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6 Ways to Get a Girlfriend If You’re a Shy Guy

…at times. Getting what you want, living the good life isn’t always about pleasant feelings. The thing with today’s society is that when something is uncomfortable, we just give up or don’t do it because you have a world of comfort at your fingertips. If you just want to play comfortable video games and watch comfortable entertainment television and eat…

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4 Tips to Get a LOYAL, Loving GIRLFRIEND! | Harden Up in Difficult Situations

…are complete fantasies because you are stuck, stuck, my friend. Stuck in comfortable habits that you’ve been repeating for years now, maybe decades now where 90 percent of your day looks exactly like the day before in terms of your thoughts and your actions. Yes, you want an amazing girlfriend, you want to have better sex, you want to have…

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5 Steps For A Shy Guy To Get A Girlfriend

…me. I feel uncomfortable. I’m giving up. I’m going to go back to playing comfortable video games. I’m going to go back to watching comfortable television. I’m going to go back to eating comfortable, salty, fatty, sugary food.” People just give up too easily. If you continually push, however, on your comfort zone, over the weeks, over the months, you…

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20’s vs. 30’s: Picking Up Women

…and you’re going to be more discombobulated when you do so. As you get older, your path to actually do well and feel well becomes narrower and narrower and tighter and tighter. The second thing that happens as you get older is you become more entrenched in wanting comfort, in seeking comfort, and not pushing your comfort zone. When you’re…

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7 Unfair Advantages Good Looking Guys Have- How Girls Treat Attractive Dudes

…hook point, that’s the moment where she’s comfortable with you being there. She’s just as comfortable with you staying as if you were to leave. She’s maybe starting to invest BACK into the conversation as well. And those first few minutes are usually the HARDEST for a guy. He feels the most pressure to make the girl “like him.” He…

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4 happiness destroying mistakes you’re making

…because it’s simply more comfortable sitting in your chair playing a videogame. You don’t want to eat that big green bowl of salad because it’s simply more comfortable to eat that pizza. You don’t want to study for the test or do the work because it’s simply more comfortable watching television. Choosing that easy, short-term route of feeling comfortable, yes,…

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A Quick Fix To Overcoming Your Fear of Women

To overcome your fear of women, what I want to talk about next is something I call “situational comfort”. Ever walk into a bar or club and feel uncomfortable or out of place? I mean, can you stand in a nightclub, all by yourself, with no agenda and be perfectly comfortable without fear of women? Or how about this… have…

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How To Build The Confidence To Talk To Girls

woman, ask her for directions and that feels incredibly uncomfortable. But after you do it two or three times, you realize you’re not going to die and it’s not so bad. Maybe the next time you ask an old woman her opinion on something, that feels incredibly uncomfortable, but you’re pushing your comfort zone a little bit and eventually the…

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7 Ways to Kiss a Girl the First Time – And Have Her Kiss Back!

…just means that she needs to have more comfort, so you simply want to back off, talk more, vibe more, wait for her to get more comfortable with you and then try again a little bit later. Then she’ll likely kiss you on your second try because on your first attempt, you’ve already demonstrated a lot of sexy traits just…

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What Girls Really Mean By ‘Just Be Yourself’

…around even if he had sex with me.” She Wants Comfort With Mr. Right So if she was giving advice to this high-status guy, how can you keep me, she’s going to say to him, “She wants him to make her feel extremely comfortable. He already has the attraction.” He just needs to build the comfort, so she doesn’t feel…

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Alpha Eye Contact Attraction: Get This Girl-Getting Gaze

…up on the boundary of your comfort zone. You want to think of your comfort zone as like this balloon, that at first the balloon is very small, but you talk to that first girl, and you’re pushing up on the boundary of the balloon, expanding it a little bit. You talk to the second girl, you’re pushing up on…

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4 crazy truths about noFAP

…sit back and relax. You don’t have to go anywhere. You’re nice, warm and comfortable. You can grab some ice cream from the fridge. It’s right there. Everything you could want. All the creature comforts of your home. And you get this immediate pleasure that just pings your brain right away at your command. It’s like an escape, like watching…

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3 Strange Ways Lifting Weights Gets You Laid

…very important lessons in terms of persistence and consistency in pushing through negative emotions, pushing through pain, pushing through discomfort. Because what does the average guy do? He goes up. He talks to a few girls. He’s got a bunch of things wrong like he’s not throwing up a positive vibe. He’s really worried about getting approval. He’s not smiling….

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The Reason You Don’t Get Laid Easy – Seeking Comfort Over…

…tropical island somewhere, and they’re just having everything brought to them, and they’re having girls brought to them. They get lost in that comfort, lifestyle, and you see them fall off the wagon whereas before they were these cool guys with lots of swagger, lots of drive. They eventually just kind of degrade over the years into these fat fucking…

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Stuck In The ‘Uncanny Valley’ Of Attraction With Girls?

…sweet spot of almost real but not 100 percent real and that creates this feeling of creeping people out. The term valley refers to that dip and comfort that people feel. For example, on the lower end of the spectrum where things do not look real, take C3P0 and R2D2, they’re very cute. You feel a lot of comfort around…

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