Negging is not meant to devalue another human being. It is only to disengage a woman’s bitch shield which has nothing to do with her as a human.
A hot girl’s bitch shield is strictly a natural reflex or conditioned mannerism developed to ward off “beta males” who are trying to hit on her. Women are conditioned to respond to alpha males and want to sub-consciously mate with alpha or high status males because they will procreate alpha progeny or sexy offspring who will in turn massively and successfully attract the female of the species in their generation to ensure survival.
So a woman’s bitch shield is an alpha male screen. So when you neg you DO NOT TAKE VALUE from her, but simply disengage her bitch shield.
At the same time, with a neg, you raise your value in her eyes. Remember we do not take VALUE FROM others… we only make them feel better about being around us, we win their respect, love and admiration. Let me give you two examples, the improper and proper ways.
The wrong way to Neg
The beta male will think that by negging a girl, that it should mean being very mean, negative and insulting. He is dehumanizing her and trying to de value her. This is beta driven, super macho, insecurity-compensating behavior and most high quality women can detect a glitch in the system. Not only will she loath you, but she will not want to be around you ever.
So let’s say her value is a 9. Why on earth would you try to devalue her to a 7? This is the wrong way. An example would be:
“So what else do you have going on for you besides your looks, hah!” in a mean, serious way.
WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!! This is to be delivered in a very tongue and cheek, non reaction seeking way.
The Proper Way to Neg
When talking to her friends, you smiling and playful… non reaction seeking… say “Holy shit… how do you roll with this girl… does she always hog the conversation like this?” In fact she will laugh too!!!! Then just go onto the next thread.
Be playful, subtle, and nonchalant about the neg, and then immediately go onto your next thread. I call this the “Neg and Go” method. It is a great way to prevent any chance for a reaction.
Negs are 1) A socially intelligent form of flirtation so it should also have a positive energy about it, not negative and 2) A way to make you ride under her bitch shield by disengaging it and at the same time, making you a POSITIVE challenge and a guy with higher value.
So when you neg a girl who is an 8, your value rises to a 10. Isn’t it better that a woman gets to experience a VALUE INCREASE by knowing you, not a VALUE DECREASE by knowing you, the beta way?
Women want status and want to associate with men who will increase their status in society, so make sure you come with HIGH VALUE and NEG TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE THAT SHE CAN ASPIRE TO. In this manner you both win. Alphaness is about CHARISMA, CHARM and SELF CONFIDENCE that will attract others… not BRUTENESS, AGGRESSIVENESS AND HURTING OR INSULTING OTHERS that will repel others.
You are a CHALLENGE and someone she should get to know, not the other way around. The goal is to make people fall in love with you, not to despise you!
Why all Women Want a Cave Man
Most men and beta males walk into a bar and they see two hot women with two guys. They automatically assume “BLACK AND WHITE”. The guys are evil and the women are saints. Women can’t possibly want sex. Remember girls are sugar and spice and everything nice and boys are snakes and snails and puppy dog tails right? Think again!
Remember this: All women want to be lead and dominated and have their white picket fence fantasy destroyed. Don’t believe me… read Nancy Friday’s My Secret Garden and you will discover the true psyche of the female mind. ALL WOMEN WILL TURN INTO WHORES AND GANG BANG THE WHOLE FOOTBALL TEAM if you can engage her emotions and ATTRACT HER and bring down her anti-slut defense. One of the biggest characters that attracts a WOMAN is a strong, physically dominant, mentally challenging ALPHA MALE.
In modern times that is
- The rebel
- The bad boy
- The pimp
- The player
One thing to note is that just like the female or any mammalian species, the female of our species is not only very territorial, jealous, possessive, including manipulating us with her sexuality and beauty, but also always judging us on where we fit into the social hierarchy. The woman determines are we low status and lower on the social ladder or high status and higher on the social ladder?
