The Best Cities To Bang And Date Hot Girls, And How To Choose

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So which cities are the best for meeting, picking up, and bedding beautiful girls?

Sometimes your sleepy home town won’t cut it; you’ve got to move to where the girls are.

Just like if you want to make it big in finance, you need to move to New York; if you want to make a living playing Poker in live tournaments, you need to move to Vegas; and if you want to date the most beautiful women, it’s quite helpful to be in the right city.

I’ve moved multiple times to be where the girls were; away from the cold North to Florida back in 2000, and sold my apartments and gave away all of my possessions to live in Latin America in a few years later. Since then, I’ve done a lot of traveling and am wary of taking on any material possessions that might only act as a hindrance. If you want the best girls, you’ve got to do what’s necessary to be able to meet them.

Which Cities Are The Best For Girls…

Here are my recommendations for some pretty cool cities with generally attractive girls I’ve travelled to or had recommended. There are certainly others, this isn’t a complete list by any means.

  • South Beach Miami, Florida
  • Downtown Miami, Florida
  • New York City, New York
  • Chicago
  • Denver, Colorado
  • Montreal, Canada
  • Medellin, Colombia
  • San Diego, CA
  • Sydney, Australia
  • Florianopolis, Brazil
  • Tokyo, Japan
  • Berlin, Germany

Any of these cities are great places to meet women and you should check them out.

Either start an online business, or start teaching English in a foreign country… either can work!

The other advantage of being in an exotic city is that you’ll stand out, girls will notice your accent, and you’ll be instantly attractive. If you’re from Australia, go to the U.S and the girls will drool over your Aussie accent. If you’re from the U.S. go to Australia… or Japan, or South America.

It’s that “wanderer” attraction effect. Women want a fresh injection of new genes into their gene pool. Having children with their own ethnicity is a little like family inbreeding in comparison to meeting an outsider.

The problem is choosing WHICH city is best; because no matter how much online research you do, it’s hard to tell which will be your best fit until you actually spend time in a city. Some have better weather; others better nightlife; others sexier girls; others are cheaper. Different cities have different combinations of qualifying factors to varying degrees, so it’s a complex choice.

(As a side note, every country has hot girls as I detail in this post, but cities will vary greatly).

Here are the factors that tend to make a city good for meeting attractive women.

Factor #1. Warm Weather

Warm weather puts pressure on women to keep themselves in physical shape.

It forces a girl to think twice about eating that pizza or ice-cream cone when she knows it’s going to be warm out and she can’t cover up her body… AND there’s competition from OTHER women under the same pressures.

That’s contrasted to colder cities where women feel easy about eating junk food and not exercising because so much of the time they’re covered up anyway, it’s just easier to give into their indulgences.

Good places for warm weather is Florida or California, South America, Asia, or Europe or North America in the summer.

Factor #2. Hopping Nightlife

Next up, a great city tends to have a great nightlife.

What night clubs and bars do is round up a lot of the more attractive, young, single women and coral them into one single place.

So if the night scene is hopping, it’s far more efficient to meet a lot of young, attractive, single girls in a short amount of time.

Whereas if you’re forced to rely purely on day game, the process of meeting single, young women can be considerably more time consuming, especially in the United States where in most cities it’s a total car culture and young ladies are generally not on foot during the daytime.

Factor #3. A Fitness Culture

Next up, does the city have a culture of fitness?

In my opinion, women that lift weights at the gym or do sports like swimming or gymnastics and have a fair amount of lean muscle on their bodies, tend to look far more attractive than women that are just stick skinny and lanky looking.

Because when a woman builds lean muscle, what she does is burn off calories en masse, sculpts her body, and her metabolism is so revved up from the muscle that she continues burning calories all day… resulting in a look that is totally hot… AND natural.

Opposed to a girl that tries to starve herself to stay thin, who only becomes lethargic without any actual energy to spare, and tends to yoyo in her weight.

So if there’s a truly exercise-centric or fitness-centric culture, you’ll tend to find far more attractive women.

What to do…

So if you’re stuck in a small town, stuck in a suburb, or stuck in a cold city where people cover up 9 months of the year, AND you want to meet the hottest girls, you’ll most likely need to make a big move. Take some risks.

For the rewards and spoils go to those men who take massive action!

47 thoughts on “The Best Cities To Bang And Date Hot Girls, And How To Choose”

  1. Foreign Love Web

    Can you mention more information about Sweden, Norway, Finland, and Iceland?

    I do know that there are attractive women in those 4 European countries.

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  3. lvy warner

    hi Jesse, Wow I have read your article great article The Slavic countries like the Ukraine, Russia, Estonia, etc… have some of the highest per-capita hotties on the planet. ?

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  4. Serial Shagger

    How the fuck did everyone forget Las Vegas. Its by far the best place on planet earth to fuck sexy sloots.

