feeling to have. But it’s something that can be overcome. In this video, I’ll be giving you six cool tricks to overcome it. Without further adieu, let’s get started. Approach Anxiety Tip #1. Approach Immediately The first trick is to actually just approach the girl immediately. You spot that girl and without hesitation, boom! You do it. Then maybe a…
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will click and I’ll get into this momentum phase, this social momentum where I’m not feeling all that resistance, where that approach anxiety will eventually melt away and I’ll come to a point of feeling indifferent about this situation. I can just approach, approach, approach and become more sociable. It’s basically understanding where that fear is going to be coming…
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…go, and that you don’t always have to act on them goes a long way to overcoming your approach anxiety. Technique #2. picture yourself opening Technique number two for opening girl without approach anxiety is a mental exercise that I like to do where I picture myself in the upcoming moments, opening a girl. I imagine the scenario, and I…
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…girl you want to approach. You’re at a loud club and nobody can even hear you speak and there’s a beautiful girl there? That’s the girl that you want to approach. Approaching really difficult sets that are brutal, will make approaching regular girls seem easy in comparison. How I Died On The Mile Take this as an analogy… back when…
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…mean later on, I got into pickup and I started doing cold approaches on girls, but the problem there is I would set for myself like a 30-day challenge, and I’d approach say five girls during the day every single day, and I was approaching so many girls that it just got kind of robotic. I would say a line…
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Albert asked me, “Hey, Jesse! How often should I go out to approach girls?” Well, here’s the key. You’re going to need to approach a lot of women. You’re going to need to approach a lot of women because most girls are going to be kind of average. If you really want that diamond in the rough, it’s going to…
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…“But, Jesse,” you’re saying, “if I had a big social circle full of friends and knew hot girls, I already have a hot girlfriend, and I want to be watching this video.” Fair point, which brings us to the best place number 3 for meeting cute girls Best Place #3. Combine cold approach and social circle Meaning, gentlemen, approach cute…
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Approach Women Tip #1: Make Approaching Women Fun, Not a Task Do not view approaching women as a task. Meeting women is a chore for most men. They feel pressure or feel they need to achieve something or have their egos boosted. Instead, approaching women should be fun, playful, something that you like to do, because you want to get…
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And so then fear kicks in and your mind then starts to rationalize reasons not to approach, like “Oh she’s not friendly looking enough,” or “What would I say.” But the real problem is that you’re not in that great state, the state I call the Starlight state, that’s really the Key to approaching beautiful girls. Approach anxiety cannot exist…
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…feelings go downwards, so it’s like up and down, up and down, up and down. You have no control over it. Approach Anxiety That’s what gives you approach anxiety and makes you nervous talking to girls because you’re depending on how you feel based on how other people respond to you. You’re giving them the power over how you feel,…
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…the kind of mindset you want to have. Now of course when you see that 9 or 10 girl, you go up, talk to her. Approach her, but you can be cool approaching and talking to the 6, to the 7, to the 5, to the 4. After all, it doesn’t hurt you. You get a little bit of practice…
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I want to talk about how the aging process affects your game. How is it different for a 20-year-old compared to that of a 40-year-old because I started this about 20 years ago almost back when I was around 20 years old. Now I’m nearly 40 years old, so I’ve had the unique perspective of experiencing the game and approaching…
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a mindset shift that you can make, an inner game technique that is going to make approaching women feel way easier. You’re going to have less approach anxiety. You’re going to get much better reactions from girls because you’re going to be giving off and much more positive energy and just all around it’s going to make your game way…
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…number TWO: As far as approaching a girl. Instead of hesitating and fatiguing yourself, just get into the habit of approaching any girl that you find halfway cute and strike up a conversation. Get to the point where approaching a girl feels commonplace, where it’s just an automatic behavior that you just do that doesn’t engage the decision-making part of…
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Cold approaching girls in bars and clubs isn’t always effective; it’s FAR better if you can “warm approach” girls, where the girls feel like they already know you. Because when you already know them, you’re “warm approaching” the girls and you get far better reactions! What a lot of guys will do is just enter the club with the intention…
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…that acceptance he’s going to feel even shittier. So he’ll break through all the thinking, and approach, and he will approach the girl but he’s desperate for acceptance and validation. This causes the guy to be very careful in how he approaches, causes him to speak with a very quiet, apologizing voice, causes him to be very conservative in what…
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…ego I’ve created gets shattered. Wait! If I’m going to be the greatest ladies’ man that ever lived, I can’t be nervous. I’m getting nervous! I’m getting nervous! I can’t be nervous.” It just messes with your head and you start making excuses to yourself not to approach girls. “You know that girl over there? I’m not going to approach…
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…times making excuses and not approaching the girl, not taking action. You’ve gotten very, very good at that and you’ve essentially got now excuse-making momentum rather than action-taking momentum. You see that very beautiful girl walk on by and you freeze up and you let the opportunity pass you by. Let’s examine another approach shall, we? The Reckless Mayhem Mentality…
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