Guys who are lower treat women with supplicating respect, compliments and like equals on all levels. The result is that these guys who for the most part are real good and nice guys, who can offer a woman a lot, can’t offer her the one thing that turns her on and that is value and status. They let her put a flag on their ass and kiss her ass.
Now what does an alpha male do?
- He respects and treats women fairly, but also sees himself as the prize
- He leads the interactions with women
- He’s not afraid to touch her, grab her by the waist, lead her to the dance floor, go for the kiss
- He puts her in her place if she disrespects him
- He calls her a bitch when screwing her
- He doesn’t supplicate
- He challenges her
What do you think this does to a woman? It creates a challenge, a void in her own identity that she can only fill by winning this guy’s approval and acceptance, i.e. negging.
It leads to her chasing you for validation. It also tells her that you are of higher value and high status, even though the behaviors are not necessarily LOGICALLY GOOD or POLITE. They do convey at the primal level that you are a MAN who will fight, defend, sex her right, protect her, honor her, take what is yours, and lead in social situations.
All women react to certain CAVE MAN, ALPHA DOMINANT BEHAVIOUR and the best way is to treat them is a little subordinate to you. Just look at the documentary “AMERICAN PIMP.” The pimps call their girls bitch, ho and the girls actually love it, get turned on and never leave the pimps who are often their boyfriends. How is that for a reality check?
Be alpha and convey a little bit of superiority and dominance in all of your interactions with women, especially super hot, bitchy women. Let them know that their looks don’t phase or overwhelm you, but you are screening for your HAREM like HUGH HEFNER and “what else you got going on for you besides looks.” This should be your message to all of the women who try to shit on you and treat you like low value male slaves born to cater to their every request.
It is a woman’s job to make it next to impossible for us to lay her, and it is our job to get her chasing us for sex (using negs for example).
It is a woman’s job to take power away from us, but it is our job as alpha men never to let that happen.
I know there are a lot of men who seem to think that doing small little subtle things like letting a woman insult them, disrespect them, being giving all the time, when picking up being too giving with material and not let her game you are okay, but remember women are very good at detecting subtleties in body language, voice, posture, and nonverbals, and even on the slightest disruption in alpha behavior or high value behavior will get you slotted with the rest of the guys on “WUSSY ROW.”
I really believe in the mentality that most women are subordinate to an alpha male. I honestly believe and have ingrained in my sub conscious mind that I have higher value and status than women as most women don’t have a lot going on for them besides looks. In fact the very hot, bitchy looking, divas you see in magazines often have issues, personality disorders, superficial mindsets which reek of massive insecurity and I have about 1000 times more going on for me than them.
So I don’t feel any regret or guilt when I am busting chops, touching them, or escalating because deep down inside every women wants a DADDY LIKE figure, a real alpha male to CAVEMAN the hell out of her, to lead her, to dominate her, to teach her things about life and that is where we come in as alpha males. As far as I am concerned I am offering a woman a GIFT which is a chance to be in my wonderful, dynamic life and take part in my goals and dreams and partake in conversations with me that will teach her things about her body, the workings of her female mind, life, culture, travel, how to explore her sexuality to the max, how to experience and embrace her femininity and sexuality at the highest level.
Now I know there are many intelligent, well rounded women of exceptional quality out there who are of drop dead gorgeous physical appearance but they are far and few and even these are lower on the social ladder than me and you know the anomaly is that because I project that I am higher on the social ladder, women want to aspire and meet me there and the only way they can do that is by getting to know me, touching me and ultimately by becoming sexually attracted to me.
Why? Because by getting to know me, by associating with me, HER SOCIAL VALUE IS GETTING HIGHER and remember women are social status junkies and are motivated by value or rather perceived value. We as alpha men can present to women that we are of higher value than them and their reptilian brain that is always seeking for that alpha male to procreate sexy, high value alpha offspring will make sure she becomes sexually attracted to us at the deepest, subconscious level and there isn’t nothing she or anyone else can do about it.
