I noticed that a LOT of guys don’t feel that “Sexual Rage” when talking to girls.
Having that sexual masculine feeling not only makes you feel happier, younger, and more motivated to get girls, but it also TURNS GIRLS ON.
You see, a woman doesn’t want to talk to you “friend to friend”.
She wants to talk to you MAN TO WOMAN.
But if you’re not feeling the sexual rage, you won’t feel motivated enough.
Also, you want to feel horny in general, otherwise you’ll fail to open all the girls, which means you’ll fail to generate social momentum.
So normally as you walk down the street, or you’re at a club, MOST of the girls you’re NOT that attracted to.
Your state is low, and it isn’t pumped.
As a result, you don’t approach them.
The problem then is, when you DO see the REALLY pretty girl, you FREEZE UP. Why? Because you’re being so PICKY and you’re not feeling the sexual intent and you’re not in the right state.
So you end up talking to NOBODY.
So here’s an exercise to increase your sexual FURY and PUMP YOUR STATE.
First I’ll give you the steps on you to increase your sexual fury, and then I’ll explain how and why it works.
Step #1. Imagine she’s in your social circle
First, when I see the girl, I imagine that I know the girl and we’ve hung out before and that we’re friends and that she comes over to my place to talk.
I do that first, because in study after study it’s shown that you’re far more sexually attracted to people that you KNOW in your social circle than total strangers.
What happens is that if you hang out with a woman that you’re not attracted to, eventually you’ll develop a level of sexual attraction for her, just by being around her.
And men typically rate women they know as being sexier than they would rate them otherwise.
So I basically imagine that the girl is already in my social circle and that we’ve hung out and that we’re familiar with each other.
Step #2. Imagine her wearing sexy clothes
Next I imagine that the girl is showing sexual intent to the world by imagining that she’s wearing bright neon pink and slutty clothing.
So I imagine that she’s wearing bright neon pink stilettos.
I use the color pink as a glowing color that really pops and grabs my attention. I imagine the neon glow of it, almost overwhelming the girl, so bright it’s almost supernatural.
I’ll imagine that her top is bright pink and I’ll imagine that she’s wearing denim mini-short shorts that barely cover her butt.
Next, I’ll imagine that she has perfectly manicured French nails and her hair is done up.
In other words, I’m picturing in my mind that she’s doing everything she can to attract a man on a raw, sexual level. That’s the visual you want to put into your head.
So right there, by imagining you already know the girl, and that she’s just up so colorfully and sexually, it will turn on your Sexual Fury for the woman and make you feel giddy and motivated.
Step #3. Imagine there’s competition from other males
Next up, I create an image of sexual jealousy and the taboo to fuel my sexual Fury.
So I imagine there’s a really built, jacked-up black guy with big muscles and he’s sitting there.
And I imagine that hip hop stripper music is playing, like “Low” by Flo-Rida or “Fire Burning” by Sean Kingston. And the girl is shaking her booty like a stripper and grinding on the black guy’s lap.
And what that does is create a feeling of taboo, like a blonde girl dancing for the black guy, and also to work yourself into a kind competitive sexual fury driven by jealousy.
Because if you have a sense of competition from another guy, that’s going to pump up the testosterone in your body, and give you a sense of sexual urgency that you’ve got to inseminate this girl first.
So I imagine this girl dressed is dressed like a slut, and she’s dancing to hip hop music, and she’s grinding down on this guy’s lap with her ass trying to get him erect.
And you want to imagine the music very vividly, actually here the words of the song in your head, and imagine the scene very vividly.
Step #4. Imagine she’s making orgasm sounds
Next, I create an auditory element to the picture.
I imagine the girl making female orgasm sounds, crying out in intense orgasms.
And I imagine her whispering in either the other guy’s ear my ear that she wants me to cum inside of her, to give her babies, to penetrate her wet pussy. Basically speaking directly to my genetics of reproduction.
I imagine she’s showing full intent for a man to impregnate her, and that’s also to increase my sexual fury for the girl and pump my motivation.
Step #5. Imagine wet, raw, bareback sex
If I need to add more fuel to the fire, next up I imagine the girl masturbating her pussy with her fingers hard, squirting a wet orgasm, and she’s got this really beautiful, perfect looking pussy that is piping hot and wet.
Then I imagine raw dogging her, no condom, total nasty perversion, no standards, really jungle sex. Just pure cumming into that beautifully shaped pussy, raw dog, hot orgasm and cumming inside her to make her pregnant.
