Negging is not meant to devalue another human being. It is only to disengage a woman’s bitch shield which has nothing to do with her as a human.
A hot girl’s bitch shield is strictly a natural reflex or conditioned mannerism developed to ward off “beta males” who are trying to hit on her. Women are conditioned to respond to alpha males and want to sub-consciously mate with alpha or high status males because they will procreate alpha progeny or sexy offspring who will in turn massively and successfully attract the female of the species in their generation to ensure survival.
So a woman’s bitch shield is an alpha male screen. So when you neg you DO NOT TAKE VALUE from her, but simply disengage her bitch shield.
At the same time, with a neg, you raise your value in her eyes. Remember we do not take VALUE FROM others… we only make them feel better about being around us, we win their respect, love and admiration. Let me give you two examples, the improper and proper ways.
The wrong way to Neg
The beta male will think that by negging a girl, that it should mean being very mean, negative and insulting. He is dehumanizing her and trying to de value her. This is beta driven, super macho, insecurity-compensating behavior and most high quality women can detect a glitch in the system. Not only will she loath you, but she will not want to be around you ever.
So let’s say her value is a 9. Why on earth would you try to devalue her to a 7? This is the wrong way. An example would be:
“So what else do you have going on for you besides your looks, hah!” in a mean, serious way.
WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!! This is to be delivered in a very tongue and cheek, non reaction seeking way.
The Proper Way to Neg
When talking to her friends, you smiling and playful… non reaction seeking… say “Holy shit… how do you roll with this girl… does she always hog the conversation like this?” In fact she will laugh too!!!! Then just go onto the next thread.
Be playful, subtle, and nonchalant about the neg, and then immediately go onto your next thread. I call this the “Neg and Go” method. It is a great way to prevent any chance for a reaction.
Negs are 1) A socially intelligent form of flirtation so it should also have a positive energy about it, not negative and 2) A way to make you ride under her bitch shield by disengaging it and at the same time, making you a POSITIVE challenge and a guy with higher value.
So when you neg a girl who is an 8, your value rises to a 10. Isn’t it better that a woman gets to experience a VALUE INCREASE by knowing you, not a VALUE DECREASE by knowing you, the beta way?
Women want status and want to associate with men who will increase their status in society, so make sure you come with HIGH VALUE and NEG TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE THAT SHE CAN ASPIRE TO. In this manner you both win. Alphaness is about CHARISMA, CHARM and SELF CONFIDENCE that will attract others… not BRUTENESS, AGGRESSIVENESS AND HURTING OR INSULTING OTHERS that will repel others.
You are a CHALLENGE and someone she should get to know, not the other way around. The goal is to make people fall in love with you, not to despise you!
Why all Women Want a Cave Man
Most men and beta males walk into a bar and they see two hot women with two guys. They automatically assume “BLACK AND WHITE”. The guys are evil and the women are saints. Women can’t possibly want sex. Remember girls are sugar and spice and everything nice and boys are snakes and snails and puppy dog tails right? Think again!
Remember this: All women want to be lead and dominated and have their white picket fence fantasy destroyed. Don’t believe me… read Nancy Friday’s My Secret Garden and you will discover the true psyche of the female mind. ALL WOMEN WILL TURN INTO WHORES AND GANG BANG THE WHOLE FOOTBALL TEAM if you can engage her emotions and ATTRACT HER and bring down her anti-slut defense. One of the biggest characters that attracts a WOMAN is a strong, physically dominant, mentally challenging ALPHA MALE.
In modern times that is
- The rebel
- The bad boy
- The pimp
- The player
One thing to note is that just like the female or any mammalian species, the female of our species is not only very territorial, jealous, possessive, including manipulating us with her sexuality and beauty, but also always judging us on where we fit into the social hierarchy. The woman determines are we low status and lower on the social ladder or high status and higher on the social ladder?
Guys who are lower treat women with supplicating respect, compliments and like equals on all levels. The result is that these guys who for the most part are real good and nice guys, who can offer a woman a lot, can’t offer her the one thing that turns her on and that is value and status. They let her put a flag on their ass and kiss her ass.
