I’m going to talk to you about older women, MILFs, women who are in their 30s and 40s and even 50s and how you can get them into bed as quickly as possible.
Now the underlying principles are the same no matter what the girls age is, but with older women there’s certain things that you can tweak that are going to make the process go faster that wouldn’t necessarily use on a woman who is say 18, 19, or 20 still in college.
There’s certain little techniques and tactics that you can use with an older woman that you simply would not use with a woman who is much younger. By the way, I have created for you an extra special little cheat sheet for you to download on how to get women in their 30s and 40s into bed and you’re going to find a link for that down in the description below.
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All right so the first tip for a woman who’s in her 30s, 40s or even 50s is you want to overtly compliment her body a lot more than you would normally with a younger woman.
For example, you can tell her, “Damn! You are fit. Your body is tight. How do you keep that up?”
Or, “You can tell her, “Wow! I like that butt of yours. You have got a fine behind. You’re like a white girl with a black girl’s ass, you know that?”
Or tell her, “Sorry. I keep looking down at your chest. I’m normally a gentleman until 6 PM, but they’re just so nice I can’t help it.”
Or you could tell her, “You know, you are sexy as fuck. I don’t even know what to say. I don’t even have words for it.”
Those examples give you a basic idea. You are overtly complimenting her physical body a lot more than you would do with the younger one, even using crass language like tits, boobs, ass fuck and sexy as hell.
You can even exaggerate a little bit like say her butt is just okay. It’s not amazing or anything. You can still tell her, “Man! You have a fine sexy ass, woman.”
Now there’s a couple of reasons why you can get away with the sort of explicit language, these explicit sexual compliments on a woman who’s in her 30s and 40s.
One reason is because women in their 30s and 40s, they’ve got a lot of body image issues. Now all women have body image issues, but particularly older women, they’re comparing themselves to their younger selves.
Things are starting to sag more. They’ve got those maybe a couple of wrinkles creeping in. They’re not as energetic as they used to be. They don’t feel as good. They look at themselves in the mirror, they’re just not liking what they see.
They pick out little flaws about themselves. So even if she’s a very beautiful woman, she’s not used to getting the attention and the compliments that she got 10 years, 20 years prior so one of the biggest compliments that you can give a woman in her 30s and 40s is to overtly compliment her body and even ham it up a little, make it over-the-top, exaggerated a little bit.
The second reason you can be more direct and overt in the compliments with a woman who’s in her 30s and 40s is she’s simply a lot more life experienced now and she can handle that directness.
She’s probably been through a bunch of boyfriends, maybe even a husband. She’s done a bunch of kinky stuff in her life by now, most likely. She’s probably seen a lot of adult videos, so whatever you say is not that likely to shock her much.
Now compare that with a woman who say 18, 19 or 20. She’s just not as experienced. It’s a lot more easy to shock her, to make her feel uncomfortable with you, and she’s at the height of her prime. She’s already being flooded with male attention.
With a younger girl, you don’t want to go crass or explicit. Instead, you want to convey your interest with sexual innuendo, with suggestiveness, with your eyes for example, with your body language.
If you are going to pay her a compliment, you could tell her something like, “You look adorable, girl. You look cute.”
But you don’t want to tell her, “You look sexy as hell.” You don’t want to go over the top with it because telling her anything more than that she’s adorable, it’s probably going to shock her, make her feel uncomfortable with you whereas a woman who’s a bit older in their 30s and 40s, she’s going to appreciate those more explicit body compliments.
Next tip for women in their 30s, 40s MILFs and cougars is you can give them very direct statements of interest like tell her straight up how you want to have sex with her.
For example, you can tell her, “Look, do not get alone with me because if we get alone together, I’m going to fuck the shit out of you.”
Or you’d say, “Gosh! I got to stay away from you because we end up alone together, I’m going to rip your clothes off and do some crazy things to you.”
It’s almost like this woman in her 30s and 40s is this temptress, this seductress where you don’t want to do it. You want to remain the proper gentleman, but around her, you almost can’t control yourself. You feel this passion, this burning passion that is just going to unleash itself out of control.
