daycare and is self-less needs to be approached, dealt and overall lead differently than the type Jesse likes to describe: club-b*tch.
Ahahahaha, dude, the only answer most people give to such behaviour is “You’re a creep. Have a great day”. Do people seriously pay you for this? ahahahaha
And yet it works…explain that.(without using the smarter females’ answer above)
im 12 lets see if it would work on my teachers or on class mates
Awesome points, M.C. Maax! I’d just like to add a little bit of an extra value to your great post by sharing an example of how to engage a girl into a fun, sexually charged role playing in order to unleash her naughty girl side early during an interaction.
For example, if the girl asks you for your name, you could say to her: “My name is Tiger.”
And, as you two are shaking hands, you could say: “Tiger Woods. It’s nice to meet you.”
Then, she might say to you: “No, your name is not Tiger Woods.”
You could reply to her: “Yes, of course, it is. What you’re talking about? Everybody can have that name.”
She continues: “No, you’re not Tiger Woods.”
Then, you say: “OK. You’re right. That’s not my real name, but I’m only using it as my bar name every time I go out. I just wanted to see how smart you are, because I only like smart girls.”
She might giggle and say: “Yes, I am a smart girl.”
Next, you can say to her: “OK. As I see that you’re a very smart girl, I’m going to tell you my real name. But here’s the thing. I only like smart girls who like to sit astride on my bum and massage some sun tan oil on my back while I’m sunbathing on my favorite exotic beach. So, if you can’t do this, then you’re out of my league.”
Then, she might say: “Yes, I can do that. I massaged my friend’s back exactly that way.”
The next thing you could say to her is: “OK. That’s good. But I wasn’t thinking of getting a friendly massage. I was thinking of getting a naughty massage.”
Then, she might playfully tap your shoulder while she’s uncontrollably laughing at what you’ve just said to her.
As soon as she taps your shoulder, you could say out loud to her: “Naughty girl, bad girl!”
While you’re smiling and saying “Naughty girl, bad girl,” you could playfully smack her in the ass.
Then, she might giggle as if she wants to tell you: “Yeah, I am a naughty girl.”
Next, you could give her a confusing, mixed message by saying to her: “It’s OK, I like naughty girls. But don’t do it again, because you might get into trouble.”
Then, immediately after you’ve said that, you could smack her in the ass, again.
This is how you can easily add different kinds of sexual dominance games to your fun role playing with girls in order to make things more fun and more exciting for both you and for them.
Your negative body language is all about you not facing the girl with your entire body, because you want to show her that you’re not needy.
For example, you spot a very hot babe and walk up to her and playfully say a banter line like: “So, you’ve come all the way over here to just flirt with me.”
Immediately after you’ve said your line and got her laughing at it, you should either playfully turn your head to one side (face away) or playfully turn your entire body away from her for 2-3 seconds. While having your back face her, I suggest you try to kind of look over your shoulder and smile at her in a teasing way. By the time, you turn back around (while you’re still smiling) and come to face her again, you can expect to have her trying very hard to get back your attention. In other words, she’ll be officially flirting with you and chasing you like crazy. 🙂
Hope you find my tips helpful.
you are a complete fuckwit. your advice is absolutely retarded. fuckoff you cunt.
Click on my name to find out more…
Knowing about women pcychology will help you a lot. There are a few sexual triggers avery guy should know about.
I find this fascinating! I am a woman and on reading this I can think back to men doing and saying the most bizarre things, and even though at the time I would think to myself has this guy left a few power tools lying around and out of the shed?! but ultimately they grabbed and held my attention. Getting me into bed however, I feel it will be more difficult for a man to get around my defences using these tactics, as I am built to be the way I am and its a natural thing, I am not meant to be easy… 😉 xxx
The only time successful, confident men who are also intelligent fall for makeup, high heels and tight dresses is when they are going through a vulnerable time in their lives (which we all go through) and so dishonest women take advantage of them. So that’s you!! Just the flip side.
