“Hey Jesse! Can you break down for me what are the qualities of an attractive guy, so I know what to do?” — Cody
Yo! Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be supremely attractive? You walk into a room, and all the girls turn their heads in unison to get a good look at you.
And you simply pick your favorite girl who is almost nervous to be talking to you.
Her heart is beating fast, and her face flushes red, even though she’s the prettiest girl in the room.
All because you are so damn attractive as a red-blooded man.
Well, there’s a couple of common traits that all wildly attractive men possess, traits that allow these men to pretty much get any girl they want.
And today I’m giving you seven factors that all supremely attractive men have to make your dating life easy and simple where it’s not you chasing the girl, or trying to convince her to like you but allowing these unspoken attraction magnets to do all the work for you.
So you’re like a massive sun, sucking all these girls into your orbit with very little effort.
Attractive Factor #1: Preselection
The first factor that makes you supremely attractive as a man is preselection.
When women see you hanging out with other women, or they see you with other women on your social media, it’s the equivalent of you growing a small little waist and very large breasts.
When pretty girls are talking with you, and hanging out with you, even if they’re just friends of yours, you are preselected.
It communicates to other women that you’re not a weirdo, that you’re not a serial killer, that you’re not a loser.
Normally, a woman would have to spend five or six hours talking with you, risking that she’s wasting her time, risking that you are a weird stalker to find out if you are actually a cool guy.
But when you have preselection, she doesn’t need to do any of that. When you have other pretty girls around you, that’s all the information she needs to make a snap judgment that you are supremely attractive.
Attractive Factor #2: Connection
the second factor that makes you attractive is comfort, connection, and familiarity.
Time is the key ingredient here.
Time is your friend.
Time is on your side.
The longer you spend with the girl, the more comfort and connection you will build with her.
More time spent equals more comfort, comfort equals more attraction.
Now this doesn’t mean hanging out with her for months to be close to her.
It means verbally and physically escalating quickly over the span of a few hours. over the span of a few days is what will make you attractive.
Attractive Factor #3: Leadership
The third factor that makes you supremely attractive to women is leadership.
Does she see you leading and steering the conversation?
Is your voice loud and projecting?
Are you physically escalating?
Are you talking about what you want to talk about, rather than just what you think the girl wants to hear?
Are you taking her by the hand and leading her around?
Are you leading in such a way that you get the girl reacting to you?
These are all elements of leading and making the girl’s heart beat hard for you.
Attractive Factor #4: Being Unreactive
The fourth factor that makes you extremely attractive is being unreactive.
Are you emotionally unreactive?
Are you able to hold your composure and just remain that cool and friendly and normal guy in front of that really pretty girl?
When a girl throws a congruence test at you, do you remain cool and relaxed in the face of it?
Or do you get needy in front of a pretty girl?
Do you start talking too fast?
Do you start acting weird and nervous?
Do you start reacting to the girl’s lead?
No! Be the man that can remain relaxed and unreactive. That is extremely attractive to girls.
Attractive Factor #5: Access to resources
The fifth factor that makes you incredibly attractive to women is access to resources.
A woman wants to see that you’re doing something with your life and going somewhere.
If she had children with you, would her children end up abandoned in a gutter somewhere? That’s what she’s afraid of.
Now this doesn’t mean you have to be filthy rich.
She just wants to see that you talk about whatever you’re doing with passion, that you have interests, that you have a direction because that at least shows you have potential.
She wants to see you’re dressed well because dressing well mimics the look of a man that has enormous resources at his fingertips.
She wants to see that you have clean hygiene because that would be a man who has resources at his disposal.
Attractive Factor #6: Positive Mood
And the sixth factor that makes you incredibly attractive is having a positive mood.
Smiling. Laughing. Being playful.
Not taking yourself too seriously.
Happiness—that’s a powerful signal that you are successful in life.
Happiness—that’s a powerful signal that you have your life together.
It’s a signal that you are mentally healthy.
It’s a signal that you are physically healthy.
It’s a signal that you have good habits, and that you have direction.
Attractive Factor #7: Sexual Tension
The seventh factor that makes you attractive is when you create sexual tension.
A woman wants to feel that man-to-woman connection that goes beyond merely friend-to-friend.
That can be done with a compliment.
That can be done with physical touch.
That can be done in the sub-communication and how you look at her up and down with your eyes, or how you smile at her.