make your first approach of the day. After you’ve made this first approach, the next ones are much easier. Approaching a random guy and asking for direction can be viewed as a first approach. It puts you in social mode. You’re not stuck in your head anymore. And once you’ve made this first approach, talking to a girl will seem…
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feeling to have. But it’s something that can be overcome. In this video, I’ll be giving you six cool tricks to overcome it. Without further adieu, let’s get started. Approach Anxiety Tip #1. Approach Immediately The first trick is to actually just approach the girl immediately. You spot that girl and without hesitation, boom! You do it. Then maybe a…
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will click and I’ll get into this momentum phase, this social momentum where I’m not feeling all that resistance, where that approach anxiety will eventually melt away and I’ll come to a point of feeling indifferent about this situation. I can just approach, approach, approach and become more sociable. It’s basically understanding where that fear is going to be coming…
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Approach Women Tip #1: Make Approaching Women Fun, Not a Task Do not view approaching women as a task. Meeting women is a chore for most men. They feel pressure or feel they need to achieve something or have their egos boosted. Instead, approaching women should be fun, playful, something that you like to do, because you want to get…
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And so then fear kicks in and your mind then starts to rationalize reasons not to approach, like “Oh she’s not friendly looking enough,” or “What would I say.” But the real problem is that you’re not in that great state, the state I call the Starlight state, that’s really the Key to approaching beautiful girls. Approach anxiety cannot exist…
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…go, and that you don’t always have to act on them goes a long way to overcoming your approach anxiety. Technique #2. picture yourself opening Technique number two for opening girl without approach anxiety is a mental exercise that I like to do where I picture myself in the upcoming moments, opening a girl. I imagine the scenario, and I…
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Cold approaching girls in bars and clubs isn’t always effective; it’s FAR better if you can “warm approach” girls, where the girls feel like they already know you. Because when you already know them, you’re “warm approaching” the girls and you get far better reactions! What a lot of guys will do is just enter the club with the intention…
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…the mistake is—he doesn’t approach girls at all! But let’s say you do start approaching. How many hours a week do you need to put into this? You might think, “Well, “I can put 2 or 3 hours a week, and I’ll be good.” But here’s the problem with that. Say you’re going out once a week to approach women,…
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…up. The mistake is, well, the mistake is he doesn’t approach girls at all. But let’s say you do start approaching, how many hours a week do you need to put into this? You might think, “Well, I can put 2 or 3 hours a week, and I’ll be good.” But here’s the problem with that: Say you’re going out…
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…“But, Jesse,” you’re saying, “if I had a big social circle full of friends and knew hot girls, I already have a hot girlfriend, and I want to be watching this video.” Fair point, which brings us to the best place number 3 for meeting cute girls Best Place #3. Combine cold approach and social circle Meaning, gentlemen, approach cute…
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…that acceptance he’s going to feel even shittier. So he’ll break through all the thinking, and approach, and he will approach the girl but he’s desperate for acceptance and validation. This causes the guy to be very careful in how he approaches, causes him to speak with a very quiet, apologizing voice, causes him to be very conservative in what…
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…C.” But look if you have this kind of thought process, this kind of mentality, you’re being super analytical. Most likely, your feeling approach anxiety. And most likely, you’re going to have trouble approaching any women, even girls A and B, if you’re that inside your head, thinking in sneaky terms and being so thought based tactical. Look, even if…
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…Up. I’m not going to go into detail as I’m sure you’ve read your share, but I personally break approaching down into two categories. The categories are “Inner Game Approaches” and “Serious Approaches”. Inner game approaches are the crazy ones I spoke about earlier – yelling at a waitress across the restaurant. These approaches build your indifference and make your…
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…the kind of mindset you want to have. Now of course when you see that 9 or 10 girl, you go up, talk to her. Approach her, but you can be cool approaching and talking to the 6, to the 7, to the 5, to the 4. After all, it doesn’t hurt you. You get a little bit of practice…
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…number TWO: As far as approaching a girl. Instead of hesitating and fatiguing yourself, just get into the habit of approaching any girl that you find halfway cute and strike up a conversation. Get to the point where approaching a girl feels commonplace, where it’s just an automatic behavior that you just do that doesn’t engage the decision-making part of…
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…you simply can compete in clubs with older guys. You won’t have the energy they have. So, approaching every girl in a club is a bad idea since you will compete with other guys that approach everything that moves. What you should do instead is approach couple of girls in the club. But overall, you want to avoid loud places…
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…means certainty in your actions. Since you truly don’t care about the outcome, positive or negative, you take actions with certainty. Like when you want to tie your shoelaces, you just bend over and do it without hesitation and tie with certainty. Because you’re not concerned about the outcome. Certainty in your actions applies to approaching women. You approach without…
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case, a direct approach can work because you’re approaching a girl with the same social status as you. A 6 or a 7 will sleep with a 6 in other words. You might even land an 8 once in a while with direct approaches if you’re nonverbal skills are good and if you play the numbers. But what if you’re…
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