So I treat women with respect but not equals because if I see them as equals then they see me as on the same level and there is no reason to push that elevator button to go up. So always be dominant in inter-sexual relationships guys present and come with higher value for a woman to aspire to.
Check out Maaximum Seduction for more advice from M.C. Maax.
Quite hilarious to read all the comments coming from women… what they need is a good fucking to set them straight.
This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read.
Delusional.
Jesse,
You have made me so seductive at women. I have not experienced girls of this horniness in such a long time. such young girls love me the way I am now. THAT is what I call a “barely legal bang” 😛 you have made me a fertile and carniverous man (yum :P) I will never lose confidence in my ability to seduce. Thank you much!
Kyle, the seductuer!
I met a girl during my travel. She was really attractive and I offered her to see the city together and she agreed. We stayed together for 5 hours and she gave me hints she wanted to get physical but at times it was confusing. How to actually tell her that I need to kiss her?
I would slit the throat of any guy who said this to me in real life.
standing ovation
A lot of women are dominant though and will be the opposite of turned on if you try to be. Also, believe it or not, some women are not here for ‘banging the whole foorball team’ (still gagging at that ew). Not all men are the same, so stop acting like all women are. Makes no damn sense. The type you describe exists. But that’s all it is. A TYPE.
“homfg sexism wtf is this homicidal rageee”
Right.
What we tend to forget is that “intellectual” women who are unusually uptight are usually the ones left out of the gene pool at the end of the day. Like men or any other individual, being an arrogant, self-righteous jerk is no way to establish a relationship or gain valid experience(just ’cause he did not fit your retarded criteria of a perfect Green Knight- well, that’s your problem). It just comes down to social ineptitude and being a recluse. The whole point of flirting is to know how to dumb yourself down and play the game of senses as much as it seems ridiculous. So the author is not far from right. (plot twist: social skills are involved) It doesn’t matter where you’re coming from, be it university, or some classy office space, it doesn’t automatically entitle you for a prospective mate especially if you’re a certain someone who sits in front of the computer all day browsing articles, bitching and moaning at whatever challenges your world views.
Moreover, the reason why uptight women even get a chance at a date is because of their female privilege, their worth being their looks at first impression, and the benefit of men’s natural inclinations to get in their pants. If negging doesn’t work, the caveman will simply move on. Female privilege is a double edged sword in the process of establishing some sort of chemistry. You can use it to your advantage or misuse/abuse it and screw up to later realize that it’s your own fault. You can deny being at fault for as long as you like, but you still lose in the end. Feminism should only be acknowledged, not taken to heart. Feminism actually poisons the minds of many good women and only brings out the hypocrisy and mediocrity in them as demonstrated by the Guerrilla Girls and certain comments on here.
Just what are the chances of even finding an ideal, financially secure, emotionally stable, good looking “prince charming” capable of setting the table up for Her and treating her like the legendary queen Guinevere? I imagine this reflects on the rationale of many of the females posting comments on here. Just look at the comments: you’re showing your fangs and spewing abuse over the internet in a vain pathetic attempt at belittling the man who wrote this article as if his intent was to shit on women as a whole. And you wonder why you can’t find dates. hurrrrr
It seems like you’re going to spend your life having one epiphany after another, always thinking you’ve finally figure out whats holding you back, and how you can finally be productive and creative and turn your life around. But nothing will ever change. That cycle of mediocrity isn’t due to some obstacle. It’s who you are. The thing standing in the way of your dreams, is that the person having them is YOU.
(xkcd)
You are a sad excuse of a man. Or a human being, for that matter. This is why feminism exists, because of apes like you.
Just looking at a few WONDERFUL points here –
“NEG TO SHOW HIGHER VALUE THAT SHE CAN ASPIRE TO.”
Naturally, I’d like my girlfriend to aspire to be a total bitch.
“Remember this: All women want to be lead and dominated and have their white picket fence fantasy destroyed.”