I also imagine pulling her hair and forcing dominantly to lick her girlfriend’s pussy.
It’s completely shameful, degrading, nasty, bareback sex, irresponsible, getting this girl pregnant sex, but that’s what will get me hot for her. It’s just pure perversion.
Keep It Simple
Now if a girl is walking by and you have a few seconds, you may want to keep it really simple, just picture in pink stilettos.
If you’re at the gym and you want to increase your sexual fury and you see the girl there for a good 60 seconds, you can run through the entire scenario.
Or you could just pick out the elements that appeal to you and experiment with it. Like imagine every girl screaming orgasms, or imagine every girl wearing pink lingerie, or imagine every girl doing a striptease lap dance for other guys to create jealousy, and that way you keep it a little simpler too.
So that’s the exercise to create sexual fury and motivation in yourself and pump your state to take action.
Some More Tips: Turbo charge your fury and state at the gym
It’s an exercise that I like to especially do at the gym while working out.
Because working out pumps up my testosterone, which helps create the sexual fury while doing the exercise.
And doing the exercise, in turn, pumps up my testosterone which helps you slam those weights, gives you energy and motivation. So it’s like a synergistic feedback loop.
So again, this exercise works best when used in conjunction with working out at the gym and lifting heavy weights.
Workout at the gym in the morning if you can and begin the sexual rage exercise to get the muscles moving and the blood flowing. This makes the visualization much easier and it works synergistically with working out.
Tip #2. No “Head Thinking”
You want to drop this idea of wanting a girlfriend, or wanting a “10”, or wanting a specific ethnicity of girl like Asian or Latina or wanting a blonde or brunette, anything that’s abstract.
Because any abstract idea of what you’re desiring in your head, that’s not physically in front of you, will tend to kill your sexual fury and state.
Because if you just think with your head about which girls I want, it’s only the hottest girl in the room that will catch your eye, and you’ll be too pick, and you’ll lose your sexual drive and desire.
So to build your sexual fury and state, you’ve got to start thinking with your dick instead of your head.
The only girls you want to sexually desire, is the real girl that is standing really for real in front of you at that particular moment.
So you see the girl there. It doesn’t matter how pretty or ugly she is. You do this same exercise on every girl.
And every girl I see, I’ll run the exercise on her. And I’ll do that with the next girl. And the next girl. To pump and build my sexual fury and drive.
Tip #3. Use it on real girls
This exercise should be done in the field.
Building your sexual fury effectively and getting that sexual drive, it has to be CONCRETE.
It’s not something that you psych yourself up beforehand at your house, before you go out.
What you want is a real, live girl there right in front of you and get that sexual rage for that real, specific girl and so that you’re driven specifically for her.
You want to pop a boner for that girl right in front of you.
It’s not something you do it home fantasizing about girls in general. You want the specific, real girl in front of you.
Why this exercise works – women are showing intent
Now why this works is that you’re imagining all the women you come across as the gender showing intent. Normally you think of as the men chasing the women. But now in your mind, the women are chasing the men.
They’re dressing sexy, they’re lap dancing, they’re making orgasm noises, they’re whispering how they want to fuck you in your ear.
In effect, you’re imagining every woman as like a stripper.
And what this does is rewires your brain to start imagining every woman, not only being hot, but as craving sex. That women are the aggressors giving indicators of interest to you.
Like stepping into a Bizarro world where everything is reversed! The women chase the men. So not only are you stepping into a world abundant with sexy women, but these sexy women are begging to get bent over.
And when women express their intent, that’s what gets a guy hot.
Every girl becomes an opportunity to fuel your fury and state
This exercise revs you up to feel the sexual fury for every girl and pump your state.
Every girl is an opportunity to refuel your sexual fury, even what you’d normally consider ugly girls.
It gives you freedom from the outcome
This exercise evens out the beauty of the women. So the uglier girls appear hotter, and the hotter girls just appear sluttier.
Because in effect, you’re giving all the women a “uniform”.
You’re imagining her in neon pink clothes, stilettos, dancing, and it evens out all the girls. So there’s no more 7s, 8s, 9s, and 10s, it’s all just super sexy women showing their intent for sex.
So in effect, all the women have same number of sexiness.
This is actually very good, because every woman becomes a opportunity to fuel your sexual fury, even the uglier girls.
And the hotter girls, become NOT so entrancing. This is GOOD. Approach anxiety is less of an issue, because you see the really hot girl as just another girl dressed in uniform, and it makes far easier to approach her.
