Dating a Younger Woman – 6 Tips to Win A Younger Girl

“Jesse, I’m a 64-year-old living in Norway and I often date 18- to 28-year-old beautiful young women.”

“Jesse, I’m 30. I dated an 18-year-old girl a few months ago. It was amazing.”

“Hi, Jesse! I’m 18, in a relationship with a 45-year-old man. He’s amazingly sweet, compassionate, and wow, we had the best sex ever.” Marie.

You are an older gentleman and you’re back on the dating market and you see that young hottie walking by and you covertly look at her. Yeah, you know you’re looking.

Well, aren’t you tired of just looking? Of course you are! The fact is many younger women have a thing for older gentlemen. There’s young pretty girls that would be delighted to have you—a mature, sophisticated, and established older gentleman as her boyfriend.

Today, I’m going to turn you into that nice guy who can’t even talk to a younger girl without pissing on himself into a Don Juan that these younger girls will be clawing for.

Today, my friend, I’m giving you 6 tips to dating younger women. At the end of this video, I’m going to give you the ultimate shortcut to getting a young girlfriend the fast way.

Tip #1. Stop being the nice guy.

Older gentlemen especially get wrapped up in doing nice guy game with younger girls.

Nice guy game is looking for indicators of interest from the girl before you’ll talk to her or make a move.

Nice guy game is looking for permission to do anything with the girl.

Nice guy game is being too much of a sweet, sweet, sweet grandfatherly figure to her.

Nice guy game is friend-to-friend. You’re asking the girl questions, but there is no leading, there is no physicality, you’re not touching the girl.

With nice guy game, you’re reacting to the girl instead of leading her, leading the conversation, leading the physical touch. Nice guy game is trying to impress the girl by not doing anything wrong instead of not giving a damn what the girl thinks.

That’s the problem that older gentlemen have in particular. They’re just too nice. They’re being too approval seeking. They’re being too permission seeking, and they’re not physically escalating.

You come across as a nice older man to talk to, but ultimately, it’s kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like talking to her dad. Basically, want to be running the same game at age 35, or 45, or 55 as if you were that young bad boy kid at age 21.

Tip #2. Not everyone needs to love you

You have to be at peace and accept that not every younger girl is going to like you or want to date you.

Some girls, because you’re older, won’t want to date you. Period.

Maybe she has family pressure to consider or her friends would make it impossible for her. Well, other girls would be man-crazy for older guys. Maybe it’s a fetish she has. Maybe she’s rebelling against her parents. Maybe she sees older men as a source of stability.

Whatever it is, there are girls out there that will single you out and give you a chance. Other girls will fall in the middle. Maybe they didn’t picture themselves with an older gentleman but here you come along, a sexy older stud and they’re intrigued.

Now here’s the thing. It’s not about making every girl like you, and it’s not about hiding your age or hoping that she doesn’t notice. It’s about being polarizing.

You have to expect that some girls are not going to be into you, but she also has to have the confidence that many will be. You got to be perfectly willing to throw your age right in their faces, so you can weed out the girls who ignore you from the girls who want to be crazy in love with you.

Tip #3. Do not wait for indicators of interest from her.

When you’re a young guy her same age, it’s perfectly socially acceptable for her to make eye contact with you, smile at you, tell her friends about you.

But when you’re older than her, even if she’s madly crushing on you, she likely won’t show any signs or signals of outward attraction for you. Why?

Because she’s afraid of how others will judge her for it. Because you can’t often tell between a girl that is interested in you from a girl that isn’t interested in you, as an older guy, you have to make all the moves and assume all the risks.

The ball is completely in your court to go up to the girl, to talk to her, to lead the conversation, to lead her physically because the younger girl will in general do absolutely nothing to help you, and that means it’s all on you. Being the super nice guy and waiting for permission and looking for signs of interest will generally get you nowhere with younger women.

Tip #4. Lift heavy weights and put on muscle.

You see a young man, even if he’s skinny or has bad posture, or is pudgy, he’s young. He has potential. He still has a chance to make something of himself.