Hahaha!!! As if the world needs more douche bags…. Women with confidence and self esteem wouldn’t fall for this crap….. Keep at it…. Lol
Just like successful, confident men are too smart to fall for makeup, high heels, and tight dresses, right?
my nigga jesse, owning frames and shit…
Honestly although I love dressing up nicely, wearing a classy amount of makeup and I adore heels I get the most attention leaving the gym looking sweaty. I think in reality everyone just likes real, truth, honesty, vulnerability and kindness. Some of these comments are honestly the worst lines I have ever heard and are classy women repellers
J.c ,APPROACHED A CHICK GOT HER DIGITS,KISSED HER ON DA 2ND DAY.SHE DID NT WANA C ME DA NXT DAY.STOPPED CALIN HER WE MET AGAIN N KISSED N NXT DAY SHE DID NT WANA C ME N I NEVA CAL HER NW AM FUCKEN CONFUSED ANY ADVICE.A CUTE FRIEND OF MINE NEVA APPROACHES CHICKS BT GET LAID ALL DA TIME BT AM DA ONE WHO DO APPROACH ALL DA TIME N PHYSICALY ESCALATE N MY FRND ADMIRES ME BT I NEVA GET LAID N AM GUD WIT APPROACHING ANY ADVICE.
Speak Correct English could help…
Some women like to be chased, others get the thrill from chasing. You can’t deny that in the end YOU(female) makes the decision to sleep with whomever you like. For every women there is a different approach. You call us “demons” even though all we’re doing is finally starting to play the game the average female has been playing since the 1950’s. A female reading on these websites serves herself better from approaches of men who know what they’re doing. All you’re doing is biting the hand that feeds.
There is a difference between not being needy and being an absolute arse lol !!!!! I mean some of these comments who the hell would go for them?! I very much doubt any decent genuine girl with class would
I’ve recently stumbled upon this and another sex/seduction advice site geared towards men. Everything I’ve read so far has confirmed what I already knew about the differences in the way men and women think about sex-and their strategies to have as much wild and different sex without strings vs snagging a committed partner.
I already know I’m an exception to the norm-Personally, I want to have as many great sexual experiences as I can, from a variety of intelligent, sensual men who are not so serious about sex other than seeing it as I do-a great,no strings attached FUN. I’ve already been married and realized that it was, for me, just like being a prisoner. I personally do not understand how anyone can be expected to choose just ONE partner at a young age and never even think of what it would be like to be with anyone else for the rest of your life. What a crazy lie that is-and no wonder not everyone is into that! However, each to his own, not judging other women (or men) if that’s what you want.
As a beautiful, intelligent woman with a great career, I know that it really is MY DECISION about who I want to sleep with, and what a wonderful thing that is! My advice to other women is to recognize this and do not compromise-choose your partners wisely and the world is yours…
I am a female and reading this all sounds demonic you should try and be honest. Yes you can get any demonic female this way but she will always turn out like the devil. Because there is a God and He sees how men and women play these silly games He will allow you to get hurt in the end. When you wake up and try being honest then you will find a decent relationship. You get what you give if you give games you get it back it is the universes way. You end up alone and miserable playing these games and listening to bad advice like this. Yeah you can get “laid” but you are only sleeping with a demon. Your not players your all demons.
I’m curious, why the fuck are you on this website to begin with?
sounds like you’ve gotten burned before and projecting how you personally want the world to be, not how it really is
Lets meet up right now
Dude seriously??? If a guy tries that shit with me I’ll turn around on the spot and leave him standing there looking like an idiot. And no, I won’t come back to hear the rest of his seemingly interesting story. I have done this with many assholes pulling that crap with me.
Read the last sentence of what she said ! “I have done this with many assholes pulling that crap with me.”
Get the message ?
Oh gosh I would be so disturbed if a guy did this to me I can so easily turn away and not look back I would find every single point on here completely off putting. I am girl Who gets a lot of male attention but really doesn’t date or go for many guys not many get through as I truly have to believe they are genuine, kind, old fashioned and we share a spiritual connection all of this behaviour would make me run 10 miles!
The best thing is to have certain aspects of Game internalize where you don’t even have to consciously think of the next move.
@Jesse-Generally though,are tension loops and open-ended questions part of your arsenal?
actually, not really… sometimes they end up in there by chance but I’m not consciously thinking about them,
Leave your comments below…
This is why McMaax is 1 of my favorite coaches over the past 3 years or so.Killer insights(although general pick-up knowledge).
Curiosity/tension loops are my favorite part of this post.And the examples he gave were great lead ins to palm-reading routines.
yeah, he’s got a lot of great stuff
fuckoff you cunt wanker.