Because every girl is wearing a sexy uniform essentially, every next girl can easily replace the previous one, which means, you’re no longer attached to the outcome.
You don’t give a fuck if it goes well, because there’s just an endless parade of girls all equally fine and hot. So the exercise pulls you outside of your head, you don’t give a fuck about the outcome, and you can far more easily take action without approach anxiety.
In other words, you’re far less enamored by a woman’s physical features, which causes outcome attachment, but instead you just feel a raw, sexual, animalistic drive to fuck her, which causes freedom from outcome.
What the exercise does, in effect, is give all women, young and old, pretty and not pretty, a standard uniform. It places them all into standard uniform of showing intent and sexiness and raw sexuality, so that all women one sees are all on the same level.
The exercise has a leveling effect on all women.
Which is awesome for being a sociable guy who approaches everyone.
Because when you pump up your testosterone, when every girls looks and fine and sexy and is a 10 to you, you feel freedom from outcome. It becomes far easier to approach any girl, because it’s a parade of the same girl in a sexy uniform.
And when you’ve got that freedom from outcome, it becomes far easier to express your own intent, to go up to the girl and open her. It feels like a natural thing to do, to take action, which is springing from the sexual fury you’re feeling, and springing from the carefree, relaxed attitude that comes from freedom from outcome.
This exercise makes you FEEL GREAT!
And what the sexual fury exercise allows you to do is be happy, and giddy, and feel sexually excited, independent of which girls are around you, independent of your location, or your circumstances.
So that your happiness comes from within, from an internally generated well, independent of having a woman on your arms or be talking to a particular type of woman.
So that even at the grocery store you can use the sexual fury exercise to renew and replenish yourself.
Ad what the exercise does is create that sensation of abundance where the girls are all 10s, in a raw, sexual perversion sort of way.
Imagine walking down the street and there are no 5s, 6s, or 7s or 8s. All the girls are “9s” and “10s”! ALL of them!
You really go INSANE at all the opportunities.
You feel like you’re in complete sexual abundance with every girl turning you on. That drives up your testosterone even more and you feel wildly happy.
And being horny for every girl is actually a very LIBERATING feeling. It’s a great feeling.
I mean, imagine walking into a party or a club where all the girls, you’re HOT for. They’re all 10s.
Where every girl there, you’re popping boners for.
It’s like being a kid in a candy factory, and the girls are also going to be inspired and excited by your energy.
Whereas if you’re just after the 2 or 3 top hotties, you’re just going to think that the club kind of sucks, and you’re not positive, and you’re down, you’ve got approach anxiety, and going out to meet girls sucks.
But if EVERY girl is like a fantasy come true, you will be INSPIRED.
You will think going out is the greatest thing on Earth. Because you’re thinking purely in perversion with your dick, and that excites the brain to think that it’s in pure heaven.
And then at the end of the night, you WILL end up with that girl that truly is the best girl in the club because you’ve been giving people good energy, you’ve been giving them value, you’ve built up social momentum talking with everyone, and you’re positive. And the very hottest girls will feel that and be strongly attracted to that and you will end up with them.
With the side benefit of popping boners for every girl you come across.
It makes you feel relaxed and uninhibited, because of the sheer amount of abundance of women, you feel happy.
You lose your inhibition. Like this is just going to happen and you truly are just a beast, just to fuck the girl for tonight and nothing else you want from her.
And that rage of testosterone through your body makes you feel Giddiness… like all possibilities are open to you.
You feel young, you feel vital, invincible, hot blooded, energetic. You feel entitled. You feel like pillaging, plundering the girls,
You feel YOUNG when you feel sexual fury, like you’re 17 again, and you don’t get sick as much. You self heal more easily.
The Fantasy Utopia Island of Hot Girls!
Okay, so imagine that you’re a paradise, a utopian island.
And this island is just full of perfect 10s… beautiful women with pretty faces, big tits, long legs, tanned, with manicured nails and smooth skin, and they’re all youthful.
And all the women are sexually available to you, they’re all horny, they all want to talk to you, spend time with you, smile at you, and have sex with you.
Every time you approach a girl, she’s instantly into you. Because you’re the only guy on this island of hundreds of super hot girls.
So you’re running around like a kid in a candy factory. In fact, there’s so much abundance and choice, you basically have NO desire to settle down with any of these women.
Instead, you’re more concerned about spreading your seed far and wide to as many of these beautiful women as possible.
That’s when you feel the sexual FURY.
That’s when your state is PUMPED (in a relaxed way!).