But if you’re in your 30s, or 40s, or 50s, a woman wants to see accomplishments. Your potential days are over. You’ve either gotten your act together by now or you never will. In your mind, you’re either going to look physically good, look physically healthy, or it’s never going to happen.

The number 1 thing you can do to not look like that creepy old guy is to get into excellent physical shape because when you don’t work out or you don’t eat right, it conveys to women that you don’t value yourself, that you don’t give a damn what crap you put into your body.

It’s not to find wrinkles on your face that makes you look old. It’s your lack of muscle mass that makes you look old.

You show your age with muscle shrinkage in your body and the replacement of muscle with fat and bad posture, and that’s where older guys go wrong is that they just look old in their physical profile when they really shouldn’t if they were lifting heavy weights religiously. Why would a young cutie have sex with you or potentially have your children if it looks like you could just physically keel over any day from bad health?

But fortunately, you can eliminate this attraction decline because women will forgive just about everything else about your age as long as you’ve kept physically in great shape and you’ve got the muscle on you and the leanness on you of a younger man.

Then you’re combining the maturity status and power of the older man with the health, youth, and vitality of the young man’s physical strength. That’s like the ultimate hot guy combination to younger women. If you’re an older gentleman and you want that magic pill to getting the younger girls, go to the gym.

Tip #5. Stop caring about what everyone else thinks.

There’s a common belief in our culture that older gentlemen talking to a younger girl is somehow creepy and it’s this negative social pressure that keeps 99 percent of older guys away from younger women, so the vast majority of older guys are afraid of what other people are going to think and they’re afraid of being seen as creepy.

But this works to your advantage because 99 percent of the competition has already eliminated itself and 99 percent of older men are not even in the game.

When you’re talking to a younger girl and flirting with her and making her feel attraction for you, you will be the only older guy doing that. You will stand out. You will be unique to her because half of young girls are looking to meet an older guy but you will have been the only one to step up and fulfill her fantasy.

The key to pulling it off however is that you got to be okay being seen as that older guy who is around younger women and that threatens a lot of people. Make no mistake about it, most people will try to shame you for it, but who cares about what other people think? Wear it as a badge of honor.

You’re not going to win by being the nice guy, the nice guy who tries to please everybody. No! You want to be the polarizing figure, the guy who’s going to piss off a lot of people. If you’re unfazed by the age difference, the girl won’t care either, and if you’re comfortable with it, she’ll be comfortable with it and let the haters hate.

Tip #6. Flexibility is your friend, my friend.

I don’t mean physical flexibility. I mean mental flexibility— flexibility in your personal habits, flexibility in your beliefs about women, flexibility in your views of the world. As men, as we get older, we get stuck in our habits. We get stuck in our beliefs. We get stuck in our old comfortable ways.

But doing the same old, same old that you’ve been doing for 20 or 30 years isn’t going to get you the results that you want.

You want to become a revolutionary and the revolution is to overthrow your old self, to unseat yourself from power and start fresh. Can you cast away your old broken relationship with food and start researching what it takes to build an incredible body?

Can you throw out your inertia of old habits and build for yourself an amazing wardrobe?

Can you toss your beliefs about women and politics out the window and let go of your bitterness and instead be open-minded and happy?

Can you crush that old image of yourself and instead see yourself as that kind of man that can approach that young pretty girl without needing her permission or approval?

If you’re say a conservative, can you place yourself in the shoes of a liberal or a feminist and not negatively judge women for it?

If you can be flexible or you can go a step further and become revolutionary, what you’re willing to let go and change, I guarantee that your results will increase 10-fold.

Now at the beginning of this video, I made you a promise that I’d show you a fast way to win over and date a younger woman, a method that does not require years of hard work, a method that is the quickest and simplest way to achieve what you’re after and it’s taken me 15 years to develop this and it’s called Girlfriend Express, link down in the description below.

Say, you want to date a girl that’s 5, 10, 20 years younger than yourself. Well, I created this method for you as I myself I’m in my 40s, so I understand your specific issues and I understand how to push past all that so that you can get that loyal, loving girlfriend that you’re craving after and that you deserve and do it the fast and simple way.

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