My lady has always had a difficult time reaching orgasm, and easily falls out of the mood if anything seems off: lights, sounds, any bit of stress, any open action items on her todo list, audible breathing, a bird flying by the window (ok I'm exaggerating now). I have success with pimp talk to get her in the mood, and am more dominant than before, but she's told me that pimp talk while she's really aroused then she can't concentrate. I've tried my best to help her relax, but she is afraid of just letting go, and she feels like she has to be in control of herself at all times. I have worked on my own fundamentals, dominance, and although got room to improve, I think it's overshadowed by her own psychological blocks. Has anyone else on here had similar experiences, and were successful in giving their girls orgasms more frequently? I've tried many physical techniques, but I think there's more to it than that.