Yep. Every single woman. They all want big meaty cock. They want to be told they aren’t good enough to suck our dicks, but we’ll let them because we’re charitable.
“ALL WOMEN WILL TURN INTO WHORES AND GANG BANG THE WHOLE FOOTBALL TEAM if you can engage her emotions and ATTRACT HER and bring down her anti-slut defense. One of the biggest characters that attracts a WOMAN is a strong, physically dominant, mentally challenging ALPHA MALE.”
I once had a girlfriend who I challenged to a battle of wits. When she inevitably lost I told her her punishment was to go fuck all of my friends and have them send her home with money in her twat based on how good she was. She was really nervous about it, and cried about it a bit, but I could tell she really wanted it cause she kept wringing her hair in her hands (that’s a body language signal that a girl is secretly interested). So I had some friends come over and we tied her up and gagged her and it was awesome, especially cause she kept pretending like she was screaming and kept saying no (but her eyes so obviously said yes, and she came like three times). Afterwards, she took a really really long shower and then came back and admitted that she’d really enjoyed it!
” He puts her in her place if she disrespects him”
I ALWAYS enforce this. Once, one of my girlfriends teased me about accidentally cutting myself while shaving, and I made her shave her face so she could see how hard it could be. She ended up nicking herself a few times and from then on knew not to make fun of me for it.
” He calls her a bitch when screwing her”
ALWAYS. I NEVER stoop to pet names like “honey,” “sweetheart,” or “baby.” I always use “bitch,” “slut,” “cunt,” and “whore” whenever I’m alone with a girlfriend.
“What do you think this does to a woman? It creates a challenge, a void in her own identity that she can only fill by winning this guy’s approval and acceptance, i.e. negging.”
I love to have a girl who is so determined to fulfill my needs and make me accept her that she will sacrifice her own comfort, or even job security or education! I’ve made my current girlfriend call in sick to work for three days just so she could finish reorganizing my office for me – in a sexy secretary outfit, no less! When I was in college, I had a girlfriend who I ordered to cook me s’mores over her burning textbook while she dressed as a slutty schoolgirl. The best part was seeing her face after she asked me to replace the book and I said “fuck no, it’s your responsibility.” LOL! 😀
“It leads to her chasing you for validation. It also tells her that you are of higher value and high status, even though the behaviors are not necessarily LOGICALLY GOOD or POLITE. They do convey at the primal level that you are a MAN who will fight, defend, sex her right, protect her, honor her, take what is yours, and lead in social situations.”
I am always the one who chooses where we go when we go out. One time my girl started to suggest a movie when we went to the theater, and I was able to just give her this look and she immediately knew “oh fuck, he knows what he wants to see, I’ll just have to make up for this transgression” – and then I throat-fucked her in the back of the theater, lol.
“All women react to certain CAVE MAN, ALPHA DOMINANT BEHAVIOUR and the best way is to treat them is a little subordinate to you.”
Actually, I think “a lot subordinate to you” is best – but less so around their family and old friends. Actually, it’s best to avoid family and close friends cause they may be those super-feminist trolls who keep commenting, and they’ll be bitter and jealous about how much your girl LOVES being dominated.
“Just look at the documentary “AMERICAN PIMP.” The pimps call their girls bitch, ho and the girls actually love it, get turned on and never leave the pimps who are often their boyfriends. How is that for a reality check?”
I KNOW RIGHT. Thanks for finally agreeing with me! Girls love to be treated as a possession that belongs to YOU, and they love being told that YOU will protect them because YOU own them, and their solve pleasure in life is pleasing YOU – they find it really erotic and mentally stimulating.
“Let them know that their looks don’t phase or overwhelm you, but you are screening for your HAREM like HUGH HEFNER and “what else you got going on for you besides looks.””
I love tripping girls up with that line. I also like to point out how they can’t be very adventurous, cause they’ve never been with another girl, or with a guy and a girl at the same time, and then I make them prove how “adventurous” they are by getting them into a threesome (or more) with my girlfriend.
