today, I’m revealing to you a clever quick little tip to help you get a pretty girl’s phone number.
Don’t you hate it when you ask a girl for her number, and she tells you, “I’m sorry. I don’t give out my phone number.”
Or even worse, she gives you a FAKE number and you call her and you get some guy named “Bob” on the phone instead.
Or she gives you an alternate number that always goes straight to voice mail.
Well, don’t let that happen to you.
With this little trick, it’s FAR more likely that a girl will happily agree to give you her number and pick up the phone when you call her…
Even if she’s a stunningly beautiful woman because you’ll get her number in a way that NO other guy has done before!
And I’ve also got a special extra bonus tip for you at the end…
That makes this work even BETTER…
So that girls are stuffing their numbers into your pocket.
So stick around through the whole video to catch that.
Let’s crack into it!
All right, I’ll give you an example FIRST.
Then I’m going to explain everything I’m doing and I’m saying it.
So BEFORE you get a girl’s number, BEFORE you ask for her number…
You want to say this to her:
“You know, girl, I like you.”
“I don’t know why I do.”
“I can’t really explain it. Its’ weird.”
“I don’t know what is about you. But I like you.”
“At first I wasn’t so sure about you, but you won me over.”
THEN, after you’ve said that, THEN you get the girl’s number.
Now, why is it so important to say all that first?
Let me explain:
Say you go up to a girl, and you tell her basically…
“Girl, you’re so beautiful! I like you. And I’m a cool guy. You like me.”
“Give me your number, pony up.”
Now your actual conversation would be longer than that, but that’s the condensed version.
Why doesn’t work
When you ask the girl for her number in that case
The problem is either she’s not a very pretty girl, who isn’t used to men hitting on her and she doesn’t understand WHY you want her number.
It feels like you just want to bang her.
Slam, bang, thank you, ma’am, and goodbye.
And you say your lines to ALL the girls, there’s nothing special about her compared to any other woman.
And if she’s a really beautiful girl, it feels like to her you’re just after her because of her looks.
In both cases, the girl will be like, “Well, you don’t know me. You just want one thing…”
“And I’m not chasing you either, so I’m not giving you my number.”
You need to qualify
So, what you need to do…
In ANY interaction with a girl, BEFORE you ask her for her number…
And this is ALWAYS the case, in ALL cases, No matter what…
You need to be like, “Yeah, you like her, but you’re on the fence about her.”
You’re not sure about her yet.”
“You’re a cute girl, but what have you got going for you? What makes you special?”
You need to qualify her at least a LITTLE.
Like for example you’d ask her, “So, what’s something about yourself that would make someone want to get to know you better?”
Or you’d ask her, “Can you cook? I really admire a girl that can cook something.”
Or you’d ask her, “Where’s the coolest place you’ve ever been?”
Or even ask her something arbitrary like, “What’s your favorite color, girl?”
And then use whatever answer she gives you as the reason she’s special and why you like her.
“Ah, your favorite color is blue. Nice! The color of the sky and the ocean. Very relaxing.”
“I like that girl. You’re special. One point for you.”
General rule here:
You always…ALWAYS…need to qualify a girl before you ask her for her number.
Even if it’s just real quick.
But you need to do it.
Okay, so after you qualify her…
THEN the next line is, “Okay, you won me over girl.”
“You won me over!”
“I was skeptical at first, but, you’ve impressed me.”
“I like that. You’re unique.”
Then, THEN ask her for number.
THAT right there will triple the amount of numbers you successfully get.
It makes a HUGE difference.
Because the average-looking girl thinks…
“Ah…I get it. He likes me because I’m unique. I’m special. He likes me because I’m not like the other girls.”
And the beautiful girl likewise thinks…
“Ah…he likes me because I’m special. I’m different. I’m unique. It’s not just my looks.”
And it feels like to her she had to prove herself to you. She had to win you over.
She had to convince you why you should like her.
There’s more of a real connection there.
And then, she feels way more comfortable giving you her number.
Make it mystical
Now, here’s another refinement to make it even BETTER.
Instead of saying, “Ah, you like the color blue. Nice. I like that. You’re special. Give me your phone number.”
Instead of saying that, make it a more mystical, inexplicable reason why you’re drawn to her…
Like unexplained destiny, an unexplained force drawing you to her.
So you say, “You know, I like you. I don’t know why I like you.”
“I can’t explain why I like you. I can’t quite place my finger on it.”
“It’s the weirdest thing.”
“At first, I thought I wouldn’t. I thought you’d be boring, but you won me over, girl.”
And then get her phone number. THAT’S the power move!
Make it destiny. Unexplained. Mystical. Girls love that romantic stuff.
“You won me over”
So let’s add a little more shall we?
This strictly isn’t necessary, but it can make it even more powerful.
So right before you get her phone number…
You give her a compliment, an SOI spike, statement of intent, or statement of interest.
You tell her for example, “You know, I don’t what it is about you. But you’ve got really nice eyes. Really pretty, seductive really. Maybe dangerous.”
Now you’re going to create an open curiosity loop that pulls her in.
Tell her, “Can I be honest with you? Can I trust you with a little secret?”
When she begs you to tell her what it is, you say, “You know at first, I wasn’t so sure about you.”
“At first I thought…yeah, she’s cute, but probably she’ll be boring. But I’m pleasantly surprised.”
“You’re not so bad after all. I can’t quite explain it. But You won me over.”
And now you can give her another SOI or compliment.
“You’re actually pretty smart. I like talking to you and that’s a rare thing.”
And THEN you ask her for her number.
Here’s another example.
“You know, I like your skin color. It’s very exotic.”
“Is it real? Or is it fake tan? Anyway, I like it.”
“Can I tell you a secret? It may surprise you a bit.”
“I wasn’t so sure about you at first. I thought you were gonna be just another pretty face but boring.”
“And I’m pleasantly surprised you. I don’t know what it is, but something about you I like I can’t quite place my finger on it.”
And then you proceed to ask her for her number.
Remember to Qualify!
You need to qualify her first for ANY of this to make any sense!
If all you do is compliment the girl, tell her she’s pretty…
And you chase her, chase her, chase her, and validate her…
It doesn’t make any sense then to tell her, “You know, I wasn’t sure about you at first, but you won me over.”
So, she’s got first prove herself to you first, even if it’s merely telling you something trivial about herself like what her favorite color is.
SOME form of qualification has to happen where she is selling herself to you and revealing something deeper about herself.
It HAS to be there. It doesn’t have to be much, but it HAS to be there a little.
Otherwise, she’ll feel like you have no standards and you’d just try to get the number of ANY girl.
She doesn’t feel special or unique.
So there you go.
Use that formula and girls, even beautiful girls, will stuff their phone numbers into your pocket.
And you’ll have your phone ringing off the hook.