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  5. Info

    You missed out Thailand, its so easy to bang hot girls over there, I visit twice a year and stay for a month at a time, but a month is more than enough otherwise I find it hard to walk if I stay longer.

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  6. Jim

    Chicago is becoming a dog and pony show. There are very few hot girls here. Sure there are plenty of girls pretending or trying to be hot but they are missing the mark hardcore.

    Something happened a few years ago. There were hot girls but they are hard to find now. I don’t know what the fuck happened…

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  11. Socialkenny the black Cassanova

    On a side note Jesse, it would be very helpful if you would enable a comment notification reply box where we can check it to receive follow-up notification of new comments.

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  12. Socialkenny

    Good point about relocating JC.

    I’m currently residing in the Caribbean where it”s pretty much good weather all year around. If you’re still in Miami, it’s pretty much the same also.

    I consider myself a New Yorker since I grew up there and lived there my entire life. NYC isn’t a party town contrary to popular belief. If you’re gonna sarge or pick up girls, there are tons of events for that, but nightlife-wise as in clubs and bars, NYC ranks at the bottom of the list.

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  13. me

    hi Jesse, The Slavic countries like the Ukraine, Russia, Estonia, etc… have some of the highest per-capita hotties on the planet. 😆

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  14. n2paul

    If you want the best girls then you come to Eastern Europe ! Romania, Ukraine, Croatia, Czech , Russia etc , this is were youll find the.most beautifull and feminine girls.

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  15. Jim

    There are beautiful women the world over – all of us guys have noticed that. If you are a younger guy; or even an older guy who likes (and can attract) the younger women; then I’ve got just two words for you no matter what part of the world you are in:

    College towns.

    Just over run with lovely young ladies; who often like to party.

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  18. Jake

    Why did you chose San Diego in California among other cities in California? Is there a difference or is it just because you tried living in San Diego?

    What about comparing countries? Canada vs US vs UK vs Asian countries (like India)

    And.. about your theory that girls like outsiders more, it is true for American’s / Autralians but I think when Indians try to attract American being an outsider doesn’t work.

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  19. Hans

    If you prefer quantity than quality and don’t like to talk and talk and talk to get a girl here are some tips:

    Peru (Lima)
    Brasil (Northeast beaches like Fortaleza and Recife)
    Korea (To get japanese tourists)
    Thailand
    Algarve (Portugal island)

    They won’t be the prettiest girl you ever seen but you will probably not going to sleep drunk and alone unless you want to.

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      1. mike42night

        Actually not a good tip unless you can hold a decent conversation in the local language not to mention the added challenges of living in 2-3 tier cities where English Speakers are rare. I currently reside in such a place and able to speak Portuguese well has hurt my game to the point I say why bother made even worse that many of women are clearly interested. Total immersion is not the most effective way to learn a foreign language, having a bilingual English speaker slowly explain what is being said is far more productive. If you are staying in Brazil less then 3 months and don’t speak Portuguese Rio De Janeiro is your best beat until you can hold a decent conversation in Street Portuguese. Just practice with students learning English. This is all made worse because Portuguese classes are much more expensive then Spanish classes.

  20. noname

    i hav a small dick n so I hav a hard time makin it with a chick, it ther a place were that don’t matter? my sis’ friend let me hav sex wit her but she’s young, other hcicks my age hav laughed at me

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    2. Jesse Long

      I have some advice for you, sir, and that is to hit that gym, to work on that muscle, and to take all natural male enhancement pills. Your problems will be solved once you begin to do that in your life.

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  21. Phil Eightme

    You got to go to Reykjavík Icelandic.
    The population is small but their is no shortage of beautiful ladies.
    A great nightlife with women that are eager to meet me & party.
    Icelanders let loose on the weekends and it isn’t uncommon to see a couple getting it on in an alley.
    You’d have to be dickless to not get laid in Reykjavík.
    PE

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  22. Amazon

    Dudes, before you exit the world you need to visit this particular city: LAGOS, Nigeria,Africa. Pure chaos theory in action in the literary sense and the babes are the bomb. CAUTION: This city is not for the light-hearted. It is Real adventure.

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    1. i live in dubai

      Well, i live in Dubai, but actually still all around money relation ship…boyfriend to pay the bills or ..you know what i mean …if you are looking for a hot girl …Nope not in Dubai …beside that Men are much more so competition too much their, easily, one lady can hug with sooo much intimacy 3 or 4 guys as they are her friends … the only way to lock her for you is just you need to pay the bills or their is a army of men are ready to sneak in, Game in Dubai is just not their, i mean for really hot women …i can easily get short or fat or regular or average beauty but hot …NO MONEY NO HONEY Babe …unless somebody convince me otherwise and i will pay him to teach me how….

      by the way, i spend 2 years reading and watching how you game ladies but …not in Dubai ….

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