THAT is when you experience happiness!
When you’re surrounded by beautiful girls and 10s everywhere you go.
And that’s what the exercise does. It creates that fantasy island scenario, allows you to continually replenish your sexual drive and your happiness everywhere and anywhere.
So try it out, and enjoy!
sounds like you can go on quite a tear with this strategy
First I followed my HEART. The result: I became extremely picky and had my heart broken by every girl I approached. Secondly I followed my HEAD. The result: I became a nervous wreak by thinking about every possible outcome. Now I follow my DICK. The result: I’m the hottest thing in town. Ouch!
Uhhh…I hope this blog is geared toward sex-only and not relationships, because a majority of women find male aggression and definitely “perversion” (as you described) to be an indicator of a man to avoid.
I realize the intent here is just to teach men to gear up their confidence and stop worrying about the outcome and that’s cool and probably sound advice…
But the words “rage” shouldn’t go anywhere near the word “sex” or women. Women can sense a guy who’s a “hornball” and if you’re putting off vibes of a hornball, you may be successful in landing a drunk, desperate, or truly promiscuous woman (ie: a one night stand), but you will not be attracting any quality women who would consider you dating/boyfriend/husband material.
All humans can sense vibes in other people….and all humans can “smell” pheromones and the like. So using that rationale, do you really want to have your hormones and body chemicals worked up so much that women unconsciously “smell” and sense that you are out for a fuck-buddy, are aggressive, and are having perverted thoughts about every woman in the room?
Maybe you do and maybe I missed the point of this post (if the point is to get one night stands or pick up women who aren’t girlfriend material or whatever the case)….but if this is meant as a general post to actually be more attractive/confident toward the majority of women, I’d say this advice is an absolute repellent to any women who have a reasonable sense of “instinct” (and as we all know the vibes, the pheromones, and the body language will all show that aggression/perversion/sex-only mindset).
All I’m suggesting is that in “gearing up” each guy should consider what TYPE of woman he wants to attract and adjust his mindset accordingly. Guys who come off as manwhores tend to attract the lower-sorts of women who are looking for something shallow, whether it be money, status, a one night stand, a baby-daddy, a “trophy”, and countless other negative things.
I just think maybe you should mention that each guy needs to adjust his body language/confidence based on who he really IS and what type of woman he wants to attract. If you come off as a mouth-breathing, salivating, aggressor….most women will feel as though you aren’t a quality-type of guy.
But not desiring and looking for an end result is something I’d fully agree with. I think there’s an unofficial saying that goes something along the lines of: “When you’re looking for something you’ll never find it. But the moment you stop looking…..wham! You’re the hottest thing in town” (obviously that’s not an actual saying, but I think we’ve all experienced that to some degree. So I do agree with your suggestion to NOT be out “looking for a girlfriend”.
I’d say if anything….to go out with the mindset that you’re “looking to meet a woman you vibe with”. Because that’s pretty non-descriptive, non-stress inducing, and would still put a guy in the mindset to go out with confidence and don’t worry about anything except maybe making a few good “connections” with women they like. Even if it’s only a brief convo or an exchange of phone numbers.
Goals are great. Except in dating and romance. 🙂
Dude you have no idea how hard it is sometimes.. but yet you have an idea because you’re talking about it!
I had become like the guy who went into a setting with the frame of mind of looking at the ‘dream girl’ and over looking everyone else lost in that thought.. heh. Timely advice, this is.
Guess I’ll stick to my guns which is my intuition (the E of entp) and not so much the Ti, my thinking about everything before I even get this far..
yeah, if you only want to approach your dream girl, you’ll never have the courage to do it because you’ll be lacking social momentum.
Why does a black guy have to be competition ?
use whatever imagery would make you feel jealous
One clarification to my Bashar quote above: there is always abundance, you just need to decide abundance of what you would like to experience.
The part about the black guy is also valid- blacks have MUCH more melanin which is directly connected with testosterone.
hmmm that’s silly melanin has NOTHING to do with testosterone levels.
Thats a very good one, Jesse.
The power is within you. You are the creator of YOUR own reality.
There is never lack of abundance. There can be only abundance of lack. Small change in thinking, huge difference.
So you have to create abundance of horny girls for yourself.
Unlike Roosh blog, yours is positive
I wish someone to create a similar blog for women- the more positive mindset- the better for everybody 8)
Thank yo Ahmed
Leave a comment, let me know what you think !!
so ur horny but what exactly do you say to the girl whatever come to mind?