“This should be your message to all of the women who try to shit on you and treat you like low value male slaves born to cater to their every request.”
LOL – a guy born to cater to a girl’s requests? LOL!! Fuck no! That’s totally backwards!
“It is a woman’s job to take power away from us, but it is our job as alpha men never to let that happen.”
I always enforce this with my girlfriends by going through their purse any time we meet in public, and I always take their cell phone, wallet, and keys. It assures them that I’m looking out for them, that I’ll take care of their needs, and that I’m the only thing they should be paying attention to. With my live-in girlfriend, I keep the passwords to her cell phone and computer, so she only gets access if she asks me nicely (or, if I’m in the mood, if she sucks my cock first, lol).
“I know there are a lot of men who seem to think that doing small little subtle things like letting a woman insult them, disrespect them, being giving all the time, when picking up being too giving with material and not let her game you are okay, but remember women are very good at detecting subtleties in body language, voice, posture, and nonverbals, and even on the slightest disruption in alpha behavior or high value behavior will get you slotted with the rest of the guys on “WUSSY ROW.””
TOTALLY TRUE.
“I really believe in the mentality that most women are subordinate to an alpha male.”
Not most, ALL. The only ones who aren’t are butch dykes, and they aren’t really women.
“I honestly believe and have ingrained in my sub conscious mind that I have higher value and status than women as most women don’t have a lot going on for them besides looks.”
ALSO TOTALLY TRUE. Most girls I met at school were running back and forth but not getting anything done – you could tell that they were frigid bitches that needed a good fuck. They’d try to make me laugh, or take me to an art museum, and I’d remind them, “hey, bitch, my cock is right there. suck it.” LOL the good old college days!
“In fact the very hot, bitchy looking, divas you see in magazines often have issues, personality disorders, superficial mindsets which reek of massive insecurity and I have about 1000 times more going on for me than them.”
Your best bet with those girls is to fuck them, get them addicted to fucking you, and then use their submission to you to fix them. Girls will do anything to stay with someone who fulfills them sexually, including ironing out their personal issues. But when dating a girl like that, make sure that you let her know her personal issues are NOT YOUR PROBLEM, and that you don’t want to hear about it until she has her shit sorted. She’ll get working on it right away!
“So I don’t feel any regret or guilt when I am busting chops, touching them, or escalating because deep down inside every women wants a DADDY LIKE figure, a real alpha male to CAVEMAN the hell out of her, to lead her, to dominate her, to teach her things about life and that is where we come in as alpha males.”
It’s our job to be their replacement family. If you’re a good, dominant alpha male, she shouldn’t feel the need to be around anyone else. She shouldn’t need her own father, because you’re her new daddy and you will protect her and discipline her.
“As far as I am concerned I am offering a woman a GIFT which is a chance to be in my wonderful, dynamic life and take part in my goals and dreams and partake in conversations with me that will teach her things about her body, the workings of her female mind, life, culture, travel, how to explore her sexuality to the max, how to experience and embrace her femininity and sexuality at the highest level.”
My favorite thing is ordering a girl to thank me for all of the amazing things I bring into her world. But I tell her to wait five minutes, think about everything I’ve done for her, and then thank me. It’s beautiful to see how she thinks through everything I’ve done, and usually by the end she has tears of gratitude.
“So I treat women with respect but not equals because if I see them as equals then they see me as on the same level and there is no reason to push that elevator button to go up. So always be dominant in inter-sexual relationships guys present and come with higher value for a woman to aspire to.”
Totally agree: We need to let them know that we are above them, and they need to make themselves better in order to be worthy of us – it will challenge them and intrigue them and remind them that we are in charge.
Thanks for the awesome article, Jesse!
If you have to prove someone is inferior to you, you are an insecure person inside. This is like taking indirect validation by making the other person validate to you
That sarcasm was A+. A standing ovation.
Negging works for me. Ironically the self righteous, feminist ladies are the ones this stuff works BEST on.
