Imagine you're at a bar. Which of these 4 options represents the best sequence of emotions to create in a girl?
The correct answer is to make her feel charged excitement for you, followed by sexual tension.
Making her feel comfortable is what needy nice guys too... it CAN work, but it's more effective to create a little charged excitement instead.
And making her feel sexual comfort typically comes AFTER making her feel sexual tension.
Imagine you're at a bar, and you spot a man and a woman together. If you want to find out if she's single or if they're a couple, which is best:
The correct answer is to ask the WOMAN how they know each other.
If you ask the MAN, he might lie and falsely tell you that they're together.
If you ask them how they BOTH know each other, the woman might look to the man to get his approval first.
Asking the girl directly will get you the most honest answer.
You can also ask her directly if she's single or not, but this is more bold and polarizing and won't always work.
Imagine you use a cheesey pickup line on a girl and she replies, "So do you say that line to ALL the girls you meet??" What's the best way to answer her:
The correct answer of these 4 options is to simply say "Yes" if she gives you a congruence test.
Saying, "No of course I don't!" is buying into her frame and trying to explain yourself to her, and you fail the test.
Getting butthurt and saying "You are rude!" shows her an emotional reaction, and you fail the test.
Giving her a logical explanation with "Well, sometimes," is better.
But just saying "Yes" with no emotional reaction at all is the best answer of these 4.
Imagine you spot a pretty girl at the bookstore with her nose in a book. Which of these opening lines would most likely get you the BEST results with her:
The best opening line in this case would be to use an opener that creates curiosity in her mind and pulls her into the conversation.
Telling her that she looks stunning CAN work, but girls are so used to getting compliments on their phones nowadays from Simps that it can start you off on the wrong foot.
Asking for her opinion about your sunglasses CAN work, but after she answers you'll effectively need to open her AGAIN with something else.
Saying "I noticed you noticing me" is an extremely cocky opener and CAN work, but it's polarizing and not as reliable as simply pulling her into the conversation with curiosity.
You hit it off with a girl at a bar, and you jump into a taxi/Uber together to go back to your place. While inside the car you should:
Inside the taxi back to your place, the correct answer is to keep talking to her a lot. You want to keep her mind distracted in those minutes.
Making out with her in the taxi can work, but you're actually breaking the sexual tension in many cases.
You don't need to "seed the pull" in the taxi, since she's already going back to your place anyway.
If you start asking her what she likes in bed, that can backfire because she might start thinking you're just after sex.
What mindset will generally get you the BEST results with girls:
The best mindset is to rate girls' looks on the 0n the 0 or 1 scale, rather than the 1 to 10 scale.
When you rate girls on the 1 to 10 scale, you're putting hotter girls up on a pedestal, so when you spot a 9 or 10, suddenly you're too nervous to approach her and say 'hello'.
It also puts you "inside your head" and over thinking if you're ruthlessly rating girl's looks.
When you use the 0 or 1 scale, you'll talk to a LOT more girls, you won't be as nervous around the hotter ones, and you'll actually get WAY more success.
To build sexual tension with a girl, which of these are your BEST option:
Your best option to build sexual tension is to hold eye contact and slow down your speaking cadence with more pauses. This is the most reliable method.
Asking her sexually charged questions by itself can actually break the sexual tension in some cases, and can be inherently risky and polarizing.
Giving her a palm reading can certainly build sexual tension, but it's more situational and less universal than using eye contact and your voice.
Telling her, "I can see it in your eyes..." is a very cocky challenging statement designed more for building charged excitement and attraction.
Imagine you're at a bar talking to a hot girl. She says nothing back and just looks at you with a flat "too cool for school" expression. What should you do next:
The correct answer is to do say or do something shocking or provocative... to force her into an emotional response, even if it's surprise or shock or laughter.
If you excuse yourself, it's like you're auto-rejecting yourself and protecting your ego from rejection.
Plowing through and asking her more questions CAN work sometimes, but it's not as powerful as provoking her.
If you turn your back on her and disengage, oftentimes that early in the set the girl will lose interest and simply walk away from you.
The BEST place to take a girl on a first date is:
The BEST place to take a girl on a first date, at least out of these 4 options, is to a cafe and then a bar.
In a cafe, you can look into her eyes to create sexual tension, and you can physically escalate on her. At a bar, she can then have drink and loosen up even more.
A dance club is terrible place to take a girl on a first date because you're competing for her attention with other men, with the distracting lights, and all the noise.
A movie or comedy show isn't good either because the focus should be on YOU and HER, not on the show.
Taking a girl to the park or a zoo can work, but it's harder to build sexual tension when you're walking around together.
When you go up to a girl to say hello, in those first three seconds you should:
The correct answer is to give her a "big celebrity smile" when you first say hello to a girl in those first few seconds.
The first thing a girl will do is read your face to determine if you're friend or foe, and giving her a big smile helps to disarm her and make her feel comfortable.
A playful smirk can also work, but a big smile is stronger.
After a few seconds, once the girl is more comfortable with you, the big smile becomes less important.
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