Now what does an alpha male do?
- He respects and treats women fairly, but also sees himself as the prize
- He leads the interactions with women
- He’s not afraid to touch her, grab her by the waist, lead her to the dance floor, go for the kiss
- He puts her in her place if she disrespects him
- He calls her a bitch when screwing her
- He doesn’t supplicate
- He challenges her
What do you think this does to a woman? It creates a challenge, a void in her own identity that she can only fill by winning this guy’s approval and acceptance, i.e. negging.
It leads to her chasing you for validation. It also tells her that you are of higher value and high status, even though the behaviors are not necessarily LOGICALLY GOOD or POLITE. They do convey at the primal level that you are a MAN who will fight, defend, sex her right, protect her, honor her, take what is yours, and lead in social situations.
All women react to certain CAVE MAN, ALPHA DOMINANT BEHAVIOUR and the best way is to treat them is a little subordinate to you. Just look at the documentary “AMERICAN PIMP.” The pimps call their girls bitch, ho and the girls actually love it, get turned on and never leave the pimps who are often their boyfriends. How is that for a reality check?
Be alpha and convey a little bit of superiority and dominance in all of your interactions with women, especially super hot, bitchy women. Let them know that their looks don’t phase or overwhelm you, but you are screening for your HAREM like HUGH HEFNER and “what else you got going on for you besides looks.” This should be your message to all of the women who try to shit on you and treat you like low value male slaves born to cater to their every request.
It is a woman’s job to make it next to impossible for us to lay her, and it is our job to get her chasing us for sex (using negs for example).
It is a woman’s job to take power away from us, but it is our job as alpha men never to let that happen.
I know there are a lot of men who seem to think that doing small little subtle things like letting a woman insult them, disrespect them, being giving all the time, when picking up being too giving with material and not let her game you are okay, but remember women are very good at detecting subtleties in body language, voice, posture, and nonverbals, and even on the slightest disruption in alpha behavior or high value behavior will get you slotted with the rest of the guys on “WUSSY ROW.”
I really believe in the mentality that most women are subordinate to an alpha male. I honestly believe and have ingrained in my sub conscious mind that I have higher value and status than women as most women don’t have a lot going on for them besides looks. In fact the very hot, bitchy looking, divas you see in magazines often have issues, personality disorders, superficial mindsets which reek of massive insecurity and I have about 1000 times more going on for me than them.
So I don’t feel any regret or guilt when I am busting chops, touching them, or escalating because deep down inside every women wants a DADDY LIKE figure, a real alpha male to CAVEMAN the hell out of her, to lead her, to dominate her, to teach her things about life and that is where we come in as alpha males. As far as I am concerned I am offering a woman a GIFT which is a chance to be in my wonderful, dynamic life and take part in my goals and dreams and partake in conversations with me that will teach her things about her body, the workings of her female mind, life, culture, travel, how to explore her sexuality to the max, how to experience and embrace her femininity and sexuality at the highest level.
Now I know there are many intelligent, well rounded women of exceptional quality out there who are of drop dead gorgeous physical appearance but they are far and few and even these are lower on the social ladder than me and you know the anomaly is that because I project that I am higher on the social ladder, women want to aspire and meet me there and the only way they can do that is by getting to know me, touching me and ultimately by becoming sexually attracted to me.
Why? Because by getting to know me, by associating with me, HER SOCIAL VALUE IS GETTING HIGHER and remember women are social status junkies and are motivated by value or rather perceived value. We as alpha men can present to women that we are of higher value than them and their reptilian brain that is always seeking for that alpha male to procreate sexy, high value alpha offspring will make sure she becomes sexually attracted to us at the deepest, subconscious level and there isn’t nothing she or anyone else can do about it.
So I treat women with respect but not equals because if I see them as equals then they see me as on the same level and there is no reason to push that elevator button to go up. So always be dominant in inter-sexual relationships guys present and come with higher value for a woman to aspire to.
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