I smell hatin women who wished they were gamed as how the article states
Pretty sure that if people are posting on the internet, where there is this wonderful thing called “anonymity,” they aren’t afraid to say what they really mean. For example; I like to be sexually dominated. But I also like my partner to know that I can leave whenever I goddamn please, and my submission to him is a gift, not a right. I expect to be treated as someone who can make her own decisions, and have discussions about what I will allow and will not allow.
Anyone posting here that they’re not into it – they’re probably not into it.
Article is good, too many women around here pal.
yep
I don’t think this is accurate at all. Most women do NOT like being treated like shit.
Lesbian reaction….
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
This article is based on a pseudo-science. Its as reliable as Todd Akin’s way of “curing” male homosexuality.
Your writing is horrible. I don’t mean the content (that is clearly also pure shit) but rather your writing style. Take a class or two before you think you deserve to create an article.
Not only does this article make me sick, it’s also laughable. I’m just gonna ignore the obviously sexist turd burger this read is and concentrate on the articles ‘tips’ since this dude thinks he has chicks all figured out. As a woman, OF COURSE I don’t want some guy to kiss my ass and come on too needy if we just met. Hello, most people find that a turn off, not just straight women! It’s creepy and overwhelming. Second of all, I absolutely despise ‘pimps, players, etc’ because they are cheesy, creepy, and that is not attractive to me. Third of all, wtf is ‘negging’, it’s called friendly playing around. People do this (both sexes) with people they like all the time (not just people they want to fuck). You play around with friends (make fun of them, not in a mean way) because it loosens up tension, gets a laugh all around, and shows you’re confident. Seriously you don’t have to make it into some big guide to scoring women. Lastly, the fact that guys look up pick-up tricks is so unappealing. The problem most likely is that your personality sucks and/or you’re way unattractive. Just being real.
Ironically, whether a man “negs” me or not DOES determine my interest in him- a guy who negs me gets turned down flat. I don’t accept demeaning words designed to lower my self-esteem as a valid form of flirtation. That kind of shit only works on women who have low self-esteem in the first place- the women I know who are confident in themselves, including me, don’t tolerate that sort of thing. If you’re looking to attract needy girls with self-esteem issues, though, then go ahead, neg away!
I just dropped a guy after the second date because he came across as negative. (I gave him the benefit of the doubt after the first date) Not all the time, just these little zingers slipped into conversation that added up to the picture of a person who would rather pull down other people (including me) than construct something himself.
I mentioned this to a friend and he pointed me here, I can’t believe men think this sort of thing works.
All my friends (I’m a woman) know what negging is. If a guy uses it we get a good laugh, it really just marks him as someone who has not learnt the basics of human interaction and is desperatly reading articles and books like this.
Oh but secretly deep down I really desire a caveman….. BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Citations needed, you mysogynist dinosaur. Oh, and women were never attracted to cavemen since they weren’t too polite in initiating “sex” so if they’re your role models that’s pretty frightening.
We don’t actually know how Homo Sapiens initiated sex, they might have been nice about it, who knows maybe even the women initiated it.
That’s some next level anthropology he is spouting, I’m sure many
This was an interesting read (I read The Game a few years back for fun…I’m a woman). Yes it is a form of psychology you describe but it will only work on a superficial level. This advice won’t help you create a lasting relationship that’s built on companionship with a future. By all means it’s a start but to continue that attitude into a relationship will end in upset. That is the conclusion of The Game anyway. This type of interaction is only designed to get you a shag (which quickly becomes boring) not a meaningful relationship where you reveal your true self & are accepted…that which you (& most people) secretly desire.
So I was at this club last night and just hanging out with my friends. A guy and a girl were sitting behind me and the girl suddenly askes me whether I thought her friend was gay beceause he didn’t want to take his shirt of. Is there a way by (for example) negging to get the girl to leave the guy and come chill with you?
