…I want to give you six hacks or six tricks to overcoming approach anxiety. Now when I have a guy come onto one of my programs, one of the biggest sticking points he has is having approach anxiety. He has this severe fear that kind of wells up inside of him when he sees a girl, and that’s a…
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…I want to talk about approaching anxiety, that fear that literally strikes you through the heart when you spot a beautiful woman. You see her and you just freeze up. You don’t know what to do. Your brain starts coming up with thousands of excuses not to approach. “She’s too hot. I can’t do it. She’s not hot enough…
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…this video I teach you how to approach those real stunners, those really hot girls that normally intimidate you and cause you to freeze up. So you can get those girls that you really do deserve and not be at the mercy of the fears that control you. Go For The Hardest Sets! So the secret here is that you…
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…I mean later on, I got into pickup and I started doing cold approaches on girls, but the problem there is I would set for myself like a 30-day challenge, and I’d approach say five girls during the day every single day, and I was approaching so many girls that it just got kind of robotic. I would say a…
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…Albert asked me, “Hey, Jesse! How often should I go out to approach girls?” Well, here’s the key. You’re going to need to approach a lot of women. You’re going to need to approach a lot of women because most girls are going to be kind of average. If you really want that diamond in the rough, it’s going…
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…in the whole entire world ever known to mankind for meeting girls, and not ugly girls, mind you, not bitchy girls. No, your boy, Jesse, wouldn’t do that to you. No, we’re talking cute girls, sweet, loyal, loving angels. Best Place #1. cold approach during the daytime You’re walking along, you spot the girl out on the street, you go…
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…Approach Women Tip #1: Make Approaching Women Fun, Not a Task Do not view approaching women as a task. Meeting women is a chore for most men. They feel pressure or feel they need to achieve something or have their egos boosted. Instead, approaching women should be fun, playful, something that you like to do, because you want to…
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…just nice if you can pull it off, when you want. So I’ve created for you a short but enlightening video here based on people’s questions on how to handle and overcome approach anxiety. The first question is from Johnny. Jesse, how can I approach a lady I have never met before? For example, I have just seen her walking…
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…eyes are on her. She is the real deal. She is the 9. She is the 10. Now imagine she’s talking to a regular dude. She’s really thinking to herself as she’s talking to him, “I’m not just that attracted to this guy. When will a really hot guy approach me?” Is she really looking around the room? “Where is…
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…are the most interesting, most incredible man on the planet. Yet if you want every single girl to like you, you could approach a rather unattractive girl with no credentials. She’s unattractive. She doesn’t have her life together. She’s done nothing with her life. She’s not educated. She doesn’t care about her nutrition. She has sloppy habits. You go up…
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…is by saying hello to everyone, get you over your general approach anxiety, warms you up socially, builds momentum for you, AND you know all the girls in the club and they all know you – so later on in the night you can start “warm approaching” them. And that way you’re not stressing with anxiety about whether you’re a…
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…gut. You’re not going to feel motivated and going out to approach girls and meet girls, and do well with the women is going to be completely off the table because you’re going to feel like shit. You’re not going to be motivated, and you’re not going to feel entitled to have these pretty girls. But more than that, even…
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…I don’t know if you’ve ever experienced approach anxiety or you just don’t feel motivated to go out and meet girls because it’s tiring and exhausting and you’re worried about what kind of reaction you’re going to get. Well, you want to watch all the way to the end of this video because I’m going to be sharing with…
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…use myself. And by stepping into these different identities one can practice and strengthen different aspects of being the ultimate attractive man to women. The Risk Taker The first identity is the Risk Taker. It’s built into our code as human beings NOT to approach women that we don’t know, because in past times, approaching an attractive woman could get…
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…a lot of pros and cons, and all these rationalizations, but if you just kind of focus on the adventure, you’re going to come up with the right answer. Approach the girl? Adventure! Let’s say that you are at a bookstore. You’re just reading through the books. You know, you’re kind of out of state. Maybe you’re burnt out. You’re…
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…of times making excuses and not approaching the girl, not taking action. You’ve gotten very, very good at that and you’ve essentially got now excuse-making momentum rather than action-taking momentum. You see that very beautiful girl walk on by and you freeze up and you let the opportunity pass you by. Let’s examine another approach shall, we? The Reckless Mayhem…
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…things way back. You can’t build the same kind of momentum. Maybe you have a good set with a girl, good interaction with a girl, and then 20 minutes passes before you see another girl to approach. By that time, you’ve kind of gotten back inside your head. You’ve lost your momentum. Usually you can’t do a one-night stand on…
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…and he’s resisting the situation in front of him and, as a result, the first time he goes into a bar or club, he’s paralyzed completely into complete inaction. Approach anxiety takes hold, because he’s thinking so much, about all the possibilities of failure, which just results in him constantly second guessing himself, stalling, delaying, after 5 or 10 minutes…
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