Now of course it’s very possible to be too direct of course. You don’t want to ask her, “Hey, so you want to go back to my apartment to fuck?” because first of all that’s a yes/no question, and with a yes/no question, it’s very easy for her to just tell you no.
Rather you’re making a statement and the statement is you’re a gentleman basically. You wouldn’t normally do that, but just in the presence of her beauty, if you were alone with her, things might get out of control. You might not be able to help yourself.
Now with much younger women who are like 18, 19, 20, they’re not as experienced in life. You can’t go that direct. You can’t be that crass with her. You can’t say, “Oh, if I were alone with you, I would fuck you.”
You know it comes across a little bit creepy. Instead, you got to be a lot softer, a lot more subtle, a lot more suggestive. You’d say something more like, “You know, you are a little temptation. The way you keep looking at me with your eyes, the way you keep looking at me like that like a like a fat kid looks at a big, juicy cheeseburger. I don’t know what I’m going to do with you. You are feisty. You keep drawing me in girl.
Again the reason that women in their 30s and 40s can handle you being a lot more direct is they have these body image issues where they’re comparing themselves to their younger self. They look in the mirror, they don’t really like what they see anymore. They’re noticing all the little flaws, so one of the biggest compliments you can give her is telling you’re straight up how you would have sex with her.
Being older, she just has a lot more experience. She’s seen a lot in her life. She’s gone through a number of boyfriends. She’s probably done the kinky stuff. She’s seen more adult videos and so on, so it’s a lot harder to shock her.
The third reason you can be a lot more direct with a woman in her 30s and 40s about having sex with her is because usually she’s got family obligations.
She’s got a kid maybe or multiple kids, or maybe she’s taking care of some old parents. Or she’s got a man on the side, and she just sees you as a sexual option. She doesn’t really see you as relationship material . She only has time for something that’s quick and fun, right? so you’re presenting that to her as you are the adventure sex man. You are the man who’s going to fulfill her sexual needs and you’re not necessarily looking for a relationship with her.
Next tip for women in their 30s and 40s is you can physically escalate with them a lot more quickly.
Now any girl regardless of her age, whether she’s younger, whether she’s older, you want to physically be touching her pretty much right off the bat with incidental little touches on her shoulder, maybe examine some jewelry, examine a bracelet she has, compare tans with her. Right off the bat, you want to be physically escalating with a woman, no matter what, no matter who she is.
But with women in their 30s, 40s and 50s, you actually can escalate a lot more quickly usually. You can much more rapidly physically escalate to the point where you are gently pulling the back of her hair so her head goes back, poking her thigh, grabbing her butt, or even just pulling her up to you, body to body, so you’re touching face on.
It’s beyond the scope of this video to show you all these little physical moves, but the point is you can get away with a lot more a lot more quickly with a woman in her 30s and 40s compared to a girl who say 18, 19 or 20.
Next tip for a woman in her 30s and 40s is I like to refer to her as being a young lady.
I’m going to give you an example. You’re talking to her and you tell her, “My, my, my! You are a feisty bundle of trouble, aren’t you, young lady?”
Or say when you’re asking her a screening question, you could tell her, “I can imagine you there in the kitchen, standing over this big pot making soup. You’re throwing in the carrots. You’re throwing in the potatoes. You’re throwing in the vegetables. You’re throwing in the beans. I bet you can cook can’t you, young lady?”
“Hey, hey, you come back here young lady. Where do you think you’re going? You know I have a secret to tell you, young lady It may surprise you a bit, but I think you’re going to like it.”
I’ve just found that women in their 30s and 40s respond well to that they like to be called young lady. I’m guessing because it kind of is a fantasy plotline that takes them back to their youth. You’re pretending that she’s young again and they just like it.
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With women in their 30s, 40s and 50s, it’s real simple. (1) Overtly compliment their body a lot more. (2) Overtly and directly tell her how you want to have sex with her. (3) You can physically escalate with her a lot more quickly like doing the butt grab number. (4) Give her a little nickname like young lady.
Again, you do not want to use these on a very young woman who say 18, 19 or 20 because you’re just going to make her feel real uncomfortable or creep her out.
But these techniques typically work like gangbusters if she’s a little bit older but of course not every woman is the same, so you do always have to calibrate.