Have you tried, you know, asking her if she wants to?
Else, I hear lobotomies do wonders for that kind of thing.
So this is what negging is…
Gender equality is important. Getting laid every night is not a need – it is a want.
This article presents some originally okay theories in such a way that I feel the bottom line of this article is that it shows that manipulating people’s insecurities for pleasure is okay.
Well guess what? It’s not.
Gender equality is important. This article isn’t about gender equality. It’s about psychology. Women do not want to be on an “equal” level with men in all aspects. On some levels in a relationship equality is a good thing, but (straight) women want to date men not other women. They don’t want men to tip toe around them. They want a man to make them feel vulnerable and protect them otherwise why need men if we can do it all on our own? A women with good self esteem is not going to be manipulated for her insecurities. And the women who is insecure and manipulated learns fast because men will not give her what she needs if she’s too needy. What you’re stating implies that women have no power of choice to think for themselves and make their own decisions thus you strip them of their equality.
“They want a man to make them feel vulnerable and protect them”
What this should really say is “they want a man to protect them when they feel vulnerable.”
“A women with good self esteem is not going to be manipulated for her insecurities.”
But that’s what negging is about, manipulating. So you’re essentially saying “this will only work on women who don’t have good self esteem.”
“And the women who is insecure and manipulated learns fast because men will not give her what she needs if she’s too needy.”
But all the articles here are about “making her beg for it” and “making her need you to fulfill her every sexual desire.”
Thank you for speaking on behalf of all women.
That’s bullshit. 99% of women manipulate men all the time. Let’s get some real equality. You are all manginas speaking.
http://xkcd.com/1027/
This article is so flawed. The points could easily be picked apart by a twelve year old (if you are so inclined to pass this article on to a kid that age). Your proposals are illogical and absurd. Your ‘evidence’ is to cite celebrities in magazine. NEWS FLASH: glossy magazines only show a very small part of the population. Their reader audience is also limited. Your points are also contradictory.
This trashy (if you could call it that) is full of stereotypes and generalisations that are degrading. That’s right. You claim not to insult females, but saying that someone’s only aspiration is social status is highly offensive. Those generalisations are also equally offensive.
It’s insecure people like YOU that hinder gender equality.
But hey! You seem to love the ‘cave man alpha male’. So why don’t you go out with him and leave the rest of the population alone?
If the guy assumes the girl is a “bitch” from the beginning its not going to work. I really don’t buy this kind of dating advice (and I’m a girl.) Not all women gravitate toward status. A woman may have status of her own and doesn’t need it to feel good about herself. And why rate people with numbers its just about getting along. Negging is the fool proof way to ruin a date and not make a friend.
It depends on how you use negs, and also meant to be used on hotter, icier girls. there’s more debate on negging here
http://www.seductionscience.com/2010/negging-women/
If the guy assumes the girl is a “bitch” from the beginning its not going to work. I really don’t buy this kind of dating advice (and I’m a girl.) Not all women gravitate toward status. A woman may have status of her own and doesn’t need it to feel good about herself. And why rate people with numbers its just about getting along. Negging is the fool proof way to ruin a date and not make a firend.
awesome article bro
Sweet, thanks
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Lol if only you’d had any proper thoughts when writing this it might have turned out good.
You know what’s funny? I liked a guy before, had a great dynamic with him until he started negging me!
He began to make these weird tiny criticisms and then throw in really big compliments, but mainly he’d give me backhanded compliments and go on about how awesome he was! I then showed that I no longer liked his company an he got more clingy and used really weird underhand tactics to try and get my attention.
If he’d carried on being friendly and relaxed I’d have carried on liking him and things might have developed, now I think he’s a prick – deleted him on facebook and totally ignore him. I used to count him as a friend now I’ve cut him out of my life.
On a more positive note I’m seeing a guy who a lot of girls might find less attractive physically, but who is funny, smart, and polite and kind to me.
Negging doesn’t always work, some girls like nice guys!